Are white girl's open to serious relationships with Hispanic men?

Question

This question is for white girls:
(First of all I speak perfect English and have been living in the U.S since I was 2 weeks old when I was adopted by my white parents.)
As far as looks go it just seemed like for the most part white girls prefer the 5’10-6 something blue or green eyed, blond or brunette white guys (and the average Hispanic man in the U.S is 5’6) or Black or mixed guys. Ever since I was a little kid, I’ve honestly never heard them say anything positive about Hispanic guys, as far as being attracted to them. All I have ever heard is negative stuff. Every time dating Hispanic guys in general has ever been brought up in front of me, all I’ve ever heard said is they’re dirty, I hate them because one of them said this or did that to me one time, they’re ugly, they’re too gangsta, they stink, they’re grungy, no one wants their immigrant dick, they’re disgusting, I like white boys, they’re too short, eww, hell no but a lot of times just no. I could name at least a dozen girls off the top of my head that I know, some my friends. Even one of my good friends told me she is afraid of being raped by Mexican (Hispanic generalization) guys, which surprises me that she could just say that, right in front of me. The only time I’ve ever heard positive things being said is when they’re talking about mixed, half or three quarters white and half or a quarter Hispanic guys or they mistake them for being Hispanic like Antonio Banderas (partially Spanish but not Mestizo (Hispanic), Enrique Igleseus (half Spanish but not Mestizo (Hispanic), Jessie Metcalf (Italian) ect. The census say’s only 834,000 out of 40.4 million white women in the U.S are involved in serious relationships with Hispanic men; that’s only about 2%. I mean sure they might like you if they get to know you, just most of the time it seems, not like that. Where I live 99% of the girls are white so I don’t really have much of a choice. I’m not bitching, I’m not trying to make anybody feel sorry for me, **** that, it is what it is. All I’m asking is do attractive white girls really prefer, white men way more than Mestizo men?

Answer 1

I think physically an attraction just has to be there; but it is less about eye color and height than pheremones and how you conduct yourself .....

for instance; young silly girls are drawn to "bad boys" who they think they can "save" .... they try to mother the guys & this doesn't work out for many many reasons - but can get you some good sex.

more mature girls or those that are more intelligent are drawn to calmer, smarter men - men who walk tall and don't need to shout and carry on (attention getting) and after that it depends on values & such.

I think you may have just seen a few girls you were interested in go for some popular guys who were acting badly - hang in there and be yourself and be PICKY yourself .... in the long run it is worth it.

Answer 2

Not all black men are broke, and get white women pregnant and leave the. What about the broke white women that chases, rich and successful black men, like Tiger woods, whose wife Elin Woods, was a nanny prior to her marriage to Tiger, and what about NBA great Charles Barkley, and Dennis Rodman, Dwayne Wade,and comedian Richard Pryor, etc. The list is too long to name them all. It goes both ways! And look at Kendra, all she was , was Hugh Hefners girlfriend, but she's married to a NFL football player, whose black (can't remember his name). They also chase after the rich Hispanic men in professional baseball. But to answer your question, HELL YEA! you should date white men, blacks and hispanics are doing it. And unless a black or hispanic man is in some lucritive profession, the likely of him loosing his, job,or ever getting hired for a good payin job is slim. At least with a white man, you'll have some financial security, because they look out for they're own people.

Answer 3

I know where you're coming from. My HS was 96% Causcasian and I was one of only three Hispanics in that school. I can honestly say that it wasn't that they weren't attracted to me, as much as they were afraid what people would think. I would always get nice comments by hotties on how well I dressed or looked. But, when it came down to it, most of them would not want to indulge in anything further than friends. The jocks always though of themselves as the top social group in my HS. When the girls they were surrounded with did something dumb or out of their acceptance they were ridiculed badly. This is why I think many would not go further. I could almost see them putting them down for dating a Hispanic. Just find someone that is involved in what you're all about and not in what other people think.

Answer 4

Yes,there are. I'am trying to do that right now. I just fear all the stereotypes and don't want to be fooled. Right now he has given me no reason to doubt him or the way he feels about me. Also I think you need to find some better friends, they don't seem to respect you to say something like that to you or infront of you. Women in general just prefer someone who is real, and not into games. Just my 2 cents.

Answer 5

Ohh GOD sounds to me like you really need to get out of the circle of friends your involved with!!! They are a bunch of racist and ignorant people!!! I wonder how old the females are who are making these comments? Is disturbing! Seriously... I think there are people with good and bad qualities in all races! the point is to love your self and when you love you... You will meet someone who will love you as well!

Answer 6

heck yes i love hispanic men && i am pretty darn white hehe!
soo yeah there are girls out there that like totally dig hispanics!
good luck sweetheart!

Answer 7

yeah i've dated like 3. i think there cute.


feel free to im me:)

Answer 8

wat about black girls?