Family & Relationships - 4 July 2007

I met him only to confirm what I already knew. I love him and he has becomed really important to me. This last two weeks were the best weeks of my life, I never felt more comfortable with anyone in my life.
And now that he is gone I cant stop feeling depressed...we dont have much money and he lives in another country...Ill try to visit him as soon as possible....but its still going to be 7 or 8 months until I see him...and its killing me...
Have you ever been in a similar situation? Any advice?...

2007-07-04 15:30:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know it's wrong, but I do find my friend's mom attractive.....
In my eyes she is a very beautiful woman, now she is not married, she's not seeing anobody..."she hasn't gone out on a date for a long time"....I think she knows that I like her, because sometimes when she's sitting on the couch and i'm looking for something near her...she gets my head and puts it on her legs, and she lets me touch and rub her legs, when she's wearing a skirt,I sometimes put my hand under it and rub her thighs..I look up and she's looking down at me with a smile..anyway moving forward, for some strange reason I have a feeling that if i ask her out she will say yes, and I also have a feeling that she is just waiting for me to make a move on her...I don't know what to do....I know it's wrong but I can't help it...can anyone help me???...by the way she is 43 and i'm 20!!!!!!!

2007-07-04 15:29:37 · 37 answers · asked by John Michael 1 in Singles & Dating

I am deaf and physcially challenged. I also weigh less than 100 pounds. Note that I'm a 15 year old male.

Because of my disability, my mother used to give me pocket money. She has three jobs. She stopped giving me money after I took a girl out one night.

She said, " John, I know you are seeking for a girl, which you won't find. I do not want you to spend my hard earned money on women who will not accept you for who you are. And believe me, son, you won't find what you are search for."

Seems as if Mom is correct, because I am a virgin at age 25.

I told Mom that my SSI paycheck is too small and that I would like to work, at least give myself a try.

She said, " John, be satisfied of what you have today. They're worse than you in this world. Mom doesn't want you to work, anf I'll buy whatever you want; just give me time."

I told Mom that I am going to join the deaf group to see if I could find a girl that would love me.

2007-07-04 15:27:16 · 8 answers · asked by John 2 in Family

What is the story?

2007-07-04 15:23:49 · 32 answers · asked by Oceanbreeze 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-04 15:23:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I are celebrating our 3rd anniversary. I have decided that I am going to surprise him by having sex. We were going to wait until we get married next Spring, but this is the right time.

I want to wear something cute yet hot this Saturday. He loves heels and is a leg guy. He also likes pantyhose. I was thinking of wearing a black dress with black pantyhose and black pumps.

2007-07-04 15:23:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK,
It sounds stupid, but the last year-two I think I am nearly attracted in the romantic way to guys. I mean, everytime I see some sweet man I think only about sex and such things...I even nearly keep my eyes in the face of the man, his bu** seems much more interesting to me :))).
But anyway, I am tring to write this like a serious topic, and no to sounds like I am whore or something. I had several bf's during my "hypersex" period, but nothing helps. I want to be like a little 15 year old gil wanting her prince :)....now I am 20 by the way.

Thanks!

2007-07-04 15:19:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just curious.

2007-07-04 15:16:28 · 15 answers · asked by Oceanbreeze 2 in Singles & Dating

I been separted to my husband now for about 2 month's and I am taking him to court on July 24th for child support and support for myself. We have 4 children and I am also pregnant with our 5th child. He keeps telling me that I am going to get a little bit of money. He is also paying child support for another child that he had with his ex-girlfriend. He pays $550.00 a month for that one son, so I was just curious to know if my children will get the same amount or less? Also, are they going to decrease the amount of money that his first son is getting in order for all my children to get an equal amount. I been a house wife for the pass 5 years and my husband is also in the military. Do you think that I will benefit from that?

Thank you all for responding....

2007-07-04 15:05:42 · 6 answers · asked by Vicky 6 in Marriage & Divorce

plz help!
ok so during the summer before 7th grade a good friend of mine told me he liked me at camp and asked me out. when i was younger i felt awkward and uncomfortable when this would happen so at the time i sorta blew it off with the excuse that i was also friends with his ex-gf. we remained friends the following school yr when we were going to the same jr. high school and became close again.during 7th he asked out about 2 of my friends but ended up dumping them. both of them would tell me how he'd talk about me,how we were together at camp. so after ending the relationships with my friends, he asked me out again.
*heres where i messed up =/
i felt uncomfortable again and just stopped talking to him altogether. and before im called a b**** or w.e remember that i was in 7th grade so i was already awkward by default.
now, about 5 yrs later i have returned to the same camp as a counselor where he is working too. we havent talked since then bc we now go to different high schools...

2007-07-04 15:05:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Like your health?

2007-07-04 15:04:04 · 29 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Singles & Dating

Ok im 35 and been happily married 14 yrs..2 yrs ago hubby went to iraq..1 night about 1 yr ago me and his brother who is also married went out for drinks,got drunk and went back to my house and ended up having sex and been having an affair since then..Well 2 months ago i found out i was pregnant and now hubby is coming home...Me and his brother ended things 2 weeks ago..I wanna tell hubby the truth but not who the affair was with cause i dont wanna cause trouble between him and his brother...Should i do this?

2007-07-04 15:01:29 · 57 answers · asked by vicky s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have NEVER had a boyfriend in my entire life and where would the place to find "my guy"?

2007-07-04 14:59:50 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

My dad knows I haven't started my summer reading yet, and he asks "How's 'Guns Germs and Steel'?" With a really obnixious tone of voice. Then "When are you going to start?" And I said, "I'll get on that tonight". And he says "Well, Kels, you've got to get something going for you." in an angry tone. Ouch.

I'd prefer if he didn't use that obnoxious tone he uses everytime. Do your parents ask you things like that, or do they just say straight out say it? Do you think that last thing he said to me was too harsh?

2007-07-04 14:47:27 · 13 answers · asked by epitome of innocence 5 in Family

the conversation has made him sexually excited...then plays like the girl is not what got him excited ---just her conversation---Is that possible. Could it be true that I didn't excite him but my conversation made him horney???
I don't see how he can separate the two ideas.
Either I'm hot to him or not!

Tell me what you believe.

2007-07-04 14:36:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I see guys walking down the street hand-in-hand with these girls and I think "Where can I find a woman like that!" Just like the song 'Jessies Girl' from the 80's. I'm out of college now and in the working world. And it's hard sometimes. I go to bars and coffee shops and there's lots of beautiful women there but it's so hard to talk to them there. I'm not one of those shark-like guys who just swoops in and goes for the kill.

2007-07-04 14:35:52 · 2 answers · asked by LG 7 in Singles & Dating

I mean a non psycho one.

2007-07-04 14:33:07 · 23 answers · asked by CherryBombPopper 1 in Singles & Dating

that no matter where u go or what u do u think about them all the time & even after u drifted apart u still have feelings for them?

2007-07-04 14:31:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was just chatting this girl on yahoo games, and it was goin swell, from her description she sounded hot - you know half-black,half-indian, cheerleader. Anyway the moment I saw her pic - she had a masculine face and glasses, n a big chin - I just instantly felt like 'wrong' and the passion died instantly and I embarrasedly just said bye and deleted her. Should I learn from this and decline to swop pics, as it just seems to sap the passion! I feel horrible right now btw

2007-07-04 14:24:06 · 2 answers · asked by Amachronic 2 in Singles & Dating

Married Guys ONLY

2007-07-04 14:21:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have/had a friend of the opposite sex and I have not seen her since the last day of school back in 6th grade (3.5 years).Untill I went to register for summer school on 7-2-07, thats when I saw her there with her cousin an so I said hi to her cousin Andrea because we go to the same school and I noticed the girl standing behind her looked like Chantel a little bit and that was her so I said hi. After that my breathing changed a little bit and my heart started to race. I had always hoped to see my old friend again but I was hoping the meeting would last longer than that.Over those years she was supprisingly on my mind alot. But it is tearing me apart knowing there is hardly no real chance of us seeing eachother again. There was a time when I thought she used to like me but since alot of girls used to play with me like that back then,I did not want to risk killing our friendship.What should I do, am I in love or is it just that teen love?

2007-07-04 14:18:31 · 3 answers · asked by FightinDreamer 1 in Friends

what do i do i really like him and he likes me, but how could i do that to my friend it would break her heart.

2007-07-04 14:16:34 · 8 answers · asked by Punk Charm 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating my fiance for 5+ years and we have been engaged since May 6, 2007. In April he met this girl and developed a bond with her. He then became confused about what he wanted with life. We'll on May 6th her proposed to me while in Disney World. Everything was great up to today (July, 4th). My best friend called me and wanted me to come over with out my fiance. She then broke the news that she found out her was sleeping with this same girl. I went home and confronted him...He admitted to everything. He then proceeded to ask me why I was so in love with him. I followed my answer by asking if he still wanted to marry me...He responded with yes...And he wants to go to marriage counsling. My question is...Is it worth doing am I wasting my time, or should I try to salvage what we have since I'm so in love and attached to him? He also is wanting to move to Illinois after the wedding (thats where is parents are from). I'm ok with going, actually I want to go.

2007-07-04 14:15:53 · 15 answers · asked by tlc8199 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why is it that ugly people don't get as many opportunities as pretty people and I’m speaking from the ugly people side ^x^

2007-07-04 14:15:37 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One of my bridesmaids had two children. On the wedding invitation I sent it to my bridesmaid and "guest" along with her oldest child. When i received the response card back she had added her youngest child's name to the response card, mind you the child is two and out of control. I told my bridesmaid my reasoning for not having small children at the wedding. Quite frankly I don't want screaming kids in the background as a I recite my vows etc... Kids are so unpredictable. Of course I explained it nicer than that. My girlfriend complied, but then brough both children to the formal reception. I am happy to report no disasters and there are no hard feelings. I am just having trouble understanding why she felt compelled to do this and really believes babies should attend weddings....

2007-07-04 14:14:32 · 18 answers · asked by kelly m 1 in Weddings

What if the woman is the one older than the man, is the man really in love to the older woman or they want something else especially if the woman is a bit financially stable.

2007-07-04 14:07:02 · 6 answers · asked by marievic m 2 in Singles & Dating

okay here's the situation...

i'm married this man who i met on myspace. i've only known him for a few months and introduced him to my daughter once before getting married.

my daughter says he's immature, and he ignores her and pretends like she doesn't exist (she does the same towards him). but he only ignores her because he knows she hates him. so why should he make an effort to get to know her? SHE SHOULD!?

she always gives us attitude, she says she hates living with us, and she says she never asked for any of this. she says she feels like shes being forced to live with a stranger. common, she knows he's my husband and not a stranger.

she says i treat him like gold and i never considered her feelings on me getting married. I DON'T NEED HER APPROVAL!

i've been a single parent for 10 years. it's time for me to be happy. and its my daughters turn to sacrifice for me.

2007-07-04 14:05:08 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Changing looks,
Ok. I am asian. I wear glasses. I am 5"6'. Getting slim. I wear nice clothes from Deb and Hollister. This is what I look like: http://s110.photobucket.com/albums/n96/made2hug_01/?action=view¤t=untitled2.jpg

Love:
there is a guy named Taylor and he always wants me to get on top of him and I like him too. Well, the probelm is he has a girlfriend, and he kissed me yesterday. Should I go along or tell him to back off?!

High School:
How do I go with people? How do I be friendly? OMG! What happens if I become popular, how am I suppose to act?

Most answer all questions!

2007-07-04 14:04:15 · 4 answers · asked by shopperloverdrake 1 in Singles & Dating

okay so we both told each other we liked each other and yea. but he has a friend that likes him too and he told her about us. she said she wasn't mad and also not surprised. but i can just tell that she's mad at me becuz like 3 weeks earlier i told her i didn't like him but now i do. what do i do now [about her and about him]? also is it normal to feel freaked out about the whole commitment thing?

2007-07-04 14:03:47 · 6 answers · asked by lolagirl 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-04 14:00:56 · 30 answers · asked by cassie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships