OK, me and my Boyfriend have been going out for a while and i LOVE him but i dont know if i can trust him, he broke up with me while i went on a trip my with mom and now he wants to get back toghther, what should i do, beacuse i like another guy!!
2007-07-04 11:22:05 · 26 answers · asked by avril Q 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You obviously don't love him or you wouldn't be wondering about seeing someone else. Whatever your decision is, please do them both the courteous of telling them before you go and do anything rash.
2007-07-04 11:25:10 · answer #1 · answered by MsKitty 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he broke up with you because he was'nt sure what he wanted....now it's you're turn to decide what you want! Don't rush into anything because if you do it could make things alot worse than they are and you may regret the decission you made! However if it was nothing serious with the guy that dumped you he probably does just want you so noone else can have you........observe both of the guys and see which one will wait on you until you decide what you want to do.......and more than likely if the guy that dumped you doesn't really care about you he won't wait long!!!! don't blow the new guy off...just remain friends and explain the situation to him if he's a good guy he'll understand! JUST REMEMBER THAT HONESTY IS THE BEST WAY.......AND SOME THINGS TAKE TIME!!!!!!!
2007-07-04 18:37:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you can truly love a guy and be interested in another guy at the same time. It's one thing to like another guy as a friend, but very different to want to get involved with someone other than your current boyfriend.
Also, if your boyfriend is so insecure that he needs to break up with you while you go on a trip with your mother, then he probably isn't mature enough to handle a relationship; let alone "love" someone else.
2007-07-04 18:28:10 · answer #3 · answered by Lenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is a big part in a relationship... idk if you really love this guy or you just lust for him, but remember dont leave the one you love for the one you like because the one you like will leave you for the one they love... it really does happen , but hey you need to sort your feelings out a little more, if you really love your ex, you'd go bak with him, its not like he cheated on you, he just doesnt have much trust, you can build dat trust back up, but do you really want to be with him, if you really did you'd have no hesitation to take him bak and give him another chance
2007-07-04 18:33:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he already had broken up with you just for a trip, to me he doesn't sound like a good guy in the first place:( so I say try this new guy maybe he will go with you on trip not break up with you when you go to one:)
2007-07-04 18:26:13 · answer #5 · answered by chula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should give the other guy a chance he's not true to u i mean like he broke up with u while u were on a trip so if things dnt work out with tha otha guy than go bak out with him
2007-07-04 18:27:14 · answer #6 · answered by megan y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well either you love him or you dont and if you do then you should be with him. there is no question about that. common sense. sorry but its true. if you love this guy then you need to stay with him. but if you have questions about him and if you like another guy then you dont love him anymore. you just think you do
2007-07-04 18:26:53 · answer #7 · answered by chaingangsoldier77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, you'll trust him. If you can't trust him, you should break up. Otherwise, you'll always be insecure. Better to break it off before you think about cheating on him with another guy, no?
2007-07-04 18:27:40 · answer #8 · answered by gotnoclue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the other guy he left you . Take the new guy and never look back. The first one had his chance he blew it dump him it is all over but the crying! his tears .
Queen Bee
2007-07-04 18:46:23 · answer #9 · answered by queen bee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go out with the other guy if I were you. Going back out with your ex can just lead up to arguments and more breakups.
But if you love him madly than go out with him!
2007-07-04 18:26:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋