Hurt over a childhood friend.. I did call to let her know she hurt me, she said she will call back but has yet

Question

OK. I had a friend that when we were teenangers- we were very close , like sisters. She went through a very bad time her life and My mother took her and her twin girls in to live with us. When my mother gave me money, she gave her. When she feed me she feed her. As time moved on, she got herself to gether and got married. We wern't really keeping in contact like before but we did keep in contact a little. She came to my house warming 5 years ago, and we spoke a couple of times after that. However, I heard through someone that she was moving so I got went through channels to get her number- (because i had lost it), to wish her good luck and to let her know that I would like to see her before she leaves and I know my mother would would love to see the kids, so she said she hopes to come out to where we live as she does at times because her husband has family there. Anyway, she did.. but never stoped by (and was right across the street) I'm hurt. Would u let her know?

Should I call her back although she has said she would call me back? I don't want to seem like a pest but It has hurt me. And I know she is not going to call back. Should I forget about this friendship like she has?

Should I call her back although she has said she would call me back? I don't want to seem like a pest but It has hurt me. And I know she is not going to call back. Should I forget about this friendship like she has? I Just cant believe that she would come that close knowing that was the last time that we may see each other and not come by to say goodbye. WOW.... This was last Sat. and I still can't get over it. WoW how people change. My mother has always taught me when people are nice to u and helped along the way... u always try to keep in contact, just to say hello how are you... I guess people are raised differently. I feel like when you dissed my mother ( because of all the my mom has done 4 her) u dissed me too. Should I just let this go.... I don't belive in that saying People outgrow People when it coming to friends.... HELP.

Answer 1

If she was moving, she may not have had time. A lot of times my husband used to cut our visits to my family ridiculously short. I told mom and she understood. But you are correct in that she should have called back to explain.

She may have been feeling bad about her life and such. People do you know, and they just want a different life and anyone who brings up those painful memories tend to be avoided. It's not a bad thing, it just simply is. I'm sorry you are feeling hurt and sad. I've had that happen to me, too. You can still like that person in your heart and wonder about them. It's OK. Talk to your mom and see what she says, she could have insight as to why. Good luck, hun.

Answer 2

Let your pain in it go...you put yourself out there and she knows that you are a friend and now she has to deal with it and trust me if she really cares she will get in touch eventually...then again who knows what she's going through in this crazy world today, just leave it knowing you did all you can do.

Answer 3

She probably is just at a really busy period of her life right now. Thats no excuse to not call back but maybe you should wait a while before calling again.

Answer 4

i would deffinaltely let her know that she hurt me then if she didnt say anything i would just leave her alone. afterall u made the 1st move to be friends again n found her number n stuff, now its up to her to talk to u n patch things up n if she doenst then its her loss n u should just let her be, shes not worth it then n isnt ur true friend.

Answer 5

send her a THINKING OF YOU card, let her know you miss her and the closeness you once shared

Answer 6

let it lie i am not sure why but dont' press it its just move and and be happy