Family & Relationships - 2 July 2007

I still love my ex and he said he still loves me but he is with someone else. He told my brother that he wouldnt break up with her for me but he tells me that he would. I dont know what to do should I ask him to break up with her and ask me back out or what

2007-07-02 05:05:56 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend cheated on me a while back in september when we first started dating. am i wrong for giving him another chance? he said he was sorry and that he'd never do it again and he was crying when he told me what he want he did.

2007-07-02 05:02:59 · 20 answers · asked by soccerstarsara33 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend's soon-to-be Mother in Law plans on wearing a white dress to her wedding. MIL is kind of a loon, and thinks the dress is an off white color, but it is clearly white... What makes it worse is that the Groom's sister was with Mom when she picked the dress out! Is that tabu? Bride does not know what to do here!

2007-07-02 04:56:26 · 30 answers · asked by pinkbabe1322 1 in Weddings

2007-07-02 04:56:05 · 3 answers · asked by saucy gem 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a Facebook account, as I am a college student. I am 20, and will be a junior. As the end of the summer rolls around, I get fifty million "Friend Requests" from people I don't know, usually incoming freshmen, and I politely decline. I've already had my first friend request of this summer. I asked if we knew each other, and she said no. But we sent a couple messages back and forth, and she seems sincere. She even said I'm "pretty cute". She's attractive, as well. We live in the same state, but an hour away. Should I wait until the fall to meet her? Or should I be ultra aggressive and ask if she wants to meet up sometime this summer? I don't want to scare her off, as we've only messaged a few times... Thanks!

2007-07-02 04:54:36 · 6 answers · asked by bluedevil1642 7 in Friends

If you liked a guy and you both were in a conversation circle, would you stand directly across from him so he would notice you and naturally look in your direction, or would you stand next to him so you could be close together?

2007-07-02 04:53:42 · 21 answers · asked by The Delicate Balance 2 in Singles & Dating

Why do boys/men try to get close to me when I walk by or stare at me for a long time as I walk by? It really CREEPS me out. What can I do about it? Should I distance myself more when I walk by these men? Please help. I don't want to get...well you know what. Please help.

2007-07-02 04:51:59 · 20 answers · asked by BeautifulGirl 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-02 04:51:40 · 10 answers · asked by pat 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-02 04:50:55 · 46 answers · asked by old school 2 in Singles & Dating

Celebrating one year anniversay this Sunday. Woo Hoo!!!

A little about him: He's a clean cut sharp man who enjoys a manicure and pedicure. He does love working on anything mechanical so he has all kinds of powertools. A very hard worker. He enjoys sports a great deal. Loves to go fishing. Reads occasionally.

2007-07-02 04:48:22 · 9 answers · asked by ray_of_light 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband just got a job at a fast food restaurant and I don't want him to work there. I told him to find a man's job not a high school kid job. The reason why I cant trust him is because a couple of jobs he has had has ( years ago) resulted in him cheating on me. I know people say once a dog always a dog, he has proven not to be unfaithful for the past 3 years but that doesnt mean he wont do it again. I told him if he ever cheated again I would leave him. I'm tired of living with this fear. I love him but how do I know he wont do it again. We have our kids and he has matured since then and he tells me that he hates himself for what he put me through years ago. I was very hurt by him and argue about his past with him even today. I never let it die. Should I trust him? Or is it too drastic if I leave him before he gives me a reason to.

2007-07-02 04:46:42 · 19 answers · asked by cocoa 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am the maid of honor for my friend and I am starting to stress a little bit. She is having her wedding about 5 months before mine (it was suppose to be a year before!) and now things are getting tight with money. Is it ok to ask the other bridesmaids to chip in for the shower? I don't want to let her down but she does have very high standards and she is very well off in the financial department. I can't afford two weddings all by myself!Any suggestions?

2007-07-02 04:46:22 · 25 answers · asked by muppetbaby82 1 in Weddings

Recently, the Pew Reserach Center announced findings that children were less of a factor of a successful marriage than things like chore sharing and sexual activites. Do you think children are important in a good marriage? Do you think that adults today spend more time on themselves and each other than their kids? Do you think that the idea of focusing on making Mom and Dad happier helps make the kids happier as well?

2007-07-02 04:44:51 · 4 answers · asked by dryad_poet 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the person they was going to arrange marriage me with is hot and thats not the main thing her family is rich im talking multi millionaire i went to her house and it was worth at least 5 million and i found out she has another 2 houses but what should i do its not love and first sight its like im getting pushed into marriage just because my parents was arranged they wanted me to aswell but there given me the choice to find my own wife what should i do?

2007-07-02 04:40:15 · 25 answers · asked by old school 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband's friend spent the day with another woman and he wants my husband to pick him up and drive him home bc this friend doesn't want his wife to find out. The friend has not admitted to cheating but if he has to lie to his wife what else would you call it? This is not the first time the friend had lied and used my husband/us as an excuse and I/we don't like it. Any suggestions? My husband has been friends with this guy for almost twenty years and doesn't want to end the friendship, nor do I want him to. This guy hasn't done things like this before, only been married a few years.

2007-07-02 04:40:13 · 21 answers · asked by Kristy s 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What if your girlfriend had a lot of financial trouble and a child and had no family or anyone to help her would you leave her if you found out she was an escort to make money to try and solve her problems or would you stay? Suppose you couldnt help her financially but you really love her and have been together for 10 years? Please help!

2007-07-02 04:38:39 · 17 answers · asked by paul 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

1 out of 5 times when a woman opens her mouth, she talks about equality. They talk abt and want equal rights and opportunities in almost every sector that men dominate. In fact, in certain sectors, women have even over-taken men.

And if women are progressing so much, why is it that only during divorce do they realise that they are women and take advantage of their feminism to "earn maintenance money" from their ex-husbands?

Why such double-standards?

2007-07-02 04:36:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my bf always say he loves me but i don't loves him
i like him alot but love i don't know about that

2007-07-02 04:35:15 · 1 answers · asked by ibk 2 in Singles & Dating

I am dating an addict. He has been in recovery but keeps relapsing. He told me yesterday that he relapsed a month ago. We already ahve trust issues b/c of his past cheating. What do I do??? Does this indicate that it is likely that he is cheating as well. He didn't tell me about the relapse b/c we just got back together 2 months ago and doesn't want to lose me. Soemone who understands this way of thinking please help!!!

2007-07-02 04:32:49 · 7 answers · asked by pink 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend who is seeing his ex-wife. He says they are friends and no romance involved. I keep seeing people on here who are thinking/talking about going back with an ex-wife, and/or ex-husband. I'm just curious to see how many have done this and if it worked out or was a good idea? It seems to me the same problems would be there as before. What makes it work the second time?

2007-07-02 04:29:55 · 6 answers · asked by zento1110 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been in a long term relationship for over 8 yrs, feeling insecure and therefore clingy to my livin boyfriend (more like husband) I also have gained about 35 pounds since we met. We were fighting and I told him I was insecure because were not "intimate" as often anymore he said in these words "When we make love it's cause I love you not because I think your hot". It hurt me to hear him say that what would you do? We also work full time together and have recently moved to a city where he has family and friends and I have nobody so I like always want to be with him. He's distance himself and wants us to seperate for a week or two just to have some space...I am going to lose weight and try to let go.

2007-07-02 04:27:33 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we live together and have been for the last 3 months and he hates my bestfriend

2007-07-02 04:27:25 · 15 answers · asked by sweetnessashley 1 in Marriage & Divorce

is 31 years old, and has 3 kids from different fathers, but is still with the third father?

2007-07-02 04:26:21 · 19 answers · asked by brett v 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I barely ever wear jewelry and we have to go shopping for engagement rings. I know style is different from one person to another. But what are the popular cuts/styles these days? What about platinum vs white gold for the band? Would love some feedback..:) thanks

2007-07-02 04:24:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

The last men I have dated ( all different ages and types too!) have all asked me for sex, a lot on the second date also. Im really not into sexuality al that much, and I find sleeping with people soon too much for me. The question is, what do men look for in women to make them want to have something serious with them? Im tired of the sex talk all the time.....

2007-07-02 04:22:25 · 25 answers · asked by SolarSoul 4 in Singles & Dating

Everytime she call me or I call her she say hello like 4times and then she say hi. At first I thought she was just ****** wit me but I've been gettin alot of calls from her and they always start the same way everytime. Should I ask about it? I like her and I'm not the type to let her go off that I jus wanna know if I should ask her bout it.

2007-07-02 04:19:10 · 2 answers · asked by SMD 1 in Singles & Dating

And in the dream, he asked me out four times. But also this guy used to be my boyfriend but he broke up with me, and i was really sad. I never moved on, and i wish he would just ask me out again (but not just in my dreams) because i am still in love with him.

2007-07-02 04:18:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-02 04:17:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Most creative answer gets 10 points!

2007-07-02 04:13:04 · 8 answers · asked by Just Life, Trying To Live It. 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

We've been married 5yrs. we have a 3 1/2 yr old son. I'm not on any BC, my husband is worried about supporting a new baby, but we are very finicaly stable. So I don't know what he is afraid of. Please help me convience my husband. NO Tricking.

2007-07-02 04:12:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce