I still love my ex and he said he still loves me but he is with someone else. He told my brother that he wouldnt break up with her for me but he tells me that he would. I dont know what to do should I ask him to break up with her and ask me back out or what
2007-07-02 05:05:56 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if he is really telling the truth about him loving you still he would have already broke up with his girlfriend
2007-07-02 05:08:16 · answer #1 · answered by <333 RaCHeL 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same exact scenerio. I am going to talk to her tonight, she told me she would. We were together for over two years and she was with someone about a month afterwards. It hurt so much cuz although I broke off with her, I never moved on. I want her back so bad and tonight I'm just going to get the story straight from her and if we're done, we're done. I'd say just really stress that you need to have a serious sit-down conversation with him and put everything on the line. By the end of the conversation, you should both know how the other truly feels. And if you both accept eachother back into your lives, great! If not, then you're not alone with about 590 million other people in the same situation. Just gotta get on with your life. I wish you the best though! Wish me luck too, I miss her so much! :-(
2007-07-02 05:10:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definitely would NOT ask your ex to break up with his new girlfriend. He is with her for a reason - nobody is forcing him to be with her. If he really still loves you, and he knows that you really still love him, he either wouldn't be with someone else, or he would get over himself, push his ego aside, and perhaps you would start dating again.
Consider the reason you broke up in the first place. Of course I have no idea what it is, but that needs to be taken into consideration. I'm going through something similar, but my ex isn't with anyone else. He broke my heart, I'm tired of being hurt by him, and although I still love him, I need to just get him out of my life, at least for a while.
In short, I would just let fate take it's course. I think it would be horrible for you to ask your ex to break up with the person he is seeing now.
Good luck with it all, stay strong.
2007-07-02 05:13:15 · answer #3 · answered by irishpotatos1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same situation, but there is no other girl. Lots of people will say that he is your ex for some reason, which is true there was a reason why you guys broke up. I personally believe in 2nd chances (or 3rd in my case). But I would not advise you to ask him to break up with her to be back with you. He makes his own decisions and if he wants to be with you he will take care of it by himself. After all, if a guy leaves a girl to be with you, how do you know that one day you won't be the girl that he leaves?! Time will reveal what you really mean to him. Just give him time cause if he wants you bad enough, he will have you!!! Hope that helps at least a lil bit.
2007-07-02 05:12:32 · answer #4 · answered by RaCiNgGiRl57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No if it did not work the first time its probably not going to work again. This man sounds like a player. If he is with someone else and he still tells you and whoever that he still loves you this man has issues. Move on sister. Finds someone else. I don't know how long you were together or have been apart but I have been there and its not worth getting hurt twice.
2007-07-02 05:10:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok i have been through the same thing. But I think you still have those feelings because you care about him. It's natural. But hey I think ex's are ex's for a reason. Plus who says that if you go back out with him he won't dump you for some other girl that he might love.
2007-07-02 05:09:51 · answer #6 · answered by candi*cane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him and find someone else.
Give this some thought. IF he TRULY loved you, would anyone or anything stand between you two? And why is he telling you one thing and others something else? He cannot be trusted dear.
You need someone who will be completely honest with you and treat you with respect and love. Find someone who will climb mountains so they can be with you, otherwise you are going to end up with heartache.
2007-07-02 05:10:46 · answer #7 · answered by KittyKat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep in mind that you don't want to be the "rebound" girl, talk to him and find out what he really wants let him know that you are not going to sit around and wait on him if he still loves you and wants to be w/ you then he needs to do something about it. other wise you should just move on.. even though it really hurts it's for the bes to just let go.. and you never know maybe that will set him off knowing he doesn't have you around and he will realize that it's you he really wnats.
Just hang in there.
2007-07-02 05:10:22 · answer #8 · answered by We're Engaged 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not let him hold you back. He is with someone else and I think that he cares about you but he also does not want to see you with someone else. You are going to be wasting time if you wait around for him so go out and start dating again and then you may find someone that is way better than him.
Good luck!!
2007-07-02 05:08:44 · answer #9 · answered by blue_girl_05us 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Actions always speak louder then words.So ask him to stop seeing her.If he doesn't then u know he doesn't truely love u. Sometimes guys will break up and start seeing someone esle .Then they keep seeing their ex with the benefits. So why would he break up with either?
2007-07-02 05:14:14 · answer #10 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋