Family & Relationships - 4 July 2007

2007-07-04 12:59:08 · 9 answers · asked by Meach 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My best male friend has been going through some rough times. I met him a few years ago through our career paths. He got divorced not too long ago, and I've tried to be there for him best I knew how. I developed feelings for this guy some time back but I would never pursue that and never intended to show him. He is now hinting at the fact of me and him going out. I already know that he has wonderful qualities and that he is admirable. I do not want to hurt him anymore but I want to be in a relationship when he is no longer physically or emotionally attracted to another woman. I don't want to mask the pain for him. But I do eventually want us to try this out because we have always fit. How can I continue to be there for him as his friend only and tell him that he needs to get his wounds healed before we can pursue a relationship? I want to leave the door open for a possible relationship, just not at this very time. I don't want him acting weird now towards our friendship though.

2007-07-04 12:58:52 · 11 answers · asked by Caroline 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There are simply no small children under the age of 11 in our families that could be the flower girl and ring bearer in our wedding. What happens with the rings if this is the case? Does the best man carry the ring pillow? Does the maid of honor do something? I have no idea what to do!

2007-07-04 12:57:39 · 17 answers · asked by Misskris 1 in Weddings

Is this is what we wre put on this earth for, to kill eachother, hate, ruin the foundation of many thing that family has built and tried to speard to the future of your legacy? i for one have seen and done way to much and wish i could take back most of it.....

2007-07-04 12:54:13 · 8 answers · asked by Darlene P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-04 12:52:08 · 27 answers · asked by amber p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i dont want to meet her in bars or grocery stores

2007-07-04 12:51:55 · 18 answers · asked by Madmen22 1 in Singles & Dating

We recently moved to the same small town as my husbands parents. I have always gotten along well with his mother. Now that we live in the same town she will stop over to visit at times she knows I am busy (getting dinner ready and getting ready for work), they will make plans to eat at our house or for us to come over to their place to cook out w/o ever mentioning it to me. They inform me of what we're doing. She smokes and I don't want anyone smoking around my baby. She thinks her husband doesn't know she smokes and so when they visit she goes in out bathroom -which does not have a fan-and smokes every 20 minutes. She will stop by my job and if i'm not there she will interrogate other employees about my where abouts and why i'm not at work. My husband and I were going to look at a house we were thinking of buying. I mentioned it to her on the phone and told her we were going at 6pm. I did not tell her where the house was, only that it was down the main road from our house

2007-07-04 12:50:43 · 7 answers · asked by viper pilot 2 in Family

If it does, why aren't there more horny werewolves?

2007-07-04 12:50:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just by imagining (sometimes), by doing "it"
i know i would feel bad doing it.
3 reasons not to do it:
1. Religion
2. Disease
3. Guilt
4. Pride/purity

2007-07-04 12:50:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The husband has filed bankruptcy 6 months ago but the wife did not. the problem now is she is wanting a divorce and the 1st mortgage is in her name and the 2nd is in his name. she also stupidly put other large debts in her name only along the way the last 5 years. she has 4 kids, should she divorce 1st and then go into bankruptcy or what. He treatens he will not help at all if she does! I mean pay the second. thats what keeps her tied to him.... Now that his bankruptcy is final he spends as he sees fit! what to do???? She cannot stand this to go on. As her brother I told her not to move out of the house! Her husband believes it is her duty to take care of all of the house and yard , plus work outside the home while he races his cars and pertisapates in his other hobbies with his father and brothers!!!!!!!!!!! Live in Ohio

2007-07-04 12:49:27 · 4 answers · asked by wiskers43302 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She used to be my friend. But few years ago, she stabbed me on my back. Ever since, she's constantly spreading rumors about me. Some of them are soo random and unbelievably cruel. And NONE, absolutely NONE of them are true. It's reached to the point where I can't just ignore them.

I asked her to stop b-iitching about me, which obviously did not work. And I've got this freaky feeling she's got me watching all the time, hoping to catch some faults she can make a big deal out of.

AND she also b-itches about my PARENTS despite the fact that she never MET them. Some people know that she's fake and double sided. My friends don't even listen to all that BS she has to say. But I want to put a stop to this. And hopefully, teach her that she's only lowering herself with all the effort.

2007-07-04 12:47:55 · 16 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Friends

Is there any way for us women to know what your intentions are? How do we know when you're being honest/honorable? And how are we supposed to know whether or not you're serious about us?

2007-07-04 12:46:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

-i never knew till recently when he accidentally said his age. At first when he asked my age.I also asked him and he said the same. now , he told me he rounded up his age and their is one month we same age was born january 1987 and i february 1986 thats his view that we are same age, but still we are 1 year apart.
-he is a 4th year in university,went to school early, has good job.
-he is nice,loving,caring and sounds mature but still .
-I feel embarrased by age since am the older one as a gal.
-Am afraid its gonna be aproblem i hav never thought i will ever date a guy younger than me and i always wanted a guy atleast 2yrs older or same age with me.
-I told him that i feel wiered but for him he has no problem with age, he says age is a number but i think its more than a number.
-My brother dated a girl older that him (5yrs older) and everthing went wrong so am afraid to follow same path
-Please advice me becoz i love him but i think we are not compatible in terms of age

2007-07-04 12:43:46 · 10 answers · asked by laka1 1 in Singles & Dating

These days I keep thinking negative about everything. My job search is not going great nor i want to go for MBA. I don't trust others because my own friends have broke my trust and in my past relationship i got hurt. How can i start thinking positive.

2007-07-04 12:42:29 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have feelings of self doubt, paranoia, I feel rejected. lonely.

I feel like I have no real friends, but I don't know why.
I always think it is my fault, My bf says I am great and not to worry, but why are people not bothering with me??

Whenever I get in touch with old friends (which is not too much)
a) don't reply - which makes me think they don't like me
b) If they get in touch/reply I think they are only getting in touch to be nosy/show off about all they have achieved, to make themselves feel better especially if they see they have done more with their life than me.
c) only reply as I have got in touch with them, and I think would they have texted me first? would they text me if I never texted them?

When I look on friends reunited sites I always feel like other people are better/more popular than me (though i know these sites are prone to exaggeration) and I feel unpopular in comparison especially if they have lots of 'friends' listed eg on myspace/facebook

2007-07-04 12:41:22 · 27 answers · asked by uk.housewife 2 in Friends

I was called up unexpectedly for a job interview.I wont pass unless i have more time for my system to clear up,but unfortunatly i dont.Any sugestions?Do you know of anything out on the market that really works? PS. Please spare me the obviouse answer,(Dont Use Drugs) Thank You Bumper

2007-07-04 12:39:40 · 8 answers · asked by BUMPER 1 in Family

2007-07-04 12:39:06 · 22 answers · asked by kelly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my crush seems to be interested in me but every time i ask him he won't get with me.

2007-07-04 12:36:44 · 16 answers · asked by iluvmyself 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you prefer french kissing or normal?

2007-07-04 12:36:33 · 25 answers · asked by danielle 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-04 12:31:00 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So I like this girl Janelle, but I want to approach it in the right way. I'm friendly with her brother most of the time, and I wanted to ask him for his permission to ask his sister out. How would I go about doing this. What would I say to him?

2007-07-04 12:30:22 · 5 answers · asked by Peter M 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for many years. My wife works very hard and takes good care of the members of the family. She doesn't show affection that much. She believes that actions are better than words, but I could hire people for that purpose. For years, I have felt the need for affection. I want to be held, comforted, made to feel important and valued. At times, the risky and costly choice of finding somone new seems very compelling. I have tried to talk with her about what I feel I need, but she either can't or doesn't want to understand. The truth is, however, that I am still deeply in love with her. Help! I feel like I am drowning. Is there no end to this brokeness?

Bob

2007-07-04 12:29:27 · 11 answers · asked by Bob 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i havnt seen my bf for 10 months now because were living abroad! so im goin with my family next friday, should i leave as a surprise so that when i get their he can come in at my aunts house as usual & just find me their or should i telll him on wednesday?? my family doesnt know about him except my aunt, so what do you guys think? what would you rather?? what would he like more?? xxxx

2007-07-04 12:28:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it a sign of disrespect when your boyfriend masturbates right next to you when are are going to go to sleep? what should i tell him?

2007-07-04 12:24:15 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Now that I got your attention....I'm a first time mom and my precious 14 month’s daughter can some times get on my nerves to the point that I start shouting at her like crazy. My mom used to shout at us every single day and I took an oath that I would never do this to my kids and there I am doing something I promised my self not to. I'm depressed and consumed by guilt feeling. How can I stop this? I'm desperate for any help.

2007-07-04 12:23:07 · 14 answers · asked by dana 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend told me that for guys, sex is just sex. It's just an instinct. So my question is, do guys get aroused just looking at any pretty girl or is it essential for most guys to have it if there are emotions involved? Also, will they get the same kind of satisfaction having sex with the one they love and someone without emotional attachment?

2007-07-04 12:21:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

That is the type of relationship he wants. Emotionally committment with him, but physical things with other guys. Maybe it's called open marriage. He gets turned on by his girl being with other guys and then telling him about it. Isn't this weird? If a guy likes you, he doesn't want you to be with other guys does he?

2007-07-04 12:20:35 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-04 12:16:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everytime me and husband have sex, hes always looking at us doing it in the mirror. He says it makes him enjoy sex more, but to me, I find it really weird. Does anyone elses husband do that, or is my husband weird? what should I do to make him stop this?

2007-07-04 12:16:38 · 32 answers · asked by Asha 1 in Marriage & Divorce

US citizen friend marries a guy from her home country. Friend gets into normal arguements abt expectations in relationship on the phone.
Friend files for immigration for husband. She has doubts of fidelity. Learns he is into sexual nude webcam chatting. Wants to meet the females for fun. Admits in chats he is sleeping around. He pretends nothing is going on else where to wife.
Should she save the marriage and bring him to US?
Her family feels bec of her arguementative expectations, he is sleeping around. You think so?
He is saying the chat, nude sexual acts on webcam, and admitting to sleeping around is nothing more than fantasy.
Should she save the marriage? Is she at fault?

2007-07-04 12:05:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce