we have been fighitng for years and things keep getting worse. they yell, call me names, and my dad thinks its fine to hit me and punch me when i give him attitude back because i am sick of living at home. and infront of other relatives or my friends they are so sweet to me its sickeing but behind closed doors, its hell.
i have oly 1000$, and not house, nothing. i want to room with someone from college but i have no college money to pay or anything.
so i have to start planning everything. I have SOME financial aid but i should consider loans, etc. what belongings should i bring with me (cant bring furniture because its too much of a hassel and i am leaving without y family knowing so i might have only 2 hours to leave the house and pack...any suggestions?
2007-07-04 11:18:21 · 16 answers · asked by mitlilkizbi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am 18 years old and a sophemore in college
2007-07-04 11:26:16 · update #1
My parents and I always fought, they fought with each other and I've been through hell too. Abused ect... I have left home with just the clothes on my back. I did it for years (I was 16 when I permanently moved). When I became legal age I joined the military, and it was the best thing I have ever done. I haven't been home in 20something years. I am not telling you to run-away. I have no idea how old you are, but as long as you have the will to make it on your own, you can. I worked 2 jobs to support myself. I was free , it was worth it.
No more crying, pain, ect... My parents and I do keep in touch now that I am a lot older, we get along as long as we dont live in the same state. good luck. keep us updated. e-mail me. Kimdmorelli@yahoo.com Good advice from old beatnik
2007-07-04 11:27:05 · answer #1 · answered by kim d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live in an apartment and get a job. Oh to bring with you. Body cleaning bag: toothpaste, brush, soap etc. Also bring blankets with pillow for bed. Bring food and water. Bring clothing to wear each day. Put them all in suitcases. Good luck.
2007-07-04 18:27:57 · answer #2 · answered by Successor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take any vital papers you may have... birth certificate, soc sec card, school transcripts. Take anything of real value to you that can not be replaced, like yearbooks, photos, etc. Take any "treasures" you have that you don't want to lose. When I moved out, my parents threw away all my yearbooks, record albums, Boy Scout awards, pictures, EVERYTHING, The albums could be replaced, but not the yearbooks or awards, or pictures.
2007-07-04 18:27:23 · answer #3 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, if they beat you constantly, that's something that the cops, government, etc. can help you with, but ya, getting out of there is probably a good idea. first off, you might want to make arrangements before you leave, but just pack some clothes and anything of sentimental value.
2007-07-04 18:24:20 · answer #4 · answered by Crazy Celt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know where you live, but contact the organization below. Please don't do it on your own... the people in this place our GREAT and they UNDERSTAND your situation. Call them NOW 24-hour crisis line: (734) 662-2222
http://www.ozonehouse.org
I'm sorry, I didn't know you were 18. I'd join the service and make something out of my life (they'll pay for college, etc. - stay safe though and join the Navy!)
2007-07-04 18:22:44 · answer #5 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bring everything that will fit into boxes and suitcases ur bringing
and if you have bruises find or call child abuse services show them and they'll put you in a home with nice parents unlike the
abusive ones you live with now.
and ur dad will never be aloud to touch you again if u pull a restaining order against him and ur mother.
and he goes to jail if he goes against the restraining order
2007-07-04 18:24:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take all your cloths and belongings with you.You have to tell them.They might worry and call the Police.
2007-07-04 18:24:30 · answer #7 · answered by Bethany R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you--because that does make a difference in the advice you'll receive.
2007-07-04 18:24:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just the necessities...clothes, toiletries and some munchy foods.
2007-07-04 18:26:09 · answer #9 · answered by Grandma of 2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just the necessities clothes and shower stuff.
2007-07-04 18:21:47 · answer #10 · answered by kelly w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋