Family & Relationships - 2 July 2007

Especially if 1 of his coworkers said he is a player and another one said he is a bad guy. Another one said he has a girlfriend and he said she was lying. he continued to flrit with me and when I really let him know I like him, he said he's had a girlfriend for 7 days and he hans't had one in a long time. 7 days earlier he was giving me his number and telling my friend he would take me to dinner later when he had more money. hmmm. So, basically if he really has this girlfriend as of last week, he was hitting on me at the same time, and a few days ago he reached for my hand, I gave it to him and he licked it. What????????

2007-07-02 03:16:20 · 7 answers · asked by So adorable 5 in Singles & Dating

I said I wouldn't do it...but today is the day that my best friend and I are going on my very first wedding dress shopping trip...and it's been planned for awhile (not to mention with both of our busy schedules, one of the only times we could get together to go) and my ring isn't back from being sized as of right now. I spoke with the jeweler and they said it should be back sometime today, but I don't like not knowing for sure.

My question is, would it be completely lame for me to still go to the bridal store and try on dresses if I don't get my ring back or should I cancel our plans now and reschedule?

2007-07-02 03:15:45 · 28 answers · asked by Amanda 1 in Weddings

Rather big or small..
Sometimes a woman just has to put her foot down.
How does the guy feel.

2007-07-02 03:09:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How many of you are actually guys with a girl's name and picture on this site? Why are you obsessed with pretending to be someone other than yourself online?

2007-07-02 03:08:54 · 9 answers · asked by Scotty Doesnt Know 7 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend/fiance for six years. He really wants to have an open relationship, we he can sleep with other women. He wants more excitment or variety. I have been trying to deal with this, and trying to be comfortable with it. Just sex with other women, as in one-night-stand type deals (of course ones that have been tested and are clean) doesn't bother me as badly. I still just don't like the thought of him with someone else. But, he really wants to find one other person to have a long-term relationship on the side with. I just don't think I can handle that, and all the problems it brings. He has this idea that monogamy is wrong and that being with more than one person is natural. And when I tell him I just don't like him being with other people he can't understand it, he says. He says that its just something selfish, and that I want him all to myself so I can say I "own" him. And that's not it at all. I just don't know how to make him understand why it bothers me.

2007-07-02 03:08:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have had an attraction for guys my entire life.But sometimes my HOCD gets in the way of that.My mother says that all the girls in my family start really being attracted to guys at age 17. Is it different for everyone?

2007-07-02 03:07:00 · 11 answers · asked by リア 1 in Singles & Dating

I was in love with my best friend, he had a girlfriend, they broke up, a couple of months later I slept with him. I had never been friends with his ex. he told me all this stuff about how he envisaged us together in the future, we were meant for each other etc but 3 days later slept with his ex. She knew nothing about what happened between him and me and he wouldn't tell her. He told me it meant nothing what happened with her and promised it wouldn't happen again, but it did. Then on Saturday, we had a party and she came and he was there and I got very drunk and apparently his ex overheard me talking about him to one of my friends, I think I was talking about some of the stuff he'd said to me and some of the things about our relationship and how we loved each other and stuff. I don't know if I meant for her to hear, but i know I probably wanted her to find out. She got really angry, he confessed to her and now he is angry and won't talk to me. For some reason i feel guilty.Should i?

2007-07-02 03:03:12 · 17 answers · asked by Katrina W 2 in Singles & Dating

i am 15 and she is 18. in one of my previous posts (what should i do about my brother's abusive girlfriend) is says the whole story. but now shes sent a note to my mom and dad and it said everything that I do bad and that everything was my fault. even about the piano thing. it seems that everyday she comes over, all i hear is fighting and whining, and then i go outside for a big walk and i slip into a little phase of depression because i feel i have to stay away from her at all times. in the note she said that she never does anything, and that she didn't even threaten to beat me up. one i did hit her back, i shouldn't have though. last week, it was the 4th time she abused my physcially. i sent her an e-mail saying everything bad that she does and why i don't like it. just on saturday we were camping, and i wanted to play badminton with my brother, well she got all mad and went in the truck because we were playing. then i left and came back and she was playing,

2007-07-02 03:02:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok my fiancee is currently serving the in the military overseas, last night we where speaking on the phone at 3 AM for a couple of minutes then he had to go so i went to bed, so he called me back around 6 am i was still sleeping so i didnt answer on time then i called him back at least 3 or 4 times he was not there. so he called me back a few mints later yelling why da F@#$ u didnt pick up blah blah blah then i said babe i was sleeping then he went to do something so i was talking to his friend this dumb a$$ fuc# hung up in my face i tought it was an accident then i called back he said (this phone isnt for conversation then unplugged the phone, then my fiance came back and called me he said i didnt know he did that baby then i asked him look if you dont trust me that much to let ur dumb a$$ friend talk to me this way its over then i said i want an appology from him my fiance said hes not like that then i said well i will curse him the hell out.

2007-07-02 03:00:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm not getting married or anything i was just wondering

2007-07-02 02:59:42 · 24 answers · asked by amanda :) 2 in Weddings

for example...i love a boy with nice hands, neck, and chest..hehe..
what bout you??:)

xx

2007-07-02 02:59:00 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you could say im so stupid when it comes to love but its just me.anyway, im the 1 who's got problem with this guy that doesn't have time with me. now, last weekend we went out & talk and he promised me that he will change and i believed him coz i trust him. we spend the whole day together and we ended up makin luv. i did it bcoz i love him but since we separated he never sms or called at all. i tried to reach him but he never answer his phone, i left a message but he never answer me. somebody please help me with this bcoz im not the type of woman that would wanna have alot of man in mylife and havin sex for me is really something you have to do out of love not just for one night stand. im gettin worried, i don't know what to do now. i thought giving myself to him will change him the way he treats me but it seems that it turned out worst than i thought. i need your advice guys. thanks. i appreciate it.

2007-07-02 02:58:34 · 3 answers · asked by sweetie27 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok guys what do yall think about girls when yall are with just boyz. like what do yall talk about when yall go to eachothers' houses????

2007-07-02 02:57:46 · 16 answers · asked by Kat Dawg 2 in Singles & Dating

i;m scared that after highscool i will probably loose touch of all these friends and will have no friends
please help me give me advice or this may have been a sitution u may hav experienced

2007-07-02 02:57:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

he has sex with me like once a week he will go out on the road for two weeks at a time.Come home sleep with me and then thats it till he comes back home.Is our sex life ruined?Or is he having sex with someone else?

2007-07-02 02:51:35 · 18 answers · asked by missylynn2005_1829 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Tuesday July 3 is my Sarrah's 18th Birthday. Would you like to help me tell her HAPPY BIRTHDAY?

2007-07-02 02:50:22 · 3 answers · asked by ? 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ive been with this guy for more than 4 years.And I can tell, this is the first time I have loved a guy this much - he is my priority above anything else even myself and my family! We were apart for more than 1.5 years but we see each other 2x a year.I always do the effort.I always do the understanding since during the times we're apart,he forgot about me.I just hope,he'll come back to his nerves and realize he also loves me that much.But one night we had a small fight,and he didnt talked to me.And when he talked to me,he asked for break up.I couldnt do it so I begged for last chance trial for our relationship.He agreed after so many discussions - where Ive learned that he doesnt love me that much.Not the same love Im giving to him.Learning it tears my heart into pieces.Knowing that the most impt in ur life and the only guy that u loved doesnt love u and is willing to let u go just for a simple fight.Its making me loose myself and makes me cry everyday.How can I stop my love for him?

2007-07-02 02:48:56 · 3 answers · asked by brokenheart 1 in Singles & Dating

Emma used to be nice happy gilr and didn't care what anyone said, until someone made a stupid remark about her and she turns into this punker freak. She puts red and blonde highlights in her hair and then she starts judging people but what they wear or say. She talks behind everyone's backs and everyone in are class get's annoyed at her. Sometimes she'll call me and inmeddiatly talk about her problems and her troubles and everything about herself. Even sometimes she talks through the whole phone calls without me saying a word and says "ok bye" and hangs up. People make fun of her and talk bad about her now and I told her to ignore it. But all she dose is snap back saying "STOP HELPING ME I'M FINE!" Hello? She kept telling me all her problems! I made a new group of friends but all she dose is judges them and says "Why are you friends with those brats?" and now my new group is getting annoyed at Emma! I try explaining everything to her and tried to dirft away from her. But it's non stop

2007-07-02 02:48:39 · 11 answers · asked by snowangel34543 1 in Friends

Do you think it's important to love your wedding dress?

Without the long back story, for many reasons, I bought a dress that I don't love. Sometimes I feel like I'm trying to convince myself that I even like it. It's the closest dress I've found to what I want, but it's still so far off. I never thought I'd be the kind of girl who'd fret over a dress, but it's really starting to bother me. I WANT to LOVE my dress. I'd love to love THIS dress - and not have to go out and get another one. Do you think that's possible?

2007-07-02 02:48:20 · 22 answers · asked by muchadoaboutnothing 3 in Weddings

OK. I had a friend that when we were teenangers- we were very close , like sisters. She went through a very bad time her life and My mother took her and her twin girls in to live with us. When my mother gave me money, she gave her. When she feed me she feed her. As time moved on, she got herself to gether and got married. We wern't really keeping in contact like before but we did keep in contact a little. She came to my house warming 5 years ago, and we spoke a couple of times after that. However, I heard through someone that she was moving so I got went through channels to get her number- (because i had lost it), to wish her good luck and to let her know that I would like to see her before she leaves and I know my mother would would love to see the kids, so she said she hopes to come out to where we live as she does at times because her husband has family there. Anyway, she did.. but never stoped by (and was right across the street) I'm hurt. Would u let her know?

2007-07-02 02:45:30 · 6 answers · asked by queensgirl 1 in Friends

Have you considered that English may not be their first language and that maybe they are trying to get it right?

Mind you, spell check would be quite a good learning tool I suppose - wouldn't it?

2007-07-02 02:45:17 · 10 answers · asked by ShoCh 5 in Family

My husband has the fantasy of a male, female, male threesome and sometimes I do feel that if he wants to share me that he doesn't love me. He says it would be a turn on to watch me have sex with another guy. I'm afraid if we do this, that he will want his, because it is only fair, for him to be with another girl. What do ya'll think?

2007-07-02 02:44:23 · 39 answers · asked by Kristina K 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend just asked me to be her maid of honor. What are my duties?

2007-07-02 02:41:34 · 5 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Weddings

i am NRI living in US my mom a doctor nd my dad a business tycoon i am their only daughter as ive been brought up entirely in western culture as both my parents were too busy in their own fields by the age of twelve i developed smoking drinking shots of drugs nd after i even became a bisexual now im deeply in love with a indian gal who recently came there on job purpose into our company i tried in many ways for her but she didnt acknowledge me then she told me if left all my habits that shed become mine but though i try for it really hard i find it difficult how shud i make her accept me like this or shud i really change.i started to go to office regularlyy her site makes me mad ,she isnt even throwing me out she says shes at my side nd shes there only for me not even to work .i verified her background nd was shocked to see she had a dam good family which was so closely healthily knitted she even talked abt me to her mom nd she wud accept me if i changed wat am i in

2007-07-02 02:39:55 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-02 02:39:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

has just had anew car, normally you would say thats a nice car and show some interest
however he showed no interest when we bought ours or when our parents bought theres
feel like iving him a taste of his owm medicine
would you do the same?
would you tell your sister why you are acting this way ?

2007-07-02 02:38:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-02 02:37:27 · 16 answers · asked by hanaa_aliah 1 in Singles & Dating

my best friend got rejected by a guy nearly a year & a half back. but she refuses to come out of that, due to which her studies also suffer. she still keeps contact with dat guy, i have tried making her see sense without success. but she had pulled me into this & because of her i had to suffer a lot. recently i gave her a guy's number who is a frnd of mine, within 5 days she they fell apart due to her fault. but again she keeps calling me at odd hours & pesters me with her problems. she never wants to listen to my problems or what i have to say to her instead its always about her & her problems. she has kinda become very desperate. my other frnds tell me not to mix with her anymore, but because we've ben frnds for a long time its hard to break off with her! what should i do?

2007-07-02 02:33:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I always hear people saying it is not good to go straight into another relationship after break up why isit so... can anyone tell me the reason. Thanks ! If so what is the period of time after your breakup should you then enter a relationship.

2007-07-02 02:31:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i mean... i think im over her, ive sorta moved on...(theres this girl im sure to ask out soon)...
but i just cant get my mind off her...i can, but when she comes to my mind, my heart beats really fast...
i dont like her...im sure of that..., and she dosent like me...really sure of that...(she sorta said it to my face)
or maybe i feel this way cuz i cnt get er?
im even tryin to make her hate me...dunno y im doing that...

2007-07-02 02:29:36 · 6 answers · asked by lilhomeyt 3 in Singles & Dating