That's childish, and he (your sister's husband) seems to be envious of everyone else when it comes to getting something new. Don't stoop to his level. There's people like him everywhere, and nothing will change them. It doesn't make it right, but let them wallow in their own misery. When it comes down to it, it's just a car.
2007-07-02 02:43:37
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answered by ron-D 7
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I wouldn't make a big deal of it!
Your sister's husband might not have commented about your new car for various reasons! for example:
1. He was jealous
2. He was insecure about not providing such a nice car for his family
3. He thinks that you always brag about things, or seek attention through material possessions, so didn't want to inflate your ego
4. He's the kind of bloke who silently admires, but doesn't feel the need to say anything
5. He didn't actually like your car, regardless of how nice, new or expensive it was!
6. He's not into cars - maybe he doesn't feel the need to show an interest in them!
7. He was preoccupied with his own thoughts or problems
One of the cats I grew up with died 2 weeks ago. I told my boyfriend's sister over a text. Her response was to talk about her wedding. Sure, it was annoying and insensitive, but I figured that either there was a reason for her being that way, or she's just that type of person. If the latter is true, I carry on being a good person, and let her get on with it.
If you think your sister's husband's car is nice, say so. If you really couldn't give a cr@p, or don't like it, say nothing.
There's no need to be fake or play games. Just do what you feel!
2007-07-02 10:49:11
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answered by Sparklepop 6
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No, why cause grief, she has to live with him not you.
Does it matter how much interest he shows, would he be bothered if you didn't show any interest.... probably not but your sister would so ultimately you are only hurting her.
you obviously don't like him and maybe he feels the same about you, and that happens but no need to cause trouble over it, just accpect it, accept him for what he is.
2007-07-02 12:47:52
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answered by bambam 3
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I myself would just kinda "yeah, i see" when he showed me his car, but definitely let your sister know what is going on. But when he's not around, then you could fuss about it to your sister, let her know its a nice car and all that!
But if he is going to ignore that you got a new car, I'd ignore his new car.
It is kinda childish, but there's nothing wrong with giving him his own medicine and letting him know how it feels. Just dont do it all the time, you're all adults and should act like it, but this once its okay, after all, he was the child first, right???
2007-07-02 11:15:53
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answered by Ms Always Right 4
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It is just a stupid car, they are all plastic and generic anymore; so what is to get excited about or whatever. Now, if it was a 59 Chevy Apache pickup with V-8 and 4 speed, it would be a different matter as that is something to get excited about and take notice of. A new car, forget it.
2007-07-02 10:00:14
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answered by acmeraven 7
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Some people have real problems, and others just seem to be looking for them, like their life is lacking of interest, or they need action or something.
Sorry, but honestly you sound like the ones who are in great need for something to happen in their lives!
2007-07-02 11:04:29
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answered by Kc 6
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Are you all from West Virginia or Arkansas and got married at age 13? If this is a real question, you are all so childish it makes me want to puke. Have a nice day!
2007-07-02 10:20:44
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answered by steveheremd 5
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LOL actually I so would do the same! But I can be vindictive when provoked! I'd tell ur sister if she asked ... !!
2007-07-02 09:43:42
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answered by Kirsty P 3
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I would def. tell your sister why and maybe she can talk to him about why he acts like that but remember "do unto others..." no matter how rude they can be.
2007-07-02 09:44:35
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answered by Anonymous
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yes it a pay back time, lol & no i won't tell my sis coz she going tell her husband everything
2007-07-02 09:48:43
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answered by maya 6
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