A guy I met last weekend wants me to sleep with other guys and says it turns him on. Is this normal?

Question

That is the type of relationship he wants. Emotionally committment with him, but physical things with other guys. Maybe it's called open marriage. He gets turned on by his girl being with other guys and then telling him about it. Isn't this weird? If a guy likes you, he doesn't want you to be with other guys does he?

Answer 1

GIRL, DITCH HIM. MAN, HES EITHER USING U OR HES LIKE A MAJOR PERVERT. He's like a g*dd*mn pimp. or he has like s*x problems.

omg, WEIRDO!! EWWW. RUN AWAY. NOW.

Answer 2

No -he doesnt want a relationship with you-hopefully you may never find out what he really wants.

I suggest you consider this and then relax and seek a guy that will honor you, yet relax and have true inner happiness in life no matter what=I suggest=help from above-in honor and care with commitment, any decent acting girl or guy should expect to be respected.

and this is a guide to help you understand= John 3 repent from sins, even one lie and ask Jesus in to be your friend and help you understand, amen.

this helped me most the words of Jesus spoken from heaven for us= Revelation 1:1 (chapter 1: verse 1) & 3:19&20 "As many as I love I rebuke and chasten, be quick therefore and repent (turn from your sins/even one lie, to me. Behold I stand at your heart's door and knock, if you hear my word and open the door, I will come in and be your friend."

so i prayed "Jesus forgive me for my lust and lies, and other things and help me do better, be my friend, amen."

and truely Jesus became my best friend.

then your ready for the respect of others and the joy of life and heaven too=Seize the Day with Dietrich Bonhoeffer


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Praying the best for you too, David

Answer 3

It's weird.
Guys who want the scenario you just described, where you come back and tell him the story, often have a deep, secret fantasy of being cuckolded. The cuckold is the husband of an unfaithful wife. This is an occasional sexual fetish or fantasy and it has a lot to do with wanting to be humiliated. It is very unlikely that you will have a satisfying normal relationship with him, but if playing this game with him sounds appealing to you, then have at it.

Answer 4

Not normal, I really hope you respect yourself more than this. So what if it turns him on, it makes his partner look like a whore and just think of the things he will think your doing behind his back. This guy is a sicko and will never let you live it down if you go along with it. SO what if it was his idea, people like this get stuff tisted and will end up making you feel like the bad person in this.

Answer 5

I think you'll end up being used big time and regret it in a big way further on down the track. No its not normal and I wouldn't allow it to happen to me, but each to their own. No this is not really what they call an open marriage. Cheers and good luck.

Answer 6

hmmmmmmm

maybe he is bored or something

foolish to actually do that I think

I would want a woman to be just mine I think.

Maybe some men get off thinking of their woman as a ho or something. I have a twinge of it now and then. It passes.

If a very cute couple wanted to make a deal , and she was into it too, then maybe, after checking for diseases.

I would rather NOT watch too.

Answer 7

Not normal, FFS move on. If he's trying that on within a week then his sole intention is to get his kicks, he will drop you like a hot brick once he's bored. This could be a matter of weeks.
You will be expected to have sex with a multitude of strangers in front of him. Move on, unless this is what you want too of course.

Answer 8

Well he is a sicko, who is wanting for his gf to sleep with other guy ands that turns him on. You need to kick him to the curb and real quick. ALSo you need not worry about him anymore. Go out and find someone who wants you and only you and not wanting you to sleep with everyone. Want to chat more just IM me anytime.

Answer 9

If you like being "Sloppy Seconds"by all means go for it!
If he is getting paid for you sleeping with these other guys he wants to be your pimp.
Watch out for STD's and HIV.
Oh yeah, he can hire a call girl to tell him about sex with other men.
He is very weird, RUN GIRL RUN!!!!!!

Answer 10

Sounds like this guy has self-esteem issues. It may seem tempting to have that kind of control in a relationship but don't let him fool you, he'll be more in control than you. Move on quickly!

Answer 11

Maybe it's "normal" for him, but is it normal and comfortable for you?

I would bet it's not comfortable for you.

Don't get forced into compromising your integrity, and don't get forced into having any sexual liaisons, or sexual “favors,” that you will regret later.

This only sounds like something along the lines of a "cheap thrill" for him.

Is this guy really worth your time and pain he will give you later?