What brought you to that decision?
Are you not worried about loneliness in older age?
Any bachelors free to comment.
I am considering it and am trying to weigh up the pros and cons.
2007-07-31 01:38:45 · 9 answers · asked by abluebobcat 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I meant "here" before anyone comments.
2007-07-31 01:40:32 · update #1
I'm thinking about it...
Why? Coming out of a relationship that I thought was it.
Worried? Not really, but seriously, how can one predict that?
I think of not having to worry about getting hurt again...think about not having anyone to "worry" about...
But then, yeah, I think of waking up alone every day...
Basically I'm just not looking - and not going to look - if I meet a woman and fall in love...well, this whole answer might be right out the window...again...until the next time
2007-07-31 01:46:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeh I have decided to become a born again bachelor. Been burnt too many times, I just finsh raising my 2 girls and be led by The Lord God and not worldly women. The last ten years have been fairly blessed, when by self so I will keep it that way, as every time a lady entered so did chaos.
2007-07-31 08:47:24 · answer #2 · answered by Michael of G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...I've contemplated it only as a possibility my friend......surely I'm not interested in having "loneliness" be a significant part of my life...how absurd really! I'm too into women and socializing to become a hermit really...but the significant woman I seek out in life eludes me for some reason. I'm keeping my eyes ears and mind wide open right now....but my heart is simply in a mode of self preservation for the moment. It got tossed off of a woman's mental bridge last fall unexpectedly. Now there's simply a big high wall that's taken it's place unwittingly. I'm looking for someone to remove this wall from my own mental fixation reasonably. I'm searching for the demolition crew within myself to help remove this big old wall too. It's funny how bonds between really good people get broken unnervingly. No explanation was given for her departure last fall otherwise.
2007-07-31 08:50:25 · answer #3 · answered by scott s 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either way,there is no escape.It's basically similar on either side of the fence except for some meaningless visuals,which we call as pros and cons.
2007-07-31 08:47:21 · answer #4 · answered by brkshandilya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it looks as if im never going to have a date in my life the way im going and no its not by choice its my inner self belifes etc and confidence preventing me howether im not going to act like im hopeless and that ill sort it all out and i will be fine .
Marriage cost money and you only get to shag one girl how boring lol .
2007-07-31 09:07:26 · answer #5 · answered by badass-mofu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some events brought me to that decision
Yeah a bit
Don't do that
2007-07-31 08:43:54 · answer #6 · answered by Goldman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a bachelor is just waiting for the tide
they still wants to know what the next tide can bring
2007-07-31 08:48:06 · answer #7 · answered by kimht 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well yea i decided tht but i came to the conclusion tht its never gonna stay tht way cause when u are older, things change.
2007-07-31 08:44:03 · answer #8 · answered by vision_star95 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I HEAR nothing about Bachelors. I am not HEAR, nor there. But, alas, dear "***-ker" thou has no clue as to English written, nor have you faced the buttermilk sadness of thy ill fitting tongue.
2007-07-31 08:45:21 · answer #9 · answered by Al Capone 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋