I know it's wrong, but I do find my friend's mom attractive.....
In my eyes she is a very beautiful woman, now she is not married, she's not seeing anobody..."she hasn't gone out on a date for a long time"....I think she knows that I like her, because sometimes when she's sitting on the couch and i'm looking for something near her...she gets my head and puts it on her legs, and she lets me touch and rub her legs, when she's wearing a skirt,I sometimes put my hand under it and rub her thighs..I look up and she's looking down at me with a smile..anyway moving forward, for some strange reason I have a feeling that if i ask her out she will say yes, and I also have a feeling that she is just waiting for me to make a move on her...I don't know what to do....I know it's wrong but I can't help it...can anyone help me???...by the way she is 43 and i'm 20!!!!!!!
2007-07-04 15:29:37 · 37 answers · asked by John Michael 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I forgot to mention that I have talked to my friend about it and to my surprise he is cool about the whole situation...he said it's cool if I do date his mom as long as I keep him out of it!!!!!
2007-07-04 16:20:35 · update #1
just be yourself everything will be okay.........................ll
2007-07-12 06:00:34 · answer #1 · answered by I AM BACK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well guys usually have that fantasy about dating a mom. That's y the word MILF is out there. But as for her maybe she lets you because she's divorced ( if she was ever married) and hasn't been on a date in a while. She's prolly lonely and wants that attention and to be loved my a male. But if you want my opinion dont do it cause your going to loose your Friend and possible more frds over this. Its ok to talk about liking your friends mom but its not all right. Don't want this to sound mean but its prolly just her way of having a male in her life and that feeling of a male touch and warmth. Just don't do it, its going to cause a lot of problems lata on in life.
2007-07-04 15:38:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought this might be an adolescence problem but i see it is something way more serious and a lot less possible to fix. You are 20 years old? You know better than that and you already know what to do. Stay away from this woman until you get you raging a bit overlong hormones in check. Shame on you
2007-07-04 15:32:53 · answer #3 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you actually believe that it's possible and your Friend is cool with it, then I'd say go for it. But be ready for disapproval from others. The age difference and the fact that it's your friends mother might cause others to butt in with their two cents whether you like it or not. Also, be careful to keep your friend separate from your relationship with his mother as much as possible. He doesn't have to be a witness to what goes on between you and her. He may say it's okay while it's not happening, but if his mother and you begin a relationship, he may feel differently altogether. Be prepared for that as well. Good luck.
2007-07-12 08:08:52 · answer #4 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, this is just wrong,, she's a nasty old woman who wants to get her groove on some young meat,, you need to get a grip and think about what this would do to your so called friendship,how would you feel if all of your homies was feeling up your momma and laughing about it,, and got a piece of it,, come on know your boundries and by the way you are way over yours,,,,, peace,,,, laters the poaf
2007-07-12 13:22:35 · answer #5 · answered by Tracy P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your friend and try to get an idea of how he would feel about the situation.
I am 43 and if a hot 20 yr old wanted to hook up with me I would go for it!
2007-07-04 15:51:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like bad news. A woman who is 42 hitting on a 20 year old has issues issues issues. Steer clear. Unless you just want to get some ... but even then that has major repurcussions for your friendship. This reminds me of American Pie. I wouldn't do it.
2007-07-04 15:35:15 · answer #7 · answered by twinmom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHOA ..
I think your cougar needs to slow it down with her sons or daughters friend.
She is never going to date you, but it seems that she wants to play with you.
Do you really want to play with her!?!
This is your friends mother.
You should perhaps try dating someone either in your age group or a bit older by a couple of years. NOT 20 YEARS OLDER. Nothing is wrong with that, but trust me .. Everyone will wonder about you .... I have a feeling you will play with her anyways .. Guys are soo corrupted like that.
WHY do you think that cougars prey on little cubs like you ... !?!
2007-07-04 15:35:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She certainly has a problem. She shouldn't be letting you do what you're doing. Stay away from her.You're the one that will be the most affected by this if it continues. She's lonely and she'll take what's available. Shame on her. A decent person does not do that to her child or her child's friend.
2007-07-04 15:39:35 · answer #9 · answered by Morningstar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, Oh please just don't. You are in way over your experience level. You will be doing yourself no favors at all, and will get hurt. Shame on her for her part in this. She at 43, may be flattered by your attention, and you may be flattered by hers, but there is no good in it. If you intellectually know it is wrong, listen to that voice. Do you really think your friend won't mind...think about that some more. How would you feel if he was feeling up your mother?
2007-07-12 15:30:52 · answer #10 · answered by crittersitterjenna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is silly to date your mom's friend. You will be disrespecting your mom. Get it out of your head. It is classified child abuse for her to enjoy your rubbing her thighs underneath her skirt. Date girls of your age not your mother's age. Your mother should not be allowing such a woman around her. She is corrupt and silly.
2007-07-12 14:10:10 · answer #11 · answered by Deebari T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋