My ex fiance is now coming to my town every day. I broke things off due to the fact that we argued and he threw me into a fence and tried to throw me down. I have been the victim of assault years ago and couldn't get the look he had on his face at the time to go away. I simply can't forgive him.
He used to say that we had a long distance relationship-the reason he would hardly come to see me- I had to go to his town, which is only 12 miles away.
Now, he shows up here every other day and shows up at any place I go with my friends. He calls them and trys to find out what they are doing, though he avoids actually asking if I will be there.
The day after I took the ring back and told the store to call him to let him know I returned it to them (I didn't want to see him face to face) so that he wouldn't have to pay for it, he left me a voice mail on my cell phone that actually admitted what he had done. I have him saying: 'I wanted to beat your a#**, you need your a@#** beat!" help
2007-07-31 10:28:40 · 9 answers · asked by lissabeth 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's stalking you. Don't interact with him yourself-- any attention he gets from you will just feed this. Get the restraining order and let the police chat with him.
2007-07-31 10:34:34 · answer #1 · answered by palan57 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is, he's being really careful about it. I think you should ignore him until he starts asking for you by name, or confronts you. At that point - you might be able to get a restraining order and get the police involved. Until he actually does something though - you just need to be cautious.
2007-07-31 10:33:35 · answer #2 · answered by swordarkeereon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
File a restraining order before things get worse.
2007-07-31 10:49:39 · answer #3 · answered by sunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
File a restraining order against him. Call the police if you need help.
2007-07-31 10:43:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your cell phone to the police and ask them how to get the phone call entered as evidence they will tell you. Press charges for the assualt. Get a restraining order.
Protect yourself, you owe him nothing.
2007-07-31 10:38:54 · answer #5 · answered by Zaferus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order. You'll probably qualify if you kept the voice mail.
2007-07-31 10:33:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need a restraining order.
2007-07-31 10:33:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take that recording and go down to your police station and have them hear it. it will be a step towards filing for a restraining order.
2007-07-31 10:33:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the cops, this guy sounds like a nut job.
2007-07-31 10:45:32 · answer #9 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋