US citizen friend marries a guy from her home country. Friend gets into normal arguements abt expectations in relationship on the phone.
Friend files for immigration for husband. She has doubts of fidelity. Learns he is into sexual nude webcam chatting. Wants to meet the females for fun. Admits in chats he is sleeping around. He pretends nothing is going on else where to wife.
Should she save the marriage and bring him to US?
Her family feels bec of her arguementative expectations, he is sleeping around. You think so?
He is saying the chat, nude sexual acts on webcam, and admitting to sleeping around is nothing more than fantasy.
Should she save the marriage? Is she at fault?
2007-07-04 12:05:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would not bring him here. He has already cheated by doing these things, surely, she doesn't want to spend the rest of her life with this man who can't even stay faithful right now. Why is she at fault? She has nothing to do with his actions.
2007-07-04 13:12:01 · answer #1 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really hard to make long distance relationships work. In this case, it is quite clear that the guy is not acting married anymore. It isn't anybody's fault but I think that your friend should move on. Even if her husband were to live in the US with her, things wouldn't be the same.
2007-07-04 12:09:26 · answer #2 · answered by sunflower 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not at fault and if he is doing the whole cam thing while she is not there he would definatley cheat on her given the chance.
2007-07-04 12:09:34 · answer #3 · answered by Dick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend should file for divorce. That guy is not worth the attention and help that your friend has been giving him. He has been lying, can't she not see that?
2007-07-04 12:17:51 · answer #4 · answered by Belen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She isn't at fault, he is, and no she shouldn't try to bring him here. He is a user and he's also apparently addicted to porn too. That won't change.
2007-07-04 12:10:20 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should drop him. It sounds like he is just using her to get citizenship. Does not sound like he loves her if he is doing all this other stuff.
2007-07-04 12:10:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things always get worse before they get better.
FORGET ABOUT HIM
2007-07-04 12:24:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋