I want to know how to solve a problem between my father and me. We're alike in a lot of ways but disagree on everything. He often compares me to my sister, she's 21, and calls me a F@#k up. What can I do about this problem?
2007-07-04 04:48:52 · 12 answers · asked by blackrosesonabrokenheart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Move on. Obviously he's (at least slightly) a verbally abusive parent. Trying to fix your relationship with him is pointless, it will only bring you deeper in to the depths of despair. As soon as you can move out, if you already can, do. Have little to do with him since he obviously just thinks you're a messup. You are not, and you can find a better life :)
2007-07-04 04:54:28 · answer #1 · answered by Bren J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I, too want you to know how to solve your problem between your father and you. You can do it, you're a smart lady.
Regarding the problem of him calling you F@#k up, try to ask why he thinks that. You shouldn't be bothered though coz you don't agree with him anyway.
He needs more help than you do. And being a nice and mature person that you are, you can help him. You should understand that coz you and him are alike in lots of ways.
2007-07-04 05:09:49 · answer #2 · answered by wind m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly i'm able to call some.. My father and that i are not that close.. He like took benefit of my mom.. and then she have been given pregnant while she wasn't assume to have a toddler.. my mom endured to work out my dad til i replaced into 3.. then some thing went incorrect with me.. I had like a ailment.. A start illness.. it made my mom cry plenty! ever on account that that my mom and pop in no way observed eachother lower back.. issues: verbal substitute..- necessary... Leaving all of it to mom... it rather is like there are issues that mothers do greater suitable and that they only enable the mothers do it.. eating issues... with the dad of coarse.. and so plenty greater.. those are purely those that happen purely approximately everytime..
2016-09-29 01:40:03 · answer #3 · answered by shenk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is his problem. Be yourself and do the best you can to ignore the verbal abuse. Love him even if you don't like what he does. "Love the sinner but hate the sin" is good advice. And trust that he loves you. Maybe that is why he does it: He loves you. Not a good excuse, but the reason. Just say you're sorry even if you weren't wrong. And tell him as often as you can that you love him. He needs your love.
2007-07-04 04:51:58 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is verbally abusive to call you names like that, but then I have to wonder what you are doing to provoke that kind of response from him.Listen to him and understand HIS point of view,He does love you and wants what is best for you.Do things his way until you are 18.Things will go a lot better for you.
2007-07-04 05:06:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does that?! You don't deserve this kind of treatment; nobody ever does! Tell someone if you can, or maybe counseling helps. But for now, tell your father to shut his mouth, and you are not a F**k up. He is one just for calling you that.
2007-07-04 04:55:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anna S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him your not like your sister by arranging a few fun days with your father! Bonding is the key.........tell your dad that your goin ta the movies with a bunch of friends and invite him to come........or try to make a whole with just you and him of laughter.........like take him bowling!!!
2007-07-04 04:54:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is actually verbal abuse, you might want to legally seperate yourself from him. He is a jerk off, you need to take legal action if he treats you like that. There is no fixing it because it is he who has the problem, not you. Good luck.
2007-07-04 04:54:16 · answer #8 · answered by Virginia L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know the feeling.first of all, what does that make him?i don't know if he's a fuckedup father but i would tell him that he's the ****** upper for calling me such a thing.
2007-07-04 04:55:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move out
2007-07-04 04:52:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋