hi any indian guys who can help me in philosophical path ............?

Question

i am NRI living in US my mom a doctor nd my dad a business tycoon i am their only daughter as ive been brought up entirely in western culture as both my parents were too busy in their own fields by the age of twelve i developed smoking drinking shots of drugs nd after i even became a bisexual now im deeply in love with a indian gal who recently came there on job purpose into our company i tried in many ways for her but she didnt acknowledge me then she told me if left all my habits that shed become mine but though i try for it really hard i find it difficult how shud i make her accept me like this or shud i really change.i started to go to office regularlyy her site makes me mad ,she isnt even throwing me out she says shes at my side nd shes there only for me not even to work .i verified her background nd was shocked to see she had a dam good family which was so closely healthily knitted she even talked abt me to her mom nd she wud accept me if i changed wat am i in

Answer 1

Hey Ram! In bachon ka kaya hoga. You are already in drugs adding to that you are a bisexual & now you want to indulge in lesbian relationship with another girl whom you like. Don’t you think that being a NRI you have changed to the countries atmosphere where you reside now but you are asking Indian guys for philosophical path.....!!!!! Indian philosophical path talks of heterosexuality & drug free life. First change your self by getting rid of all these tendencies then move to a normal life as you see your parents have been living i.e. heterosexual, married to each other & gave you birth of this marital life. Why don't you find a suitable man for yourself rather going for a girl, although that relationship may be legal & well recognized in the country you live now but from Indian point of view we don't recognize such relationship neither legally nor morally so either do as I told you or forget Indian philosophical path you are searching here & do as you wish, after all what more I can suggest you to all you NRI kids living there who have not been properly guided by the parents & educated in a Indian way of life.

Answer 2

Hi, there happy to know you. I think the question you have addressed is unique, reason there is no definite objective for living in your case . The only objective I see here is living life to experience what your senses can offer you for a moment but when you are back to the real world you need another trip. This trip could be drugs, drinks, relationships or any other form of escape from the realities of life. Think about it when was the last time you felt really accepted by people around you or you were truly happy about what you represent to the world or simply content by what you have ? I think you should re-evaluate your objectives in life. Primarily you need to first understand what is right and wrong because without this you would be lost in terms of the direction you ought to take. Believe me there is a right and wrong for everything we do this has been predefined by the Creator who has created this entire universe, so whensoever you either ignorantly or knowlingly overstep your limits you always land in trouble wether you like it or not. If you are still intrested to know furhter kindly let me know . [e-mail]

Answer 3

Yes buddy if only your bad vices are coming in the way of a comfortable life with another girl just kick those vices forever.Yes there are many paths you can choose like a rehabilitation programme or meditation or yoga or REIKI through which you can wriggle out your slavery but your WILL POWER is going to play a very pivotal role to come back to normalcy.
Have the guts to say no to all these sustain your determination challenge your addictions head on and sure you will come out of the life which your girl hates.

Answer 4

Lot of prawachan from a lot of people. Mind u all r here to help u but the best that any one can help u is that girl. Go and ask her where to start with one at a time and practise one virtue for the next 90 days then ask for the next. This way u can have a complete changeover and also recieve a great friend.

Answer 5

U seem to have met a very good and traditional friend who has been brought up properly.Dont miss her at any cost.Ur future will be good if u have such friends .So practice meditation and as u do it regularly u will automaticaly shed all those bad things.Then ur friend will come to u voluntarily.I think she is going to be ur guide for a good future and she has impressed u by her character which is our tradition.So try to be little spiritual and u will be born again.All the best.

Answer 6

I wasted 18 years of my life in addiction chasing women and such one day i realized my life wasnt going anywhere and that i needed help so i got it i joined a rehab. I have a flourishing business now and a stable relationship annd am happy. The two most important things are admission - that a) you have a problem and b) that you need halp the next most importnat thing is willingness to change

Answer 7

i'm a white woman, yet i think of Indian females are exceptionally! a million. they generally can cook dinner truly nicely. YUM Indian food! 2. they have a large custom 3. Indian females oftentimes can dance truly nicely, and that i like going to Indian dances like the Garba. Sari/attire are truly lovable. 4. they have mind-blowing hair! 5. they're tanned all year around! fortunate! Why does not a guy % to this element them?

Answer 8

your binging is so good because you had totally right friend around you.you have TOO change your self by your bad habits.let me tell you truth and all truth,some is yours and most is parents faults.i am telling you so you know you are good as your friend but some mistake make you like this,which you don't like it.you can correct all bad things going on as a habits.you know best about you ,you admit you having bad habits.wick people never admit .you are like rock.you can change which way you want too.if possible visit India for refresh or just change,trust me big help for new good start.

Answer 9

Exactly what do u mean by love with that gal
what kind of love ur expecting?????.......is it just friendship that u want from her or any thing physical
If it is only friendship then go ahead....if it is for something else.....search for a guy not a gal....and leave a alone

Answer 10

With your question and problem posed I fail to understand what sort of help you are actually seaking. I can provide you soem help if you want to improve on HIndu philosophy and thereby change your attitude towards the world.