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I see guys walking down the street hand-in-hand with these girls and I think "Where can I find a woman like that!" Just like the song 'Jessies Girl' from the 80's. I'm out of college now and in the working world. And it's hard sometimes. I go to bars and coffee shops and there's lots of beautiful women there but it's so hard to talk to them there. I'm not one of those shark-like guys who just swoops in and goes for the kill.

2007-07-04 14:35:52 · 2 answers · asked by LG 7 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Always be yourself. if the women of your dreams cannot see you just as you are, then you may not recognize each other. So work environment is not always the best place to meet someone, unless f course your work is your life and dream job.


What makes people get together? Important question.
Is it the clothes? the fashion? showing intelligence? knowing the latest fads? driving the flash car?

None of the above.

If you ask most people why they are with their partner, it is because of the things about then that are different. the quirks, the character, all the oddities from the main stream that make a person unique, that makes them stand out from the masses.

So the number one thing to do, is to NOT change from who you are in order to attract a mate.

What is uniques about you?????Then show it!
Out there is a girl/women who wants and can link into the real character. But if she doesn't see your uniqueness then you pass by as invisible, as you might not see her if she acts and dresses like the other sheep. Bars and coffee shops are too normal to be a good meeting place.

Classes and hobbies are good places to meet others, as are not mainstream shops, such as......say....comic shops... be as outrageous, shy, cheeky, nerdy, as you are naturally. When your true personality shines with self confidence...you will be noticed and dazzle the women of your dreams.

She is probably wondering where you are hiding yourself!

2007-07-05 02:41:41 · answer #1 · answered by eirefaeriemom 3 · 0 0

I don't know what to tell you. I can't find love either and that ok maybe your supposed to be single right now. relationships are a lot of work. I really don't want a relationship just some to got with on dates. like that used to back the old days.

2007-07-04 21:45:20 · answer #2 · answered by JillardG 5 · 0 0

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