Well? A lot of girls say its about personality. Really, or are you lying? I know you like hot guys because I like hot girls. But I'm a tall lanky guy myself, not hot.
2007-07-31 09:57:43 · 12 answers · asked by jblack988 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey man,
A very good question - so it requires a very good answer. I can tell a lot about you, just by listening to how you asked that question. Anyway, enough babbling, I'll get started.
First things first, what are women attracted to? Good looking (hot) guys? How about money? Power? Fame? Bling Bling? Or all of the above? But what if you don't have any of that?
How can you compete with those guys? I mean, isn't it true that ANY women would date a single, rich, good-looking, doctor?
What am I trying to get at? I'm trying to raise some awareness for you with all these questions. If you don't have any of these things going for you...what can you do?
Let me tell you a little secret. Women are attracted to men that make them FEEL good. Sure, being a male model doesn't hurt, but for 99.9% of other men you need to realize that you CAN attract beautiful women.
Why am I so confident? Because I don't try to "beat" other guys to get girls. I realize that they're are plenty of women in this world and I ALWAYS have options.
Try this once: ask a woman if she's ever met a "real man". Ever heard this term before? I'll bet you a million dollars that she will respond to that question. Every women on this planet wants to be with that "real man". They have that gut level feeling of attraction for that real man.
Ok, in your life, how many "good-looking espeically attractive" women have you seen? Hundreds? Maybe even thousands? You said it yourself..."I like hot girls". What guy doesn't? If you see a good looking woman, you get that "o man, she's the one" feeling.
Now flip the tables. Imagine you're this very good looking woman with all this "sex appeal power" over men. But then, you see that RARE "real man" that doesn't turn into a wuss around you. You see that "real man" that is qualifying you instead of begging for your approval.
Take your feeling of attraction for "hot women" and multiply that by 100 times! That is how women feel when they see that very sought after "real man". Imagine what a feeling that must be for them.
Get the picture? I'd love to help you out more, but I don't my answers to get too long.
I'll tell you what. Just email me at brockdarock33@gmail.com and I'd be more than happy to help you out with any more questions you might have.
Brock
2007-07-31 10:19:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes confidence is really key. Shallow people may only notice your face, but the greater majority will notice your confidence level. Confidence is something that radiates all around you.. and it shows through your face. Not only is it a state of mind.. but its a change in stature. Being tall and lanky, as you say, it is important to pay attention to the way you stand. By simply pushing your shoulders back and standing as if you're a bit cocky you allow others to notice you from afar and be more interested. You know those couples with that gorgeous girl and that alright guy and you find yourself asking... how? Its all in his game lol
2007-07-31 10:10:46 · answer #2 · answered by Macey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know this answer is for the girls, yet i concept i might chime in with my 2 cents... I even have been defined as a teddy undergo with the aid of some women and mutually as that isn't be the main flattering element, the actuality that they like it skill i'm tremendously happy too. i'm 6'2" with somewhat padding and my character is truthfully happy-go-fortunate and constantly the existence of the party. - it particularly is how i've got been defined. So i think of my character and my physicality go hand in hand and are a appropriate adventure for some women. particular i might % to be ripped and all yet i'm happy being me. What ever you're, be happy, be confident in who you're and the main needed element is to be healthful (the two mentally and bodily) so in basic terms be your self guy!
2016-10-13 06:29:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i really do believe that if u have a good personality then its ok with me and no im not lying hot guys are nice but sometimes all they are are just dumb jocks so there will be a girl out there thats has feelings for nice guys
2007-07-31 10:02:15 · answer #4 · answered by cowgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-07-31 10:19:34 · answer #5 · answered by Captain Obvious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A charming and exciting personality and a nice dose of confidence is hot.
2007-07-31 10:06:43 · answer #6 · answered by Annie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think alot of girls will. I for one have dated some not so traditionally handsome men. However, after getting to know them they became much more handsome then the good looking guys that are stupid or jerks.
For me, it really is mainly about personality.
2007-07-31 10:06:54 · answer #7 · answered by rebecca m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not lying when I say I prefer Personality over Looks. A man could be really really really fat, and I wouldn't care, as long as he loves me, and is respectful and kind. =]
2007-07-31 10:03:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, looks do attract me at first instance...but if i wanted to find a soulmate, i would look at his personality.
My bf is not a very good looking person...but he has a heart of gold...and love him for that.
he's confident, friendly and he understands me.
Looks don't really matter...Once ur in love, u'll think that he/she is the most beautiful thing u've ever seen :)
2007-07-31 10:04:53 · answer #9 · answered by LaDy_LoVe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence will get you a lot farther than lack of confidence, no matter what you look like.
2007-07-31 10:02:25 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋