She used to be my friend. But few years ago, she stabbed me on my back. Ever since, she's constantly spreading rumors about me. Some of them are soo random and unbelievably cruel. And NONE, absolutely NONE of them are true. It's reached to the point where I can't just ignore them.
I asked her to stop b-iitching about me, which obviously did not work. And I've got this freaky feeling she's got me watching all the time, hoping to catch some faults she can make a big deal out of.
AND she also b-itches about my PARENTS despite the fact that she never MET them. Some people know that she's fake and double sided. My friends don't even listen to all that BS she has to say. But I want to put a stop to this. And hopefully, teach her that she's only lowering herself with all the effort.
2007-07-04 12:47:55 · 16 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Are you kidding. You have the upper hand. The best way to handle people like this especially since everyone already knows she is lying is to handle this with kindness. Give her the old sympathy treatment. You know. Oh I feel so bad for her. Poor thing. I don't know why she does those things, and says such things, as: She is really such a nice girl once you really get to know her. She will be ok after awhile. Just ignor her. Don't ever say anything bad about her. Just keep saying nice things. What goes around comes around. It will drive her nuts that she can not get to you. Everyone will think you are a saint and love you even more especially since you will be the loving person they always knew you were. As far as your parents, just say how much she loved them and you are sure she just misses having parents like them. It will get back to her and she will eventually go away. Keep your loving self pure like you are. You will have more friends then you will every know after that.
2007-07-04 13:03:55 · answer #1 · answered by lynnejoy 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First off, keep in mind that she is the bad guy, not you. You don't need to change anything about yourself, as she is the one who is flawed.
You made an effort to ask her to cooperate, but she has refused this; therefore, she cannot say that you did not give her a warning about her inappropriate behavior.
She sounds very immature and childish. Take the high road and do not lower yourself to her level. She also sounds like she has some sort of delusions or other form of mental illness. You are not required to feel sorry for her, however, and if anyone asks you about her invented rumors, just calmly say, "Her psychological problems are unfortunate." Do not give in to the drama that she is creating.
As time goes on, people will see that you are the good guy, and she will lose any credibility that she has left.
2007-07-04 19:58:52 · answer #2 · answered by Miles 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not an expert but I know how it feels. The only advice that is good advice it to truly ignore it all. The people around you that knows you and your character knows the truth. You already said that the don't believe the rumors so what's the problem. Everyone thinks that she is crazy. She will find out what everyone thinks about her and she will realize that she was dumb. If you show that you are bothered by her comments then it makes her happy that you are miserable and you are feeding her craziness.
2007-07-04 20:04:04 · answer #3 · answered by ALia C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of her. Obviously she is jealous of you and her life must be hell boring if she has to put her nose in where it's not wanted. Do it diplomaticly as she could be a fatal attraction!!!! If you have already asked her to stop bitching about you as she hasn't maybe start a rumour about her and see how she likes it. People that carry around that sort of negative energy are not worth you time or bother. Get rid of her now before it gets to much before you do something you might regret.
2007-07-04 19:55:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HATE those types of people. They're freaking annoying. I hate the fact the 'friends' do that to their friends. They only probably wants attention. I hate that. What you could do??Well, not sure about that. If you start doing the same thing to her, abviously nothing good will happen. It wouldn't stop. If you don't do anything, well, nothing will happen. I usually try to ignore things like that that happen to me but it sucks.
2007-07-04 19:54:23 · answer #5 · answered by modern_myth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignoring is always the best way,
letting someone know it doesn't bother you is best. even though it does but she doesn't need to know it. be the better person. walk away. getting even the mean way never does any good it only makes you stoop to her level . keep strong. she never was a real friend anyway to do that to you. keep it smooth.
2007-07-04 19:55:11 · answer #6 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She knows she's getting to you, that's why she won't or refuses to stop. Do whatever it takes to ignore her and not let her get to you. Getting back at her is only stooping to her level and proving you as immature as her.
If she continues to harass you, take it your parents. Do NOT let her continue with this charade but do NOT resort to immature revenge or humiliating tactics. Be mature and walk away from it. She'll get tired of her sick game and move on.
2007-07-04 19:53:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about this girl who is giving you grief. She will soon stop when she realizes no one is paying any attention to her accusations. Just step back, be yourself, this is the best way to prove her wrong. The quieter you are, the madder she will get, and will soon make her own rope to hang herself with.
2007-07-04 19:56:07 · answer #8 · answered by Vida 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since she thinks it's cool to spread rumors about people spread some about how she spreads her legs to every guy she meets and she is a dirty slut.Or just call her over and punch her in the face.
2007-07-04 21:10:51 · answer #9 · answered by Hotmom1216 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just let people know that she's full of crap. Your real friends will know who to believe. Eventually, everyone will figure out she's a liar and stop associating with her. Don't worry, what goes around comes around.
2007-07-04 19:53:33 · answer #10 · answered by Laura 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋