i m a 22 yr old girl n i m presently seeing a guy for the past 1 yr..i had my belief tht i wud not hav sex till i get married..my bf is not a virgin..n i had told him tht we ud not hav sex until we get married..he was completlt alrite with it..but until recently we r getting really attracted to having sex..i mean we almost had sex once..n since then i m really scared..i dont want to do it..but wen we r alone..i cant stop myself..giv me some ideas of how i can stay away frm sex..n save my relationship also..coz i hav a feeling tht if i break up wid my bf..i can avoid having sex..i m really confused..i cant stay away frm him..wht do i do..please help..!!!
2007-07-31 19:43:42 · 16 answers · asked by naina s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2007-07-31 19:55:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Excuse Me! But i'm pregnant, I'm 16. Im Not Immature, I Was On The Pill & Gotten Pregnant. Parents Can Bring Their Children Up In The Best Possible Way, But Then Their Children Still Get Pregnant. In My Opinion, If You're Old Enough To Lay Down And Have Sex, You're Old Enough To Know The Risks & And Get Pregnant And Contracting Sexually Transmitted Diseases. Parents Can't Stop You From Having Sex At A Young Age, And Most Certainly Not, Should The Morning After Pill Should NOT Be Kept At Home, That's Just Condoning Unprotected Sex. All Parents Can Do Is Advice Their Children Who Are Having Sex Or Going To, Is To Use Protection...
2016-05-19 21:36:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHt is dis to have r not to every1 makes his/ her own choice gud for tem.. u made a mistake once so its pulling u to experience it again n again if d control level of ur mind is k no probs ..
one better solution get married to him soon as possible or if thts not possible avoid meeting up in homes or private places..hang around in public places whr ud not hav much chances to do so..
2007-08-01 00:31:57 · answer #3 · answered by sweety 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u don't have sex, say me him no!!!, ask him to understand that this is not the right time, if he still insists u need to keep a chech, play safe use condoms... Its no harm.. Attraction is obvious, so keep ur cool, n simply don't think abt it,If u want to avoid try n meet public places more often, avoid lonely, or meet with common friends...
2007-07-31 20:56:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bottom line is, just me strong. pretend you are on a strict no sex diet, and if you have sex you will gain 40 lbs. just think how horrible that would be...you couldnt fit into your clothes and your boyfriend might not be attracted to you anymore, all because you had sex.
it might take a bit of imagination. or cuddle, cuddling is great and you get the closeness of sex without the sex.
ps i think it is great that your bf is fine with the no sex, but tell him you need a little help. tell him he will gain 80 lbs if you guys decide to get it on
2007-07-31 20:11:25 · answer #5 · answered by supersubjanae10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U do not want to have sex or u do not want to have sex with him,If u r serious to not have sex then u tell ur bf.If he is honest in these relations with u he will definately co-operate you . You can limit yourself upto kiss level.Do not think to stay away from ur bf.
Good friendship is the best gift of God Almighty.
2007-07-31 20:04:32 · answer #6 · answered by Apurva S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to me honey. i know exactly how you feel
if you dont want to. keep saying that you dont want. for me sex is not that important when u r still seeing ur boyfriend. (afer marriage yessss dont get me wrong) but be careful, if u let him take advantage of you, whats left of the relationship?? u r together for sex :S and its not the way it should be. there are sooo many things that couples can do for fun without having sex. and if he tells you, i want to coz i love you, tell him if u love me u respect me and dont force me do such things.
if he keeps insisting, goddd tell him dont u understand? if u dont like what im saying just go. boys dont live without sex. i know what i'm saying . but there are a few that are different from all the others. just a few :)
i hope u keep showing ur strong character. dont fall ... ok???
hope i helped xxxxxxxx
2007-07-31 22:36:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have got the answer of ur problem by ur self but u r just unaware of it........!I mean, you should meet him only in public places or in other words "not in loneliness".this will not divert ur mind towards sex & at the same time u will able to save ur relation.
there is also another tip. wear decent & simple dress,not showy one. this make a decent impression of u.Guys will automatically talk & act decently towards u & as a result ur sexuall emotions will not b boosted.
2007-07-31 20:27:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dear, u dont be scared of all these things that he'll leave u if u tell him not to do that again. if he is really having the same feeling as you are having he would definately respect your feelings, you can have a talk with him to support you even if you are in a place where you are not able to stop yourself from getting indulge in physical intimacy.
2007-07-31 21:57:49 · answer #9 · answered by kanika b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't understand you and breaks up just bcz u r not having sex without marriage, really he is not worth. Don't worry, stay firm and I hope he will understand you.
2007-08-03 12:37:54 · answer #10 · answered by ket 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋