2007-07-04 12:52:08 · 27 answers · asked by amber p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
One word:
D-I-V-O-R-C-E.
A cheating dog is a cheating dog and deserves to be kicked to the curb. You deserve better.
2007-07-04 12:55:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Well you were not real specific so its kind of a broad sword.First you have to ask yourself has he been asking you or begging you to change something or do something that you refuse to do?because it takes two people to make a marriage work.Has he tried to talk to you about issues in your marriage before?If he has maybe hes not getting fulfillment at home.If hes not done any of those things hes just selfish and wants hes cake and eat it to.
You need to sit down and talk to him and find out why he did this then decide weather you think hes worth giving another chance or not or weather or not you can ever get to a point where you can trust him again.If so counseling is a must,if not then you have no choice but divorce him.you will know if hes truly sorry or not,and i mean sorry for cheating not sorry he got caught.This is a tough situation and whatever you decide you have a long road to recovery,but you have to wake up with him everyday we dont so your going to have to make that choice.Good luck to you hon and keep us posted.
2007-07-04 20:06:54 · answer #2 · answered by catfishhunter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont deal with it. You cant stay with a man that cheats on you. God forbid he brings some disease back to you. Plan your departure, get evidence of his cheating and take him to the CLEANERS! It will be tough trying to make it your own and he shouldnt be cheating! I now leaving is easier said than done but you must know you really dont have a choice.
2007-07-04 20:23:40 · answer #3 · answered by spirit2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always believe that a couple can work things out if the two of them are committed to resolving the issue to the end. If it 's the first time then counselling is in order. It seems like your husband has done this more than once. If this is true then my vote is to divorce him. I'm sorry.
2007-07-04 20:01:40 · answer #4 · answered by Sloe3D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to sound so cut and dry, but If I were in the same situation, I would leave.
Cheating for me is a complete deal breaker.
Once the trust is gone, it rarely comes back.
You have to ask yourself, Could you ever really trust him again?
2007-07-04 21:34:32 · answer #5 · answered by Sumie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the better question is why would you want to deal with him cheating?.... I really want to help you but your not giving much detail to this question. with out knowing much, YOU need to start respecting yourself more. DON'T let someone walk over you, there are plenty of services out there with what ever the problem may be. speak with friends or family. there is a lot you can do. remember your a human being don't let him treat you like a dog or worst.sorry i wish i could be more help. please take care of yourself.
2007-07-04 20:05:54 · answer #6 · answered by z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it easy for the people on here to say get a divorce.i have been cheated on.and i have given my husband a chance,in life everyone desrves a second chance,but belive me,thinking about ur husband making love to another woman while laying there when hes making love to u,it really hurts,but only time haels.if u love him,find a way in ur heart to forgive him.
2007-07-04 21:26:48 · answer #7 · answered by lovegirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pack your stuff, pack your kids, hire a pit-bull of an attorney, and scrub the toilet with Mr. Woo-hoo's toothbrush on the way out!! He's never going to change, but YOU can! I've been there. Trust me. Life gets better if you take the right steps to make it so.
2007-07-04 22:44:38 · answer #8 · answered by GooGoo18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what you are going throw you love him and cant see ending your marrige like this so befor you deside to do any thing ask him why he cheeted,if there is anything he feels that you dont give him sexu,ltry talking to him and letr him know how you feel and lisen to how he feels too,and then if you dont feel that he is being truth ful or that the two of you can not work this out then as hard as it is you may have to devorce him they say that once a cheet always a cheet well i do not bleve that my husbend hade cheeted on me and we got devorced and then we decited to get back togather and try to work our problms out and so far so good..i hope this helps.
2007-07-04 20:05:58 · answer #9 · answered by spekkers2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is impossible to get over. People say they do, but what they do is repress their feelings. Nobody ever gets over it. It's the marriage killer. You did nothing to make your husband cheat. He did it and he destroyed your marriage. He's a loser.
2007-07-04 19:56:10 · answer #10 · answered by Kyle 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Pray, I have had to deal with mines doing the same thing, but I feel that things are changing all with the power of prayer!!!!!!!
2007-07-04 20:03:11 · answer #11 · answered by mustluv50 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋