Ok, I have a friend that goes to the same school as me, we like to hang out and everything but, at school he always teases me and embarreses me, for example i asked a serious question about when guys got sperm..and hes blabbed all to my friends about it..
But the wierd thing is, outside of school when he comes over my house he is normal and never teases me or anything and we get along really well.
Its pretty obvious hes trying to be cool by teasing me, and I've had a serious talk to him about it but he doesnt takeit seriously, laughs and walks off.
Is he my Friend??
2007-07-31 20:54:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
And I've tried ignoring him and trying to seriously tell him if hes not gunna treat me better, and he doesnt care at school. Maybe i should ask him outside of school?
2007-07-31 21:08:04 · update #1
No. It doesn't seem like he is anyway. It sounds like he hangs wit you outside of school but in school he wants to act cool in-front of his other friends...so i would tell him outside of school wen he comes over that he needs to have your back and stuff and just talk to him and if he laughs or something tell him this is serious and if you cant be a serious friend at these times then you aren't really my friend.....and tell him i don't like being laughed at and when i talk to you seriously i don't want for you to acted immature
♥Hayhay♥
2007-08-08 14:35:41 · answer #1 · answered by ♥hayhay♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he's a good friend. You need to stand up for yourself. Basically, what he's doing is ditching you for the cool crowd and expecting for you to just stick with him even though he treats you like dirt.
My advice: Write him a letter. Stick it in his locker so you can make sure he gets it (stick it in the corrrect locker!). It's easier to tell somebody something if you write it instead of say it to their face. Explain to him why you feel hurt. Tell him you demand an apology, or you will not be his friend anymore. Also: begin hanging out with other people. That will kill two birds with one stone: it will help your friend realize that you are serious and not just kidding around AND it will help you start on the path to new friendships. If the friendhsip does not work out, DO NOT treat him like dirt. Be kind to him, treat him as an aquaintance, but you don't have to do anything with him after school if you don't want to.
2007-07-31 21:05:30 · answer #2 · answered by SMS 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
On rare occasions it seems like he's your "friend" when it suits him, but most times you're the butt of his demeaning behavior. Since it's obvious that he won't listen or take you seriously then he really isn't cut out to be your friend. A real friend wouldn't treat you this way. The only thing weird is if you keep being hurt by hanging out with him and still come back for more. It's not worth it so stop trying. He just doesn't appreciate you so let him alone and be done with him and his abnormal tendencies of making himself look big by making you look small.
2007-07-31 21:13:49 · answer #3 · answered by quantumview 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you male or female? You should get some schooling in sex education. If you are a male, and do not know when guys get sperm, you are in serious trouble. You should have asked your Mom or your Dad that questions.
This guy is probably your friend, but he is embarrased at the question you asked him that is so personal. Talk seriously to a male member of your family if you are a male, or talk to a female relative (Mom) if your a female. You need help fast.
2007-08-08 08:06:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No a real true friend would never tease or tell your sectrets if talking to him about his behavior in school didnt help straight up tell him you never want to speak or see if again b/c of the things he says and does hurts and you deserve better friends unlike him...good luck..
2007-08-08 16:28:07 · answer #5 · answered by ~A~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no dude. If he's gonna act like that, then do you really want him as a friend? Someone who embarrasses you for public entertainment? Lemme ask you a question. Do you find it entertaining?
Well...... He obviously likes you as a friend. If he comes over to your house everyday. But he just wants fame at school.
Tell him he needs to have respect for you, not just at home but also at school.
I hope it works out. Good Luck Trav.
2007-07-31 21:02:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Doesn't sound much like a friend to me.It sounds as if he can get your goat in front of people he'll be cool.It's not cool to hurt other people.If I were you I'd start backing off.If he wants to know why tell him that friends don't act like that.
2007-08-08 14:17:42 · answer #7 · answered by fernwood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him away from the kids he is trying to impress. explain to him he hurts your feelings when he does these sorts of things, that you wish to remain his friend but he has got to respect what you ask him in private and keep these things private
2007-08-05 10:55:37 · answer #8 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. A good friend has your back.
A good friend, sticks up for you
A good friend, helps you when needed
A good friend, is a helping hand, in your life.
Get my point?
If he's going to teast YOU, to try N' act call..
To get a spot in the 'cool-crowed' and ditch you..
He isn't worth your time.
2007-07-31 20:59:13 · answer #9 · answered by KaytieCakes 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Sounds as if he is not your friend, just using you to prove he is macho around his friends.
2007-08-08 15:14:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋