my girlfriend broke up with me, but i still love her, and its been only a couple days. she acts like she still loves me. i really wanna be with her, but im not sure if she wants to be with me this is our second time to break up. should i stay, or go, or what should i do?
2007-07-31 09:47:23 · 30 answers · asked by j_matusalem 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi J! Well mate, you are in a difficult place right now, and you will continue to be so, until you choose what to do about it. I will be frank with you, so I say you are better of pal. This will just keep you wondering otherwise. Because how can you really trust her again anyway? I guess you are young, so take this as an experience and move on. There are so many fish in the sea you know, so don`t worry, be happy. The reason I say this is my own experiences I am afraid ha ha ha, but I used years of my life on a girlfriend like that, it is just not worth it pal. Move on and find a girl/young woman you can trust, and be spared of many unnecessary bad days and nights. Anyway, have a great summer, good luck, peace and love from Norway
2007-07-31 10:06:46 · answer #1 · answered by thefallen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two break-ups is not a good sign. If you've already tried working out the problems that are causing you to break up and yet you still can't be with each other, let it go. Sometimes something that feels right, isn't right. Maybe you two were not meant to be together, so just make the best of being friends.
2007-07-31 16:52:19 · answer #2 · answered by kate2666 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to really think about why it is that you all broke up, and if you get back together is that something that can be fixed. If it is, I say get back together, but just don't do the same thing over again, talk, asses the situation together, and decide your future plans as a couple. And let her know you love her, and don't want to continue the cycle of breaking up, and getting back together!
2007-07-31 16:51:50 · answer #3 · answered by CutiePieAshley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, grow a pair. The reason she probably broke up with you is because you cant make important decisions like this. Your showing her your not man enough to take control.
I say you get over it. Find someone else. And do the complete opposite of what you did previous to this relationship. Eventually shell come crawling back. They always do when they cant have something they want. Women....
2007-07-31 16:52:22 · answer #4 · answered by fkinhologram 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
totally step back and give her her space. give her a chance to see what it's like to not have you around for a little while. If she can't stand it, she'll come back. If she can stand it, you need to let her go and move on so that you WILL find the person who can't stand to not have you there. But don't waste any time, you never know what you could be missing out on in the meantime...
2007-07-31 16:55:20 · answer #5 · answered by NatBug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go! No sense in hanging around when she's giving you the runaround. A heartbreak is never easy and will take time to heal, but eventually you'll recover! Stay strong. If possible, try not to keep contact with her......the longer she is around, the harder and longer it will take you to recover from the break up.
2007-07-31 16:53:01 · answer #6 · answered by Ready to Go Home! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably still has feelings for you (since you were together) and is being nice and polite,why don't you just continue the way you are and see how things go.She chose to break up with you so just take it easy and don't rush into things whatever you do.
2007-07-31 16:52:51 · answer #7 · answered by Classy Clarissa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok listen to me. My boyfriend broke up with me and got his friend to do it and tell me he cheated on me...... I ****** hated him sooo much for what he did but god, I love him soo much. I just stayed away from him for awhile then HE started to try and talk to me. We are now togther. Engaged and just had a baby girl 2 months ago. Just give it time. Act like you your hurt and miss her, write her letters, send her flowers... just give it some time. Go get her and Good luck!!!!
2007-07-31 16:53:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her find out why you guys keep breaking up communication is the answers to all problems
2007-07-31 16:51:23 · answer #9 · answered by toosexy4thisshit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey!!!!!!!!!!
therd time is the charm u gotta give it 1 more try u noe
mabey sommthin good well happen
luv is the closest thing we have to magic and when u get it people wonder how could it be........so dont let anybody tell u defrent if u guys have magic then put it to work
ok
2007-07-31 16:52:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋