ive already got ova the infatuation and have moved onto the real deal, eg loving the good and bad about him weve already planned our whole lives together. do you think i should stay steady or be exited about our future?
2007-07-31 20:08:37 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hi thought i write to ya i had my first love at 14 and got pregnant at 15 im still with him and my daughter is three now she is a lovely girl but if i had a chance to go back time i would !!!!!!!!!! good luck girl
2007-08-01 07:04:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um dear you are not over the infatuation!! im glad you know the word and must have some understanding of the difference of love and infatuation but at fourteen you truly have no clue as to what love really means and lets just say it is love...ok well at fourteen man you are still so young even though i know you feel like you know everything and have done so much but in reality you have sooo much more to live through, sooo many more people to meet and a lot more to do before you actually can come to a point where it would be realistic for you to be in such a relationship to be calling it love and to be thinking about a future with another person
2007-07-31 20:16:06 · answer #2 · answered by ELIZY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I truly believe that you can be in love at 14, because when i was fourteen i met the most beautiful person he was my first kiss and took me on my first romantic date at 14, dated for a whole and lost contact for 6years, on 27 January 2007 we mysteriously met again after thinking of him for years and comparing every guy i have dated after him to what he was and we fell in love at first sight, weve been dating for 6 months now and its still perfect. Now i am not saying fall head over heels in love at 14 and only plan youre life according to the things you experience now i had to grow up and live before i could find him again if we dated from when i was 14 things would not have been like it is now you have to experience life before big plans can be put into action, but dont stop dreaming maybe he is youre prince charming just dont give everything too quick make sure of it first, take it steady make sure there is so much out there to see before you start settleling in and getting comfortable!
2007-07-31 20:24:51 · answer #3 · answered by ELLE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having fallen in love for the first time is a beautiful thing. all the emotions running through you like you've never felt before. its awesome. just keep a level head and be smart. you r 14 yrs old and you have your whole life ahead of you dont do something foolish and regret it for the rest of your life. be happ and enjoy things now if this is the right person a few years together letting your relationship get stronger is the best thing to do.
2007-07-31 20:13:13 · answer #4 · answered by bubba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you are probably tired of hearing this, but as a 16 year old, I think you should slow down a little. I had my first real love at 15. I know I loved him, and I know he loved me...but sometimes things don't always work out.
Don't plan ahead so far right now...It's a little fast.
2007-07-31 20:11:25 · answer #5 · answered by philenacarter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok i married young (i was 23) i regret it big time, i know you have heard this before but your fourteen, you need to plan your life first, School career home car THEN worry about the man part when you can take care of yourself.
2007-07-31 20:15:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since your only 14, I think, you have too much life left to plan the whole thing. Secondly, if you feel u can't live without him then you should wait til you're 18 to keep him outta jail, u see?
2007-07-31 20:15:52 · answer #7 · answered by Da B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age is just a number....stay steady don push things....also you may be fourteen but everyone has to love someone...no matter what age..i was in the first grade when i had my first love and we ended up bein together for quiet a while 6 years later....jus don push things keep steady
2007-07-31 20:13:44 · answer #8 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I truly hate to say this but, I think you should be planning what college you want to go to instead of trying to plan a married life right now. You are too young to even be thinking about that yet.
2007-07-31 20:12:47 · answer #9 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
steady....believe me, you will change and your visions for the future will change too - and they might not agree. Best to just enjoy simple young love and not add the pressures of "the whole life together" just yet.
2007-07-31 20:14:23 · answer #10 · answered by Signilda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋