Family & Relationships - 4 July 2007

I just lost a friend for telling all of my business out & when I confronted him about it, he said, "I was there for you when your lying @$$ family was trying to HELP you!" My family cheated me out of my money & he used it against me & threw it in my face, & he calls himself a DEVOUT Mormon.

2007-07-04 11:59:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

or do they all want something other than what they have? My husband who I have been faithful to for 6 years lies about porn then tells me I'm the most beautiful woman in the world. I feel insecure about this. I f I was all he wanted then why does he look at porn and hide it from me?

2007-07-04 11:43:40 · 21 answers · asked by kelly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There's this shy yet popular guy in the neighborhood.
When he talks to this girl he'll look at her unless if there's something to fiddle with or move, in which case he's too "preoccupied" to look at her, which is almost always the case.
He never asks her questions nor initiates conversations, which usually end in awkward silences.
He rarely smiles at her, keeping a serious face.
As soon as they say bye, he disappears.
Yet when they see each other from across the street they stare at each other without saying hi or waving, or sometimes he would "just happen to" turn his back to her and look the other way at the moment they would see and pass each other.
Their conversations together are polite.
When they're in a crowd he's either looking her way or with his back completely to her.
When she asked him once about a certain topic, he offered to give her one of his old magazines on it. When she asked for it 2 weeks later, he said his friend has it.
What's going on?

2007-07-04 11:41:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...and is in an abusive relationship..and has seen me steadily for about 6 months secretly...will she move with me and marry me?

2007-07-04 11:39:26 · 10 answers · asked by extrapacker 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-04 11:37:04 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

girl is 20 and the man is 27

2007-07-04 11:31:04 · 20 answers · asked by susan 1 in Singles & Dating

what is the one physical thing that turns you on the most. my last bf said when i clawed his back that it drove him nuts. what about you?

2007-07-04 11:28:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was supposed to get married on Sept 15th of this year. I just found out that my fiance (now ex-fiance) kissed her boss at work (100% confident it was a kiss, and a passionate one). When I confronted her about it, she lied to my face for days before I was able to dig up enough proof that she couldn't deny. She was deleting calls made to/from him every Thurs (poker night). She was married before and cheated on her first husband with this boss (for over a year; not an isolated incident). The boss is 15 years older, married, and has 2 kids of his own. To make matters worse, her and I bought a house together 9 months ago (in both our names) and neither can afford it on our own. If we refinance it in one of our names, we lose the employee discount we originally got on the loan rate as well (plus we would also now need to purchase mortgage insurance). We would have to sell the house for 10K more today than we bought it for to break even (and the market isn't there). What are your thoughts?

2007-07-04 11:24:32 · 26 answers · asked by jamsch1978 2 in Marriage & Divorce

OK, me and my Boyfriend have been going out for a while and i LOVE him but i dont know if i can trust him, he broke up with me while i went on a trip my with mom and now he wants to get back toghther, what should i do, beacuse i like another guy!!

2007-07-04 11:22:05 · 26 answers · asked by avril Q 1 in Singles & Dating

holding hands kissing cuddling etc?

2007-07-04 11:20:09 · 18 answers · asked by missylynn2005_1829 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we have been fighitng for years and things keep getting worse. they yell, call me names, and my dad thinks its fine to hit me and punch me when i give him attitude back because i am sick of living at home. and infront of other relatives or my friends they are so sweet to me its sickeing but behind closed doors, its hell.
i have oly 1000$, and not house, nothing. i want to room with someone from college but i have no college money to pay or anything.
so i have to start planning everything. I have SOME financial aid but i should consider loans, etc. what belongings should i bring with me (cant bring furniture because its too much of a hassel and i am leaving without y family knowing so i might have only 2 hours to leave the house and pack...any suggestions?

2007-07-04 11:18:21 · 16 answers · asked by mitlilkizbi 2 in Singles & Dating

...she is still involved with another guy, does she really love you?

2007-07-04 11:17:03 · 13 answers · asked by extrapacker 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have seen so many teens and tweens post this question, it is beginning to make me sick. When did you lose your virginity and was it the right time? What are your views on this issue?

2007-07-04 11:16:10 · 25 answers · asked by Whitney W 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-04 11:13:49 · 35 answers · asked by Michel M 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-04 11:13:16 · 7 answers · asked by cats 7 in Singles & Dating

How deep is the avg woman's downstairs region? (in inches)

2007-07-04 11:11:24 · 11 answers · asked by hermpoke 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-04 11:10:19 · 12 answers · asked by courtney jane 1 in Friends

just curious about statistics on open marriages and open relationship where all involved know ,i dont mean one spouse/lover cheating on the other ....

2007-07-04 11:10:02 · 3 answers · asked by silkbutterfly1973 5 in Singles & Dating

as long as ur sure no strings are attached?? and your sure its just somin to help both of you feel better... im confused.. because imean i wanna but.. idk if i shud cause im not sure if it REALLY will be no strings attached cause i dont wanna feel weird around him.. so HELP PLZZ

2007-07-04 11:09:38 · 45 answers · asked by Samantha 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-04 11:05:40 · 25 answers · asked by stefan l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he cays its a racialism i say no. how do i get him to stop breaking my tv?

2007-07-04 11:03:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I lost my birth certificat in a move and need to get another vopy of it what is the easiest way to get another one?

2007-07-04 11:01:44 · 17 answers · asked by Grim 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My man & I have went through a whole lotta stuff in the past, mainly my fault, I was'nt such a good girl @ first because I thought he was'nt serious about me.But through time ,we were the best make-up/break couple OAT.It was pretty preditable when we would cool off, & realized how much we still wanted eachother.He taught me what Love was.Not any kind,He showed me what devotion was.I'm grown into him.He's grown into me.That's all I know,or wanna know.He tells me He loves me,but he used to show it,I used to know that he wanted just me,but know I don't know it. It feels like he's almost just keepin' me around because I'm something he's used to.But like any pesron,what you're used to soon becomes boring,so you find something new.First it's chillin' with the homies,to not answering at all, then whenever I ask about it ,He wants to trip about it.Bringing up old stuff ( of course about what I've done wrong)& how I'm trippin.I caught his *** cheatin.lastnite.how F***'d up is that?Y is luv hate

2007-07-04 10:58:32 · 3 answers · asked by Bianca C 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a question. According to mark 19:9, luke 16:18, and scripture in the bible regarding adultery. According to god, a marriage is a promise made before god to commit to a partner for the remainder of life, to which no man can separate. People think of adultery as cheating on your spouse, when god states this as "except for the cause of sexual immorality" but the bible clearly states adultery by definition is remarriage after divorce. God also says to flee fornication, meaning to run away and fast... as if in danger.

I have kept myself pure but I am middle aged now, and the majority of selection for men are divorced men. It does not mean they are bad people, but anyone that is divorced with the exception that their wife cheated on them, and not vice versa is off limits due to the potential sin of adultery. What is sad, is that if I fall in love with a divorced man, and he has no conscience for scripture - then he will find love with another women. I know it is adultery for me

2007-07-04 10:58:09 · 13 answers · asked by EM-water2 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I am really fed up my husband is going out almost everynight, dont get me wrong i dont mind him having the odd night out but its getting more frequent , i have tried talking to him and he doesnt seem to think he is doing any harm , do you think im being selfish for wanting him to stay in a bit more ? i feel like we are drifting apart we have been married 17 years and have 3 children

2007-07-04 10:56:11 · 31 answers · asked by michelle G 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay Last nite at my party i made out w/ this 16 year old in the corn and i am 13 he smokes and stuff but hes a great person.. totally... well like we went in there and then made out and then we came out and he said don't say anything to ne one cuz my dad wood kill him... but yea then he left to go home which is like a couple hours away and he won't be back for like a month or two... what should i do i mean i really REALLY like this guy! HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-07-04 10:54:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just moved back in with my husband after being seperated for 1 year. There were a lot of problems. He was lying. That was the major issue. During counseling one issue that I braught up was his porn habit. He said he stopped. But I found out that he's been looking at it. I don't care much that he looks at it. I find it really upsetting that he lied. Again. He has lied about major things. I moved in only 3 days ago and he says I can move out if I don't like it. I feel stressed. We have a 5 year old daughter together. I have no family around and I was so happy living alone. I wasnted to give the marriage another chance. But I feel I will never be able to satisfy this man. He hurts me. I feel so lonely and scared.

2007-07-04 10:54:03 · 13 answers · asked by kelly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i adore this guy but EVERY time i see him it only lasts between 5 and 7 minutes. I mean he gets into it, i do, too but i like to go longer. he is gorgeous and very confident in all apsects but i think he gets a little nervous with me.... is this normal? Any ladies experiencing this? and men, what do you think?

2007-07-04 10:49:44 · 33 answers · asked by mrssmith11 1 in Singles & Dating

they bought both of my brother's cars of their dreams. now it's my turn and they tell me that I'm getting my grandmothers old car. a ******* GRANNY car. it's really annoying and no matter what i say, they tell me i'm being spoiled and that i should be happy. i would be happy if they hadnt of bought my brothers both cars. my dream car is a VW cabrio. they arent even expensive. I'm sure you all think i'm being spoiled too, but i am so ******* frustrated

2007-07-04 10:48:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husband has a past with this one woman who was his first, which was more then 20 yrs ago. He went out with her again when at same time dating a very nice outgoing girl. And again when he was single short yrs ago. When (we) dated, she came again at a xmas party uninvited to ask him if he has any plans? Which at that time he told her he was seeing me. We have been married so far for 3 yrs became good christains who love the Lord. Now this woman is back in the picture once again showing up at my husbands old buddies partys here + there asking about him. I feel in the middle and fear of losing him. I don't feel right about this at all. My husband being a christain wants to see them and (her) to preach to them which i told him,"they can get it else where if we pray for someone else to step in to share Gods word not you! and leave the past in past!!" i want to know why men go back to the same woman of the past over and over? Our sex is good with oral sex as well!!!!!

2007-07-04 10:47:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce