Family & Relationships - 4 July 2007

He was clinically depress, hospitalized, and now seeing a psychiatrist. Whathappened was my friend and him are having communications for almost 2 months. She was telling my boyfirend that I was cheating. Her lover left her because her lover liked me. She and I spoke and I told her that nothing was going on between me and her boyfriend. She wanted her lover back so that's why she was talking to my boyfriend and telling I was unfaithful. My boyfriend still never gaveup then. So she invited my boyfriend go out and then for 2 weeks they were out even sleeping together without me knowing. He found comfort being with her and trust her. He called me one day and wanted "cool off". I said ilove her and I dont want.He insisted so i said i respect you decesion. until he was hospitalized 2 days after. Over dose of sleeping pills because he couldn't sleep. I love him and I tex him no matter what happens, I will forgive. him . he texted me saying he I was too good for him.dnt deserve it.

2007-07-04 05:37:49 · 7 answers · asked by cotton 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my parents never got along and every now and then they go wacko and i end up crying so SOMETIMES i call my bf and he relaxes me. last night i called him and he was like i dont have time for this im going to bed blah blah. i txtd him and was like 'thanks for spending 30 sec with me on the phone, u really do care'
he called me back and was like what do u want me to tell u, ur paretns are psycotoic and u are ur whole family are drama queens.
so i was like i really hate u right now ihate u so much
(i was an emotional mess) (he just really frustrated me)
we hung up and he called me back 5 min later to make sure i was okay and this morning he called and i was like hey babe and he was like i thoght u said u hate me!
i know hes upset but waht should i do?
i really feel like im pushing him away

2007-07-04 05:32:53 · 18 answers · asked by mitlilkizbi 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-04 05:22:02 · 9 answers · asked by pollypolly000 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We've had a serious problem with our sex life for many years now. The first several years we were together it was constant, literally every other night, if not EVERY night. Then she began witholding not only sex but almost all forms of affection and intimacy. It got so bad at one point that I wouldn't even sleep in our bed because I couldn't handle the rejection anymore, it just hurt too much. We confronted the issue many many times and it would always improve for like two weeks before gradually returning to her rejecting me intimately and sometimes even going two weeks without her even touching me no affection at all. Right now it's to the point that when we DO have sex, as soon as she orgasms she wants to stop. She'll either STOP, ask how long I'll be or tell me to hurry up because she's tired and has to get up early.
I know I'm going to hear "go to counseling" from most people, but we have...but it never fails to return to "normal". Ladies, help me, I'm about to have an affair.

2007-07-04 05:20:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-04 05:11:10 · 22 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

you go limp . And it happens over and over again and you cant see to get up anymore ?

2007-07-04 05:10:49 · 12 answers · asked by wishingstar5555 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-04 04:58:22 · 33 answers · asked by xan_wes 1 in Weddings

ok just wo wish u a Happy fourth of July . i had bad luck with guys. i was with this guy for 2 yrs and everything went good until he did alot of pot and it bothered me but i got use to it. He was more into playing his guitar and his band that he is getting together. He called me names just when it was 2 of us. he calle dme ***** dike loser etc. its taking me along to get over it but iam.


what i need help on is howcome it was so good at first then this side of him came out after 2 yrs.


do u guys think i deserve better

2007-07-04 04:57:33 · 3 answers · asked by Hayley H 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-04 04:55:36 · 6 answers · asked by IvebeenAbadbadgrl 4 in Singles & Dating

A few years ago, I found out that the people I thought were my Mum and Dad were in fact my uncle and aunt-in-law; it appears that my biological parents were my uncle’s younger brother and sister.
I was born when my biological parents were 17 and 15 respectively, and in order to cover up the facts of my conception, my uncle and his wife took me in as one of their own and loved me as such.
Both my biological parents live close by, with my biological father working everyday alongside my Dad on the farm. I have always thought of my biological parents as my uncle and aunt, but now, I’ve no idea how they really feel about me – did they ever love me or did they just reject me.
I want to sit down with my biological parents and find out what happen. They still seem to have a very close relationship with each other, and I wonder if that would make it any easier for them to tell me. My point is, I don’t know how to approach this, is knowing a good idea or not – what should I do?

2007-07-04 04:51:22 · 42 answers · asked by Trajan 2 in Family

I'm a 22 year old female. My neighbor, 24 year old male has shown interest in me, off and on, for the past three years. He's sweet, mature and intelligent. He seems insincere sometimes, which is why I'm not dating him now. One week he'll try really hard to get my attention. Another week he'll ignore me or give me the cold shoulder. I have developed a crush over time and I would like to date him, but I still don't trust him. Part of me feels that the smiles and sweet talking is just an act. The other part of me really likes him

2007-07-04 04:51:17 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you prefer girls to have long straight hair that is all the same length or long straight hair with a bunch of layers- a more punk rock/rockstar look when its messed up?

2007-07-04 04:50:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to know how to solve a problem between my father and me. We're alike in a lot of ways but disagree on everything. He often compares me to my sister, she's 21, and calls me a F@#k up. What can I do about this problem?

2007-07-04 04:48:52 · 12 answers · asked by blackrosesonabrokenheart 1 in Family

It's so nice to improve my english while she will be training in french...

2007-07-04 04:46:51 · 7 answers · asked by Pablo 7 in Friends

ny niece is anti social and takes anti depressants---her mom wants her to go to a week long sleep away camp by herself......this will be her first time away from home ever.......she hasn't spoken to any children for the past five years besides her brother....is this a good idea or not

2007-07-04 04:46:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-07-04 04:41:55 · 4 answers · asked by NICKEYEALANDRAGREER 1 in Friends

I want to talk about it; he will not. He is a very good father toward the girls, but not a good husband. There is no affection, sex, surprises, nothing. He is selfish. He will accept but not give.

2007-07-04 04:40:56 · 15 answers · asked by Raynay 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My birthday is tomarrow and i haven't said a word about it infront of my husband I want to see if he remembers i'm not going to be mad if he doesn't but i will be VERY hurt.

2007-07-04 04:40:07 · 26 answers · asked by Kacey D 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to talk about it; he will not. He is a very good father toward the girls, but not a good husband. There is no affection, sex, surprises, nothing. He is selfish. He will accept but not give.

2007-07-04 04:39:56 · 9 answers · asked by Raynay 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-04 04:39:14 · 8 answers · asked by datta y 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-04 04:39:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Okay so first of all I'm not getting married (yet)... that's probably 2 or 3 years away due to our financial situation... but I had a question.

The other day I was watching a show about a couple's wedding, and there were 3 bridesmaids. The bridesmaids were wearing different colored dresses... one was lilac, one was pale pink, and one was pale blue. I thought it looked really pretty when they were all lined up. I've never thought about the bridesmaids wearing different colors, but it actually looked really nice in my opinion. What do you think?

I was also thinking, wouldn't it be pretty (this is based on if you had 3 bridesmaids/2 bridesmaids and 1 maid of honor/etc.) if the maid of honor wore a dark color (say pink for example), then the bridesmaid next to her wore a medium pink, then the last one wore a light pink. I thought that would look really pretty, what do you think?

2007-07-04 04:39:05 · 19 answers · asked by Me 2 in Weddings

Men, women plz answer this. My abusive ex has called me yet again even if it's been 3 years since we're done. He said he wanted 'to check if I was seeing anybody". This guy is clearly unstable and wants no good. What does he want from me? Last time he called me ( a year ago), he played me for a fool so I erased him completely. Guys. what is this? Do you think he'll end up killing me if I run into him???

2007-07-04 04:36:51 · 19 answers · asked by Drivenbydesire 1 in Singles & Dating

She has changed her colors at least three times, made the bridemaids changes dresses because she "has a visioin" of how she wants things to be and is already married to the loser, just renewing her vows. Should I tell her I'm just not feeling this whole thing anymore or suck it all up, spend my money on the hideous dress (which will probably change again) and just smile for the cameras?

I wasted 5 points on this question so please make the answers good ones

2007-07-04 04:31:26 · 22 answers · asked by Emgee 2 in Weddings

i'm getting married in vegas this sept. i have no clue what to do about thr pre wedding things.should i have a shower? I am having a reception when i get home so i didnt know if that would be proper or not let me know plese

2007-07-04 04:30:26 · 8 answers · asked by mary 2 in Weddings

MY BOYFRIEND JUST TOLD ME THAT HE CANT COME AS MY PARTNER TO MY SCHOOLS YEAR END DANCE BECAUSE HIS MOTHER SAID HE CANT AND IF I TAKE ANOTHER GUY WITH ME HE IS GOING TO BE ANGRY AND UPSET, BUT I CANT WALK DOWN THE RAMP ON MY OWN. OH MY BOYFRIEND IS 20 AND IM 18, AND HIS MOTHER IS RUINING OUR RELATIONSHIP. WHAT MUST I DO

2007-07-04 04:29:07 · 7 answers · asked by ashley m 1 in Singles & Dating

She rings the agency once a week and they say her ex does not reply to their mail. So does anyone know the next step.As this has been going on for a year now.

2007-07-04 04:25:10 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-04 04:24:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My BF wants us to get a house and live together for a while before we get engaged. We’ve been together for 7 years now. Is it me or should know whether or not we can live together. Help.

2007-07-04 04:22:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Or are they even more interested?

What determines a woman's "pull" in the dating scene when she becomes over age 40?

Or should women over age 40 just throw in the towel because they're older?

2007-07-04 04:20:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating