Is there any way for us women to know what your intentions are? How do we know when you're being honest/honorable? And how are we supposed to know whether or not you're serious about us?
2007-07-04 12:46:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By the way, I'm not shallow at all, and I DON'T fall for those popular player types. The guys that I fall in love with are all average joes that other girls probably pass over.
And I know from experience not to ask a guy questions about whether or not I can trust him, etc. That's why I'm here.
2007-07-04 13:15:46 · update #1
that is a curly one ---- all i can say is that the guy should be there when you need him he cares for your feelings wants you to be happy (not that he can make you happy) trust you be faithful and be interested in getting to know the person you are ---- best wishes
2007-07-04 12:50:34 · answer #1 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women seem to have such a blind spot for players. Guys always know immediately when another guy is a player.
You need to listen to your friends. A guy who tries to talk you out of believing what you see with your own eyes is a player. A guy who always tells you what you want to hear is a player. A guy who is too slick is a player. A guy who constantly flirts with other women is a player.
That said, even straight earnest guys don't always know themselves if they are serious about you or not. And I'm sure it is the same with women.
2007-07-04 19:56:29 · answer #2 · answered by ninebadthings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy. Im a nice guy, i dont play girls and i hate men who do, so heres my answer. When i first meet a girl, i would never say she is sexy, that i love her...why? Cuz i only just met her, and im treating her like a person. Not meet. The the player, he covers you in compliments, and charm, and you idiots fall for it. How can he love you within the first ten mins of knowing you? So look out for the guy who seems to love you straight away, because he loves the way you look, the guy who doesnt tell you straight away, is still tryin to get to know YOU. So girls, dont go for the popular full of charm guy, look out for the one that you normally pass by...
2007-07-04 19:51:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to 1st know the guy a little, know how he acts in different situations. Then if he is a good guy, he will be there for you when you need him to be and expect nothing in return. You will know how serious he is by how he acts. If he is happy when you are around and seems to enjoy it when you call or come over. He will not act different towards you in front of his friend or yours. He will look at you and say how pretty you are and do little things to make you laugh and smile.
2007-07-04 19:55:13 · answer #4 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are like a puzzle, we have all the right pieces for a woman but its not always put together for everyone to see.lol
We dont like to play games and sometimes women have to play games with us for them to know if we are right for them or not, we have to be tested you have to try us or test us to know the truth. Sure you can be blunt and honest but sometimes we can lie to get what we want. Its a doggy dogg world and some guys see it like that while others are good christian or church going guys that keep things simple. Youll never know and we will never know if what we want is ok with you, thats just life and we have to take that chance, so happy hunting I hope this helps.
2007-07-04 19:53:36 · answer #5 · answered by Jimsenite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to know the person for some time. know his friends, family and they way he thinks. A person says a lot when they talk and you can pick up between the lines. Go with you gut
2007-07-04 19:49:51 · answer #6 · answered by lilia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words. Try not to get caught up in all the pretty things he’s telling you but the actions he puts behind those words. Good luck.
2007-07-04 20:03:08 · answer #7 · answered by PhoebeBB 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd have to say that it's a call only you can make follow your gut instinct, or you can learn some tricks from forensics to find out if hes lien
2007-07-04 19:53:16 · answer #8 · answered by booblacon20075 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when I want to be serious with a woman I would tell her I love her before asking myself is she shaved or not and how it tastesl;)
2007-07-04 19:50:11 · answer #9 · answered by Ali J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love a guy you should trust him but you say stuff to him like this question that will f*ck it all up
2007-07-04 19:51:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋