Family & Relationships - 2 July 2007

I was dating a guy for about a yr. and 3 or 4 months and we decided to be apart like u know take a break or what not and during that time I had sex wit someone else. My ex is constantly making me out to be a whore and calling me a cheater when im trying to stress to him that we were not together.

2007-07-02 05:47:44 · 16 answers · asked by princess_jen_06 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my guy had an argument a while back and we both agreed to step off of our high horses. I haven't seen him until yesterday and he was kind of off and I could feel it in the air. He was saying everything is cool and he is trying to be more serious but yet it felt like something else is wrong with him and I don't know what to say. did I push him too far. if you don't understand what I am asking please read my other question married or engaged. sorry I don't know how to post a link to the question. i mean i have morals and i just wanted him to stop trying make to me out to be like his fantasy girl which was sounding more whorish than lady like. thank you for your advice and help.

2007-07-02 05:46:45 · 2 answers · asked by ezekiel's mom 4 in Singles & Dating

I see my boyfriend twice a month usually, from Friday to Sunday. We have been together for like 15 months and we are both 20. I love him with all my heart and vice versa. Things are absolutely amazing. I just have one problem. I want to spend so much time with him. I will go out and do something with friends but he is constantly on my mind. It's becoming quite irritating. I just miss him so much that my heart aches. I know one day we will really be together and I will wait until that day but I just miss him so much. Also, he is in the air force and hasnt been deployed yet (I'm in college). When he does go, i will probably feel worse. I just need some advice about how I can get my mind off him and stop missing him so much. First hand experience would probably be best?! Please dont tell me to break up with him its not like that. I dont wanna change the relationship I want to change myself. Thanks!

2007-07-02 05:46:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok i met this girl a couple of weeks ago and at first I thought i liked her but then we stopped calling each other and stuff and i met another girl who i really want to ask out but since i have not officially broken up with my other girlfriend what should i do
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PS: The other girl likes to hang out with me and her galfriends

2007-07-02 05:44:10 · 6 answers · asked by nfsmaster903 3 in Singles & Dating

But i don't have the heart to tell him, what should I say?

2007-07-02 05:43:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I do so much for my boyfriend like....wash his clothes, cook him dinner, clean his house. go grocery shopping for him. I like doing these things for him but sometimes I feel like it is me who does everything for him and he doesn't do anything for me. What do I do?! Do I tell him how I feel?! What if he comes back with the reply that he does stuff for me and gets mad that bring this up. Any suggestions anyone?!

2007-07-02 05:43:25 · 8 answers · asked by Louisa 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-02 05:42:14 · 17 answers · asked by BRAT 1 in Weddings

Okay so i have this friend coming over she asked me to hangout today and i said yes. She is friends with alot of people and i am really nervous for her coming over, she has a lot of freedom for a 13 year old and i don't. I am really nervous. She will be coming in 30 min or so! HELP! what are some thingsi could do to keep her entertained??

2007-07-02 05:42:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

You suspect that the cleaning woman is sipping your booze when you are out, but you are not sure, would you mention it to her? Any ideas about finding out?

2007-07-02 05:40:08 · 11 answers · asked by ♫Problem Child♫ 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-02 05:40:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i don't think i do anymore. its just an illusion.

2007-07-02 05:39:35 · 5 answers · asked by pookie 1 in Singles & Dating

i've talked to this guy a little over a month now, and he finally asked me out for a date. we had a great time, and he seemed really interested in hanging out again (asking what i was doing the next day, telling me when he got out of work, etc). we've exchanged a few messages online since then, but now its been about a week since we had any contact. the last message i left him, he never answered back. i'm not calling him or messaging him again because i don't want to look like some sort of psycho. i'm guessing he's just not as into me as i thought and my attempts will be in vain

i don't really want girl's opinions cause i know they'll say, "oh he's just busy at work" or "oh, he probably thinks you don't like him". i know that's all crap and that's not the way guys think. so tell me, should i just take the hint and forget about him, or what?

2007-07-02 05:38:44 · 6 answers · asked by ~ Mi$fitPrin¢ess ~ 3 in Singles & Dating

people say its extremely weird that i still consider my ex-bf as one of my closest friends
he is also one of my bro's few friends, and hes come over to see me than my bro recently, but we broke up about a month and a half ago...
my bro also doesnt know we went out
is this weird??

2007-07-02 05:38:26 · 7 answers · asked by bri 2 in Singles & Dating

So I want to do something really amazing for my boyfriend. He's been really helpful in the last few weeks and did ALOT for me. Any ideas that are inexpensive? I want to something that will make him feel really special!!!!!

2007-07-02 05:37:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My current boyfriend can't get over my past relationship. I was with my x since I was 18... We got married when we were 25 and he left me a year and a half later for a girl who he has lived happily with ever since. I officially became divorced in June this year but have been seperated for 2 years now... My current BF and I have been together for a year and he still gets mad when I talk about my past (not relating to x). If I mention a time I went camping he gets mad and says I am bringing up my ex... I feel like he doesn't want to know about me. I have had a lot of good times and some bad. I just want to share my good memories. I am over my ex husband, why does he keep getting mad at me and how do I stop the attitude??

2007-07-02 05:35:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I easily forgive people.First I get a little mad but a few hours later I forget about it...I don't know but I think I have too much conscience and mercy..What do you think? Are you like this?

2007-07-02 05:35:02 · 13 answers · asked by victory 3 in Friends

I said "Yes" when my fiance proposed for a number of reasons; He makes me laugh, he's smart , he has a warm heart...the list goes on and on. For the most part, we both want the same things out of life, but I'm getting frustrated with his level of maturity. He doesn't have the money to spare to help me with the car payment, but he seems to have enough dough to go out and have fun. He never graduated from high school and, though he talks about getting his GED, doesn't put forth any effort to actually DO it. He's in quite a bit of debt and, though I've been bugging him to start cleaning it up, he hasn't paid on anything in the past 4 years. He's 27, and I'm 24, but I feel like I live with a 12 year old. He spends all his spare time on the computer or playing with the xbox. I'm at my wits end with him, and I feel like the only responsible one in the relationship. How can I convince him to grow up a bit and act like an adult? I do want to be with him, but I can't if he behaves like a child!

2007-07-02 05:30:14 · 21 answers · asked by Rachel-Pit Police-DSMG 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

alot of the same feelings, we have confessed that we love one another and we agreed that we dont want the other to see anyone else..I then said how could we continue to say were just "very good friends" if we feel this way. His response is that he is just so afraid of being hurt because of his last relationship, and i said ok so if we stop talking tomorrow would u be hurt and he said yes i said ok then what is the difference??? And of course he swears that he doenst see anyone else which i believe because hes with me everynite and when he isnt hes contacting me from where he is at!! What do u think please i am so confused, not to mention i have children he has none and also told me he wants me to stop taking birth control to have his child...WHOA!!! PLEASE HELP!

2007-07-02 05:25:49 · 4 answers · asked by 1 !N A MILLION 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-02 05:25:25 · 17 answers · asked by BeautifulGirl 2 in Singles & Dating

well my friend is getting married in august and im in charge of planning her last night of freedom! all the bridesmaids are under 21 so it leaves us with not much to do..my plan was to get a hotel by the church and have the last slumber party...the bride wants to dress up in cocktail dresses and go out...so i figure we will got to dinner but i would like to go somewere else...any ideas were 6 20 year olds in cocktail dresses can go for a bachelorett party?? also i need games and ideas for what to do when we get back to the hotel it can range from PG-13 to rated x (= lol thanks for any help you can give me

2007-07-02 05:22:49 · 11 answers · asked by lovely 3 in Weddings

2007-07-02 05:22:38 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my husband have been married 2 years as of july 17th, this year, but for the last 3 months we have been separated due to his constant lying, putting his friends and family before me,he also had a fling with a 20 year old, he is 31 !! what did it for me was when he gave a crackhead some money!! he denied the fact and we had a fight, he left, well why he was gone he left me with all the bills, i got evicted, lights turned off, i had to go to court. well this guy that liked me helped me with my living situation, we now stay together. all my family is from the north. since my husband has found out about all of this, he has people spying on me and tells me i am wrong but how i say when u left and gave me your a$$ to kiss?

2007-07-02 05:19:48 · 33 answers · asked by INEEDABOSS 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We're trying to plan a small but very untraditional wedding..I could really use some ideas. any suggetions??? We also want to swap rings for tattoos..but really have no really cool ideas as to what design..please help send pics if possible

2007-07-02 05:19:34 · 15 answers · asked by hesluvinme 1 in Weddings

i so wanted to tell him i like him, but i never seems to have the guts! I think he likes me and I’ve been waiting for him to make the move and that's been 1 1/2 year!!!
from my previous questions peoples’ been telling me he likes me... so i wanted to make the move (never asked a guy out b4)
so frustrated about it everyday trying to get it out of me!
i know sometimes i do go red when i see him so I don't look at him or pretend i don't know he's there, I don’t want to and I know I shouldn’t do that but i just do it naturally, but since i realised I do that I’ve tried so hard to stop it and try to initiate conversations.
but i still don't know why i don't have the guts to ask him out or even just let him know i like him! :(
is there any ways to do it without putting so much pressure on myself?? thank you :)

2007-07-02 05:18:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last year, in Tenessee,(6th grade) when people were signing other people's yearbooks, I asked this girl from science class I had a crush on (but trust me, no one would even imagine me having a crush on her) to sign mine. Instead on the ordinary things, suprisingly, she wrote this:

"It has been real.
It has been great.
But it hasn't been real great."

During that summer I moved to NY and just graduated from 7th grade and still can't understand it.

2007-07-02 05:16:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My son is 11 yrs old and has barely any friends his own age. Hes not a bully, or really not to shy. He just has no friends. How do I help him, other than sports and camps.

2007-07-02 05:15:04 · 7 answers · asked by renea m 2 in Family

sometimes i feel like an ugly duckling

2007-07-02 05:13:28 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-07-02 05:13:03 · 12 answers · asked by ♥Mommy to 3 year old Jacob and baby on the way♥ 7 in Weddings

Hi

I been with this girl for 2 years now and she starting to do my head in , ordering me about trying to control who I m friends with .

I want to leave her. But she say I cant because we have been going out for so long, I m 27 and I think in my head that i won’t
get another women should I stay with her.

what should I do?

2007-07-02 05:10:50 · 26 answers · asked by bazza 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend that I've known since 8th grade. We told eachother EVEYTHING and we hang out ALL the time. Then I started to realize she was kinda abusive. Whenever I am around her she makes me feel WORSE about myself. She always judges me like "Your eyes are so small (wtf?), you so tall and skinny (wtf?). I kinda started realizing that shes not much of a best friend at all. I really want to get out of this relationship but I don't know how. She is friends with all my friends and I have a feeling if I just finally told her what I thougth they would take her side and I would lose all my friends. What should I do? I know I need to be more confident and just get the **** outa there but idk what to do. ;-)
Umm so thanx!

2007-07-02 05:08:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends