if sex goes bad in a marriage does that mean the marriage is over pretty much?

Question

he has sex with me like once a week he will go out on the road for two weeks at a time.Come home sleep with me and then thats it till he comes back home.Is our sex life ruined?Or is he having sex with someone else?

Answer 1

It's not ruined but clearly, it's not where you want it to be. You need to communicate with him, not ask everyone else. Find out why he's not as interested as he used to be. If you suspect something is going on, find out where he's staying on his business trip and show up without him expecting you. You're his wife, afterall, you should be able to surprise your husband and have him be thrilled with it. If he isn't, you should be suspicious.

Answer 2

First of all, I think its natural that the rate of sex in a marriage goes through more frequent and less frequent cycles. Therefore, I hardly think your marriage is over based on this.

As Ovid once said, "To be loved, be lovable." You can't control what he does, but you can increase your chances for more sex. I have no idea what you look like, but maybe you need to present yourself in a more attractive way. Start working out (if you don't already), buy some flattering clothes, pamper him a little. . . It really doesn't matter what the outcome is. I think the attempt in itself is a big turn on.

Answer 3

It takes more than sex to have a happy relationship. If you aren't happy with your situation then of course you won't enjoy being intimate with him. Maybe you two need to sit down and talk. Express your feelings and concerns to him and go from there. You're thinking he's cheating, but what if he's thinking the same being that he's constantly on the road. It's best to talk about it with him.

Answer 4

Not necessarily, it all depends on how much stock you put into the sexuality. But it shouldn't go bad, maybe you are just in a rut trying doing something completely unexpected and see what your spouse's reaction is. Maybe they are just bored, too.
Good luck and best wishes hope you can find the magic once again.

Answer 5

Not really. This means that you have to sit and talk about it and try to find new ways to revive your sex life with your partner. I am sure that there are many ways. The most important one comes from what you convince yourselve of. Always convince yourselve that you want your spouse and want also to enjoy sex with him then explore new ways.

Hope this will work

Answer 6

If his job takes him away weeks at a time, then how can you have sex more often? Just because he's not with you doesn't mean he's with someone else. How are things when he's home?

Answer 7

He could be tired from all the time spent on the road. Let him know how you feel and let's see if things pick up. If not then you might be right, he's getting it from someone while he is on the road.

Answer 8

Maybe you need to try and get some when he is around,dont always wait on him to make a move. We have the same schedule and once or twice a day in normal,we both start it.

Answer 9

Trust issues are always hard to answer.
But it appears you're not happy with the sex and you need more.
Perhaps you need to discuss this with hubby.
While he is away what are you doing? Does he trust you?

Answer 10

well, ya know its always a possibility. but if sex is all your marriage is based on then (i don't mean to be mean) you marriage is definitely ruined. but if not then your fine. but just talk to him about your sex life together and what you can do to improve maybe?