My husband and i have been happily married 15 yrs..My best friend cant believe that we have never tried anal sex..She said her and her husband do it all the time and its great but i told her that we have no interested in that and she said we are weird cause most if not all couples have tried it...Is she right about that..I told her that i ask hubby 1 time if he ever wanted to try not that i did but i just ask casually and he said "no thats gross"
2007-07-31 10:36:15 · 33 answers · asked by emma v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No thanks csiders not interested in trying it.
2007-07-31 10:56:33 · update #1
We do it a few times a month and we both love it. It's like anything else, you either like it or you don't. I will tell you that the orgasm is mind blowing. If it's not your thing then don't worry about what your best friend does. Try things because you want to, not because others are doing it. Good luck ;)
2007-07-31 11:02:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been married ten years and never have tried it and both my wife and I have said we have no desire to.
It does not bother me what married and consenting adults do in their bedroom, but it is not for me. Do you remember the Stephen King novel Pet Cemetery? One of the characters referred to that there are things you do sexually to your wife and things you fantasize about doing (or if you are a cheater unfortunately actually do) to other women. The point was that there are basal things that out of respect for the love between you and your wife that you don't do - but that you might do with some other woman.
Though I would never cheat on my wife (so I guess I'll never do it), anal sex is something I place in this category. Just my own opinion and am not criticizing those who do.
2007-07-31 13:42:19 · answer #2 · answered by Matt G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we are married soon for 25 years and enjoyed a good sex life. Anal sex was never on the menu and I did not miss it at all. I can understand that people do it and also that people do not do it. There is enough fun in the "right" place, isn't it
2007-07-31 10:47:21 · answer #3 · answered by binpenn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hubby and I have no interest in anal sex. Not sure where your friend got her stats. If you and your husband have no interest then keep doing what you are doing. You have been married for 15 years! Congratulations!!
2007-07-31 10:41:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well then your marriage is just fine and so is your friends. You and your husband don't have anal sex. Your friend and her husband do. It is a matter of preference, not a matter of right or wrong. What a husband and wife do in the privacy of their bedroom is nobodies business.
To each their own. Live and let live.
2007-07-31 11:08:03 · answer #5 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is about 2 people(or more) pleasing each other so it depends on these person to decide what pleasure is to them..... some people might prefer and try anal while other might try sm, swinger or other satisfaction there are out there....there is no such thing as a conventional sex manual that states that if married then anal sex is the next thing for you. whatever makes you and your husband comfortable IS what you should do. its your life, forget about what other people do.
2007-07-31 10:48:28 · answer #6 · answered by mr b 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ya know!! Its not about "being gross"- Its not about "offending God" its not about what you learned in school, And its not about what everybody else is doing. Sex no matter what kind is about two people having fun, relaxing and enjoying eachothers bodies. Whether its making love or just plain out wild sex. Any type of sex between two adults as long as its not forced is what makes the world go around.
2007-07-31 12:37:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never tried it, been curious, but don't see how that could be comfortable. I asked my husband once if he wanted me to up his...., only because that's where the male G-spot is! But thankfully, he wasn't interested. You're not alone. Every couple is different and will enjoy different things. She may be hyping it up because she's uncomfortable but her husband enjoys it, I had a friend like that.
2007-07-31 10:47:32 · answer #8 · answered by lippy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been married 10 years, have tried it, it is not something we do all the time. We believe in there is a mood and time for everything. It can be very painful for a woman if it is not done with care. If it works for your friend does not mean it will work for you too.
2007-07-31 10:45:00 · answer #9 · answered by jimmy.parker06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of guys like it, and a lot are just curious about it, as far as I've been told, most girls don't... My honey asked me if I'd try for him, it and I did, it was awful I've done it once since then but I told him no more it just hurts too bad, it doesn't mind he doesn't ask. I don't think you're weird a lot of couple never try it, a lot of couples do.
2007-07-31 10:44:30 · answer #10 · answered by Katrina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋