Family & Relationships - 4 July 2007

I grew up a country boy that not too many people wanted. I worked the farms with a few other guys in the same boat until I was 18 and joined the Navy 15 years ago. My retirement is set, my bills are paid and I own land back there on the river. I'm only 34 and all I think about is living my life on that river in peace and happiness. Settle down with a little cutie, lay in my hammock and watch the water go by with a yellow lab nearby.

I'm a vet so insurance is covered if I have trouble finding work. Can somebody talk some sense in me?

2007-07-04 09:59:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

First off I was married before and I have 2 kids (age 5 and 2). I have been with my bf for about 10 months now. He has a god daughter that is having a bday party this weekend (turning 2). My kid's father was going to pick them up this weekend but my bf said maybe we should have him swap it to next weekend so that the 2 yr old can go with him (my bf) to the party. and me and my 5 yr old can have a fun girls day.

Here is the part that makes me wonder- the mother of his god daughter is his ex-fiance. I assumed since the kids wouldnt be here I would go with him to the party. he called today from work and made it a point that he just wanted the baby to go and that I should do something with my daughter. Not that I wouldn't love to have alone time with her but it is just I have a gut feeling that there is another reason he would rather me stay behind. I try not to be jealous of this girl but it seems he harbors feelings for her & she for him.
Should I be worried about it or let him go?

2007-07-04 09:56:10 · 14 answers · asked by angelbabies98517 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend who claims to be madly in love with the man that she is living with but he doesn't return her affection. The problem is, that while I was madly in love with one of our mutual friends, she kept calling him, texting him, going to the movies with him and telling him everything that I would say. now he has backed off so much from me that he doesn't even want to talk to me anymore. I am not sure what to think honestly! Was she tryign to sabatoge my relationship with him? Or was she tryign to help me by thinking it was ok to tell him how I felt? What kind of friend is she?

2007-07-04 09:55:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

You come across your mate's personal address book. Do you glance at it?

2007-07-04 09:55:31 · 20 answers · asked by ♫Problem Child♫ 7 in Marriage & Divorce

What would you do if you were at a bar and you were trying to talk to a group of girls and one of the girls in the group said "Listen why don't you just go away?"

2007-07-04 09:52:16 · 11 answers · asked by tjk1701 2 in Singles & Dating

If ur gf/wife wanted to do something nice to show she really appreaciated u, what would it b?

2007-07-04 09:49:16 · 21 answers · asked by hamish 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

He works pretty hard to take care of them. It's just hard for me to accept. I think about, what if i start liking this guy and he have all those kids by all those different women. I could accept 4 by the same woman. Am i wrong for feeling this way, by the way i just have one.

2007-07-04 09:45:41 · 17 answers · asked by Yum Yum 1 in Singles & Dating

would others like to see an adults only section in yahoo q&a?

2007-07-04 09:45:35 · 5 answers · asked by waljac6108 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

the Attorney General launched an investigation on kids father, well apparently he has falllen behind on payments becuase according to him they are threatening to garnish his income tax if he doesn't pay what is owed. Now normaly when something happens on the case i receive notification of such from the Attny. Gen. office, i have not in this case. My kids' father is constantly calling or texting me to get the attny gen off his case or i'll be sorry. I didn't pay much attention to this because...what can he possibly do right?? Well, i was wrong...see the boys are with him for the summer and he just called me to tell me that since i failed to get the attny gen off his case, he is keeping the kids.
My kids are 13 & 11 and i AM the custodial parent...so i know he can't just keep them, right?
Well i don't care bout being threatened personally but my kids are whole different matter...I called the police and filed a complaint against him. Did i over react? What do i do now?

2007-07-04 09:43:03 · 6 answers · asked by SeXyMaMa 3 in Family

Almost every time I chat with someone new online it seems that I get propositioned in some way or another (even here on Answers!). Would these people behaive this way if we were to meet in person or does the anonymity of it all just bring out our inner freaks? I am truly curious if others have this same problem. I like to chat (quite a lot) . . . but I really don't want to see you on your cam do things that your mother would not be proud of or engage in those often inappropriate conversations.

2007-07-04 09:40:54 · 15 answers · asked by lanay 3 in Singles & Dating

this guy I like is a really busy guy at work and despite that he always finds time to IM with me and stays connected all day in case I need to chat to him for anything. Do u think he fancies me?

2007-07-04 09:37:37 · 20 answers · asked by SK 1 in Singles & Dating

where are the right places

2007-07-04 09:37:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My man dosen't show me love, respect, any attention, and takes me for granted. I show him all Of these but recieve none in return. what do I do?

2007-07-04 09:35:31 · 6 answers · asked by lizzylonelov 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-04 09:35:19 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

WHAT DO I BUT FOR MY BOYFRIEND FOR HIS BIRTHDAY? WE LIVE AN HOUR AWAY AND HIS BIRTHDAY IS IN 8 DAYS BUT I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO GET HIM..HELP! IM SO LOST ON BUYING HIM SOMEHTING...

2007-07-04 09:32:46 · 10 answers · asked by Pom Pon Girl 161377 3 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriends mom does not want us together still and every time we try to go out she says that she is sick so he can take care of her or she is really stressed or that she needs him to dirve her places and she drives all day long what she needs him for. i cant take it anymore i really love him and he loves me we been together for 2 years and she never liked me and now she is getting worse. i have not see my boyfriend in over a week because of her. please what do i do? i told him to just walk out and leave but everytime he does she brings his dad into it. and when he tells them that they can not keep him away from me its like haveing the biggest fight in the world. they wont leave him alone. PLEASE HELP US!!

2007-07-04 09:32:00 · 8 answers · asked by i live in h3ll 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My chicken keep peckin up da other 3 chicken all de time and kill one chickens alredy. I try to seprate dis chicken but den he stop eatin no mo. How I stop chicken from doin dis?

2007-07-04 09:31:54 · 14 answers · asked by Buckwheat 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-04 09:30:05 · 13 answers · asked by I ♥ YOU!!! 2 in Singles & Dating

HOW SEXY IS YOUR NAME
Add the letters in your first name using the numbers below =) And Write it at the bottom! And re-post it with "H0W SEXY IS YOUR NAME?"

A=100
B=14
C=9
D=28
E=145
F=12
G=3
H=850
I=200
J=600
K=114
L=100
M=25
N=450
O=300
P=200
Q=12
R=400
S=500
T=405
U=11
V=10
W=10
X=3
Y=210
Z=23

* Under 60 points = not too sexy
* From 61-300 points = pretty sexy
* Between 301 and 599 points = VERY sexxxxy!!!
* Over 600 points = beyond very very verrrrry sexy!!!!

2007-07-04 09:28:33 · 87 answers · asked by % 3 in Singles & Dating

i heard that if you can tie a cherry stem with your tongue, that means you're a good kisser. i'm not sure if that's true or not, but i tried it anyway. it was actually pretty fun, and i got pretty good at it. my record was 10 seconds. what's yours? just wondering ;)

2007-07-04 09:27:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex of 3 months broke up with me a month ago. Well we work together (diff dpts) and other than a hello I ignore him. Well a couple weeks ago he calls me, I miss the call, call back no answer or call back. I never mentioned it to him. Also I notice he stares at me and when I am having a conversation with someone else he is often near and seems to be listening in. He has also gone out of his way to interupt me while talking to someone to talk to that person. Honestly I find itv very immature and why is he doing this?

2007-07-04 09:25:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for five years now. We have a daughter together. He has been acting very strange lately. He doesn't come up and give me a kiss or hug when he gets home from work, he doesn'talk to me anymore, he doesn't even go to bed when I do anymore(he stays up and watchs tv and falls asleep on the couch), and he has been getting home from work later and later. He hasn't acted like this since last year. And when he did act like this I made a mistake and had affair with someone else. I love him so much but I had lived with him for two years and he treated me more like a room mate than a girlfriend. I tried to talk to him numerous times before it got that bad but he never wanted to talk to me. After I cheated on him I have be paying for my mistake. I have put up with smart comments and hurtful cold shoulders. I don't say anything about it because I know it is partially my fault. But now he is telling me that he is debating on staying with afriend for while.Whatshould I do

2007-07-04 09:23:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A question to all girls, do you restrict yourself from a guy just b'coz he is shorter than you(when it comes to dating). Cast your openion..

2007-07-04 09:15:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anmol 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-04 09:12:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-07-04 09:12:25 · 4 answers · asked by Destiny 4 in Singles & Dating

How can I become a nicer person? I argue a lot, you could even say that I like to argue. I also think about myself a lot and how I can get the best for me. If I dont argue with people, wont they just roll over me? I dont get along well with people and I'm lonely because of it I think.

I'm an only child. Is that the reason I cant get along? Only child syndrome?

Does anyone have any tips on how I can have more good friendships and interactions with people? If I change will people just roll over me? Isn't arguing essential to standing up for yourself?

2007-07-04 09:05:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Guys, if a girl made this video for you, what would your response be?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2eCzbpcNnoI

2007-07-04 08:56:35 · 3 answers · asked by Ashley M 1 in Singles & Dating

How relible is he/she? Like you make plans, how high is the propability it is gonna happen? (Married or long lasting relationships only, please)

2007-07-04 08:50:43 · 11 answers · asked by aaja 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We're putting out blank thank you cards so our guests can write tys to troops overseas (husbands in the military, and our wedding is a 1940s USO theme) and the favors will be the pens. What do you engrave on them? Just our names and wedding date? We can have 3 lines of text. Any ideas appreciated.

2007-07-04 08:46:00 · 8 answers · asked by mrs.v 4 in Weddings

i won the lottery in my state 4 mo ago and i have not told anyone because my family is always fighting so if i reveal this theres no telling what will happen not only that i'm going through a divorce with my wife of six years she does not know either what should i do i'm a very handsome quiet guy who works two jobs

2007-07-04 08:41:34 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce