the Attorney General launched an investigation on kids father, well apparently he has falllen behind on payments becuase according to him they are threatening to garnish his income tax if he doesn't pay what is owed. Now normaly when something happens on the case i receive notification of such from the Attny. Gen. office, i have not in this case. My kids' father is constantly calling or texting me to get the attny gen off his case or i'll be sorry. I didn't pay much attention to this because...what can he possibly do right?? Well, i was wrong...see the boys are with him for the summer and he just called me to tell me that since i failed to get the attny gen off his case, he is keeping the kids.
My kids are 13 & 11 and i AM the custodial parent...so i know he can't just keep them, right?
Well i don't care bout being threatened personally but my kids are whole different matter...I called the police and filed a complaint against him. Did i over react? What do i do now?
2007-07-04 09:43:03 · 6 answers · asked by SeXyMaMa 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
The police office that was dispatched to finalize the report just left and was so kind as to inform me that this call was a waste of time because there isn't a "threat" to be reported and that my ex has NOT violated any of my rights or the kids rights....
I'm more than a little confussed by that bit of info.
PLEASE ADVISE!!!
2007-07-04 10:06:03 · update #1
technically, the police are right. until his visitation time is up, he hasn't violated anything. i do suggest you talk to your attorney asap and let him know what's happening. you may want to call the atty gen office as well. ask if they have been trying to contact the ex and about his threats. try to calm down. your ex sounds like a major control freak and will try anything.
2007-07-04 10:17:19 · answer #1 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did not overreact. In fact, if I were in your shoes I'd go so far as to get sole custody of the children. If he's making such threats, he's showing warning signs of being an unsafe parent. The only way he could keep the kids is if he can prove to a judge that he is the best choice and that you are a bad/unsafe parent. Obviously, since he won't pay child support (and he has the Attorney General on his butt about it), he won't win such a case. Keep everything documented. Write down dates, times, etc. and take him to court. You have your children's safety at stake here, so don't back down.
2007-07-04 16:58:24 · answer #2 · answered by Laura 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did not over react these are your children. Keep all of the text messages and forward them to the gen att. Also try to get him to leave messages on you answering machine and send those as well.
Contact the police where he lives and see if they can be of more assistance. When his time is up with the kids, go down and see if you can get a police escort, tell them you anticipate trouble because of these threats and let them know that he has been telling you that you can't have them, bring your paperwork that shows you have custody and demand your kids back.
2007-07-05 13:23:07 · answer #3 · answered by I'm Here 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing! Keep everyting he sends as evidence and write down whatever is happening! Keep a legal pad and jot down the date, time and whatever happens.
Keep calling the police and make a call to the Atty Gen's office tomorrow to update them. You're in the right, legally.
Good luck! :)
2007-07-04 16:48:26 · answer #4 · answered by ET_buddy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no. you didn't over react. at least i don't think so. you did the right thing. he doesn't pay the support so how does he think he can support them full time. and your kids are old enough to decide for themselves if they want to stay with him. if they want to be with you they can tell the judge. most judges will listen to the child even if they are not of legal age to make their choice. good luck.
2007-07-04 16:48:52 · answer #5 · answered by heather l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes give in oct bcoz as u must b kowning in the is gonna change and they r so hard i m saying really that the teachers told m that in 10 the portion is gonna change and it is so that hard that even she is thinking that how will she will teach us.so giving oct xams of 10th is gr8 thinking if wanna giving 10th u can giving but i think that u hav Search a gr8 and nice teacher that she can teach good and get u gr8 mark .
2007-07-05 00:18:46 · answer #6 · answered by romil_13131 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋