Family & Relationships - 4 July 2007

me and my best friend were supposed to have this huge party and i found out the next day i had a funeral to go to and my friend got mad for going to it instead of the party am i a bad friend for not going or is she just selfish? (she only wanted me to go so i could help her get her first boy friend)

2007-07-04 13:59:39 · 13 answers · asked by krisybell 1 in Friends

not sure if he will stay off of them I do trust him but I find myself checking were he has been online and who he talks to. He has lied before. I also had someone else in my life try to cheat so Its really hard for me what do I do. I really love him. I have tried to talk to him but it gets me nowhere. I was on his messenger and I found he dident delete some of the wowmen he had been talking to before.

2007-07-04 13:59:21 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I read in a magazine that guys like girls in there PJ's then all dolled up?? Is that true??

2007-07-04 13:59:16 · 13 answers · asked by dancingurl_22 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-04 13:57:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does anyone have any full proof flirting tips that will definitely get a guys attention at a pool party?

2007-07-04 13:52:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, there's this guy in my class whos constantly glancing at me. He also makes up funny excuses just to talk to me like there was this one time, my whole class was signing this sweater and someone commented on how fast i could do my signature. He sits close to me and kinda clumsily blurted out "H-How many letters are in your name?". Are these signs that he likes me?

2007-07-04 13:49:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was hit by a drunk driver and now my hole back is bad i have had one fuss-en all ready now thy have to do my lower back if thy don't all my nerves to my legs well stop or start to shout down i have had so much pain and the lawyers get there money the doctors get there money every body wins but when I'm done I'll have some pain but being a master carpenter not ever again i wish the boy that hit me stayed at the place where he was drinking and slept it off but know he had to drive and look what he has dun to me does any one know some one that can help me fined a good lawyer one that does do something good not take your money and leave you standing alone with bills

2007-07-04 13:48:32 · 4 answers · asked by Mikey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well I have been in a long distance relationship for almost 9 months. We never met each other in real life yet, but we have talked on the phone and sending pictures.

No, Don't tell me "its just the internet, you might get raped, long distance doesn't work" C*ap........
I'm very serious. In my life I have never met anyone who has ever taken me serious as a person.
To make things short, I have a sad life. And I'm your typical a quiet, taunted, barely have any friends loser. I also live with a mean dad.
and my point is, when we still talked more often, he would tell me he isnt going to give up on seeing me. I'm planning to see him by the next summer, but now since he has been so busy at work and school, he barely has any time to talk. I understand.
But do you think its stupid our relationship has come this far and now he is giving up on me, even though we are going to see each other in the next couple of months? We plan to see each other by spring break or the summer break?

2007-07-04 13:47:43 · 10 answers · asked by ^__^ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-04 13:47:04 · 6 answers · asked by MaLcOlM M 1 in Friends

Why do girls try to make guys jealus by flirting with other guys?
There is a girl i like but i think she knows that i like her. so sometimes she flirts with other guys to make me jealus. why do girls do this?

2007-07-04 13:45:52 · 6 answers · asked by DAVY O 3 in Singles & Dating

has anyone suffered the death of a loved one? if so... how have u learned to cope and make peace?

im 15 and when i was 8 my father committed suicide. his death has caused me to have severe anxiety to the point where i couldnt go to school. i am now in therapy and on medication but i has really affected me and my life. i just want to know if anyone else will share thier experiences with death or suicide

2007-07-04 13:44:13 · 18 answers · asked by <3dimples<3 1 in Family

The guy I'm seeking has to be gainfully employed,prof'l,good
wit,healthy,clean, average weight & height match,soft yet strong enuf for a woman to lean on, a bit submissive,some fetish play considered ok,not demanding yet interested in developing a long term association, enjoys dining out attending cultural events. If you know where to meet this type of guy let me in on it,smile

2007-07-04 13:43:13 · 6 answers · asked by goldengirl 4 in Singles & Dating

This question is for white girls:
(First of all I speak perfect English and have been living in the U.S since I was 2 weeks old when I was adopted by my white parents.)
As far as looks go it just seemed like for the most part white girls prefer the 5’10-6 something blue or green eyed, blond or brunette white guys (and the average Hispanic man in the U.S is 5’6) or Black or mixed guys. Ever since I was a little kid, I’ve honestly never heard them say anything positive about Hispanic guys, as far as being attracted to them. All I have ever heard is negative stuff. Every time dating Hispanic guys in general has ever been brought up in front of me, all I’ve ever heard said is they’re dirty, I hate them because one of them said this or did that to me one time, they’re ugly, they’re too gangsta, they stink, they’re grungy, no one wants their immigrant dick, they’re disgusting, I like white boys, they’re too short, eww, hell no but a lot of times just no. I could name at least a dozen girls off the top of my head that I know, some my friends. Even one of my good friends told me she is afraid of being raped by Mexican (Hispanic generalization) guys, which surprises me that she could just say that, right in front of me. The only time I’ve ever heard positive things being said is when they’re talking about mixed, half or three quarters white and half or a quarter Hispanic guys or they mistake them for being Hispanic like Antonio Banderas (partially Spanish but not Mestizo (Hispanic), Enrique Igleseus (half Spanish but not Mestizo (Hispanic), Jessie Metcalf (Italian) ect. The census say’s only 834,000 out of 40.4 million white women in the U.S are involved in serious relationships with Hispanic men; that’s only about 2%. I mean sure they might like you if they get to know you, just most of the time it seems, not like that. Where I live 99% of the girls are white so I don’t really have much of a choice. I’m not bitching, I’m not trying to make anybody feel sorry for me, **** that, it is what it is. All I’m asking is do attractive white girls really prefer, white men way more than Mestizo men?

2007-07-04 13:42:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i had a cute boyfriend 2 years ago but my friend was so jealous of me, so she told him that i was on a sex triangule so he broke-up with me. next day they were dating out!! then i had another boyfriend she was so cuter than the other and he was rich, my "friend" tell him that i was taking his money so he broke-up with me and she broke-up with his boyfriend to have this guy, and it happened.. then i was single, and my other friend did a partyand i knew a cute guy and we were dating so she did the same thing.
and i have 3 more boyfriends and she steal them .... and she will be doing the same thing.
what should i do??

2007-07-04 13:39:26 · 39 answers · asked by fashionista :) 3 in Singles & Dating

I don't understand the mentality behind the thought that after marriage what was not acceptable before now will be.

2007-07-04 13:38:27 · 40 answers · asked by pensivity 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my best friend is 20 years old.
she's not your ordinary 20 year old.
she has the best personality and is extremely mature. she is so wise. & i am so serious about all of this. if you were to meet her you would think she is the best person.

now she had been talking with this man who is very highly respected because he is a 1st drill sergeant in the marines and he used to play pro football. he's an amazing guy. and very, very attractive. but he has a 22 year old daughter and a 18 year old son.

they seem perfect together, but my friend is scared out of her mind that the age difference will ruin things. they are perfect together though. it's not your typical old guy young girl relationship. its different!

oh yeah... they are not in a relationship yet, but they talk everyday and they go on dates and makeout, but that's it i think. they talk about it all the time but my friend is scared. and i wanna help her.

so please give me helpful advice!

2007-07-04 13:36:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend moved not far from my place. But I cannot see her anymore because she's busy alot now. I'm feeling sad about the situation. What can I do to feel better about it?

2007-07-04 13:36:08 · 9 answers · asked by :) 3 in Friends

I think so, do you?

2007-07-04 13:30:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I thought I was over him, but I'm not completly. I still think of him a lot... when I wake up, before bed, and I have dreams about him still liking me. (I don't know if he likes me still or not). How can I get my mind off him? Thinking about something else isn't that easy because he slips back in my mind somehow.

2007-07-04 13:25:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm always wanting to make friends with other people but no one else seems to be. They (people on y!a) say compliment people if you want to make friends, but you don't see other people complimenting people they don't know! Am I the only one?

2007-07-04 13:21:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband verbally and mentally abuses me and controls me. I decided to take up for myself, which is very hard but I have gotten better. I snapped back at him last night. During our fight he mentioned that I have been different lately....I asked how. He said "You've been mean and evil". Was it fair for him to call me that just for taking up for myself. Although he likes me to be submissive and obediant to his every word. I guess in his eyes I could be.

2007-07-04 13:19:12 · 16 answers · asked by sugarbud 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Need as many answers as I can get! Both guy and girl are college aged in this hypothetical scenario, LOL.

Details helpful, be detailed! Any past experiences helpful too! Chatting up a guy in the gym seems like a sticky situation, especially if he is pumping weights and whatnot!

Go on!

2007-07-04 13:18:59 · 7 answers · asked by ultra _ girl 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-04 13:14:41 · 10 answers · asked by jaynappy 1 in Weddings

I am talking about friend of same gender. I don't and I wondered if this was common. I am sure the idea that everyone has a best friend or a 'soulmate' is wrong??

I have people who i get on with but I don't necessarily trust them like with a secret etc (sorry to sound cynical but life experience) and I could not really go to them if i had a problem.

If i had a really close friend it would be great. Sadly I don't, but I am sure one day I will meet someone.
If I had a friend who I got on with as well as I get on with my boyfriend, that understood me it would be great.

I have friend trouble, why are there always stories in media etc about finding love? Surely having a lack friends is common??? I think alot of people are lonely, and want more friends? It can't be just me!!

2007-07-04 13:12:04 · 26 answers · asked by uk.housewife 2 in Friends

My last girl started making out with someone behind my back just weeks after telling me she wanted to be with me forever. Now she won't let me get over her. I've told her I need to move on but she keeps texting me and wants to be friends. I've tried spending time with her as "friends" but it hurts too much and she acts like she could care less. All I want is to meet someone I can have a long term relationship with. I'm a shy and private person and I don't like the idea of starting over :(

2007-07-04 13:08:13 · 24 answers · asked by what? 5 in Singles & Dating

So affraid that they would stay in an unhappy marriage for life.

Honestly...when I croak...it won't matter if people are around me or not.

I'd rather nobody be there...or even know about it...

Like my cat when I was a kid...when her time was up, she just walked away and never returned.

That same way...I would like to ride off into the sunset and never look back.

2007-07-04 13:07:16 · 8 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-04 13:05:26 · 15 answers · asked by Mr. Main Event 5 in Singles & Dating

Im completely fine with my sexuality but its funny I get alot of gay guys sending me messages on myspace. Also my girl friend has started making comments about how some times she thinks I would make a great gay guy. I help her pick out clothes, help her with her hair and give her facials. What do you guys and gals thinks?

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2007-07-04 13:01:48 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

WHY? do men only like to date girls who are wild,party,drink and smoke, WHY? do you men only like women who are high maintenance and not ready to settle down? WHY? do you men only like to put up with such female who brings you pain.
OPEN YOUR EYES AND LOOK AROUND YOU, you have some woman who are not like the ones above listed, and you don't want them, WHY? some would be loyal, commited and respect but yet thats not what you want, WHY? some are christian and would make a good girlfriend, wife and maybe mothers to your children, BUT! you don't want them, those who bring you drama you want, goal diggers you want. the ones who would give you the stars and the moon you don't want. I dont understand, it makes me think that YOU ALL ARE CONFUSED. I am a good woman, and I tried to help a man who I spoke of above, and he always tell me the drama in his life with a woman who fits all the above negative. I would have taken him in but thats his life. and he missed out on a good thing to

2007-07-04 13:01:25 · 15 answers · asked by Warrior For Christ JESUS 1 in Singles & Dating

I really need ot know please.

2007-07-04 12:59:10 · 18 answers · asked by La-La 1 in Singles & Dating