are these red flags in the first and second date?

Question

1. I left my credit card and the waitress took it and I had to use the bathroom. When I came back the credit card was processed and he put my signature looking at the back of the card and he said I did it on behalf of you.
2. He asked me how much I am making.
3. He called me as unknown and then he opened uo his number. Then a 2 weeks later he called me once as unknown again and when I asked him he said he called his family and he made the number unknown.
4. He cancelled out a scheduled date to see his friends.
5. He called after he is done with friends and called me next day and asked me why I did not call him. I said I wanted to give him space since he said he will call me and I let him call me.
6. Once in his place, I put my cell on the coffee table and I used the bathroom. When I got out, he was going through my cell.

things are so fast I think.

Answer 1

freak. he is doing stuff you cant do until you are married.

Answer 2

This dude is a creep! You need to dip out of this. He is going to be going through all of your stuff on the next date. If you keep seeing him he's going to become harder and harder to get rid of. There is some one out there that will treat you like gold, trust me.

Good luck!

Answer 3

Too controlling and too invasive.
Drop this one and move on...

Answer 4

drama, drama, drama