not too long ago i met a guy in college. he is 22 years old just finished university in england and as a matter of fact he topped his dicipline. he has recently moved to Canada. he is gentle and kind and very generous. he also has old fashioned etiquetes, opening doors, paying the bill, walking to the door etc. i heard that he dated briefly in college but doesn't date anymore. i asked him why he doesn't go out any more and he said he finds dating a waste of time. he wants to finish off his post graduate specialisation, find a decent job, have his own place (he is house sharing at the moment) and only then he wants to be involved in a relationship. he is a muslim, not very practicing but i know for sure that he is very careful. he doesn't drink, indulge in premarital sex, gamble, discuss other girls etc. and he is not gay!!! i really like him and find his company very charming. he doesn't want to date till he settles down (which is another 2 years or so, till he turns 25)
2007-07-31 20:32:45 · 6 answers · asked by bushra m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what do you think i should do? do other girls respect guys like this or they think they should move on? if a guy wants to wait till he is earning better or is more independent... is that a good thing?
2007-07-31 20:35:00 · update #1
he is worth the wait
2007-08-01 15:40:02 · answer #1 · answered by Oasis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im not sure if my opinion would count or not, but seeing that no one else has put in their advise , ill just give mine.
Im an India(the one from India,lol) and i am a guy but having read ur details about this guy, i feel that u dont "love" u just like being around him because of his good qualities and all.
If you really want to see how far it goes with him, you can be a close friend of his for the next '2 years' and then take it from there, because if you do this, not only will you be able to spend time with this guy,but also you can be the first to get your hands on him when he does get ready to date.
Hope that advise helps, you can email me if you still have any issues. Take care and best of luck.
2007-07-31 20:43:33 · answer #2 · answered by xXx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is as good to his word when he says he doesn't want to date & wants to focus on his studies & organising his life first.
For asian people, the studies & the organising of life is always in the 1st priority of a student/undergraduate. Probably your guy came from a strict family background. I once used to think like this too & no guy could have possibly come close to me....
So, just keep being friends with him - maybe even good friends but go on with your life. For now, he is closed to any relationships & given his strict family & religious brought up, it will take quite a while before he changes his mind.
2007-07-31 20:42:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually it is, he has set high standards for himself and with his attitude he will reach his goals without a problem. If you are seriously considering a meaningful relationship with him, maybe even marriage, I would advise you to research the Muslim religion. Most are genuinely good people, but just for curiosity sake look into it and see if you would be comfortable.
2007-07-31 20:41:58 · answer #4 · answered by Firebird 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm a woman n i'm shy til u get to be responsive to me. i'm going to take a seat in school quiet n no longer refer to everybody n wen ppl refer to me i'm getting worried...... yet while ik u n have been friends i'm plenty greater outgoing .... I basically get worried around greater recent human beings n i'm getting scared..... adult men continually calls me cute n cute cuz i'm shy, short, have been given an outstanding physique, im sweetheart til u piss me off, stuff like that......
2016-11-10 21:29:01 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You scare me and so does he....
2007-07-31 20:38:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋