Ive been with my husband for 4 years, married 2 lived together 1 prior. I have 3 kids from a previous marriage. He has 2 from his previous, although he doesnt have custody of his. He is a truck driver who is only home every other weekend. His x wife is a horrible spiteful manipulative woman. I try very hard to go above and beyond for my husband and my step children, and gone through alot from his x wife in the process, her walking into my house w/ out invite, her lying to my husband to cause us to fight, her trashing me and my husband to the kids, her always being late and not having any respect for our household as if we are to cater to her, she uses the kids as pawns, and has even gone as far as to try and humiliate me and physically harm, and when her son was sick she told me to give him a tylenol then she picked him up took him to the docs and had a tox screen ran on him. implying i had od'ed him. I have watched the kids in the past to help her while she worked, and weeks at a time
2007-07-31
16:59:18
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And because my husband isn’t home, I watch the kids a lot with out him here, which only fuels her to treat me horribly cause he’s not here, and she uses the my side vrs her side of the story with my husband. My husband playcates to her a lot because he is worried that she will keep the kids from him. He also believes that they are better off in our house even if he isn’t there. Well basically after 4 years of being treated like crap, when she tried to physically harm me that was the last straw, and I asked my husband that from now on, that the kids not be here unless he is here.. nothing against my step kids cause I love them,
2007-07-31
16:59:54 ·
update #1
but I cant keep dealing with his x wife. He took it as an assult to him and his kids, and basically said if I don’t watch the kids for his x wife that our marriage is basically over, and said I am trying to wedge him and his kids by not babysitting the kids for her. His guilt for not being there for his kids has boiled over to him being angry at me for not picking up the pieces for him. He says that the kids benefit from being with us whether he’s home or not, and that im being the horrible one for not wanting to deal with her. Any advice
2007-07-31
17:00:08 ·
update #2