i so wanted to tell him i like him, but i never seems to have the guts! I think he likes me and I’ve been waiting for him to make the move and that's been 1 1/2 year!!!
from my previous questions peoples’ been telling me he likes me... so i wanted to make the move (never asked a guy out b4)
so frustrated about it everyday trying to get it out of me!
i know sometimes i do go red when i see him so I don't look at him or pretend i don't know he's there, I don’t want to and I know I shouldn’t do that but i just do it naturally, but since i realised I do that I’ve tried so hard to stop it and try to initiate conversations.
but i still don't know why i don't have the guts to ask him out or even just let him know i like him! :(
is there any ways to do it without putting so much pressure on myself?? thank you :)
2007-07-02 05:18:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"Angus Youngin" I'm 17 and thanks for the encouragement. :)
2007-07-02 05:26:16 · update #1
If you keep doing what you're doing the results will stay the same..nothing. The turtle doesn't make any progress at all without sticking his neck out. Take a risk...tell him what's up with you.
2007-07-02 05:22:43 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait a long time because someone could take him. First, start acting a little more close and flirty when your with him. That might help him show his feelings around you. Here are some steps you can take to help break the ice.
1: Show up at one of his ball games and say, "I bet my friend $5 your team will win, so don't let me down!"
2: Tell him you can read palms. Trace the lines on his hand and say," I foresee that you'll be taking me out to dinner for a burger and fries."
If he seems to like how you act, he's probably interested and you should make a move, most guys like confident girls.
If he doesn't seem to be liking it, he's not interested and you should move on.
I hope this information will help you and I wish you the best of luck. : )
2007-07-02 12:33:55 · answer #2 · answered by *~Amy~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first you shouldn't have to ask a guy out as your are a woman... But this is the newer generation and I respect your confidence in at least approaching the subject. So I will give you the fullproof plan of action. If he is at all interested, this will work. Next time you talk to him, say this "So,___, why haven't you ever asked me out?" Then listen to his response. He will become nervous but you will get your answer (1) he will ask you out or (2) he will tell you in kind words he doesn't see you in that way. Either way, you have your answer. It's a win, win for you. Now get a little courage and go for it. Good luck and share with us the result.
2007-07-02 12:26:20 · answer #3 · answered by jayjay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all the girl shouldnt ask the girl out. the guy should have the guts not the women. and if your not comfortable going up to him then maybe text message him? and say its been uncomfortable for me to talk to you since ive liked you so long or something. but sooner or later you have to talk to him, that is what a relationship is based off of and if you cant get past the fear then you will never be with him. You only live onces, take a deep breath and march up to him and say i like you or something like that lol.
its ok youve never asked anyone out before. we all start there
good luck =)
2007-07-02 12:25:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me that you both are on the shy side. you can't change the way you feel when you turn red seeing him. maybe a wave hello may strike up a conversation. and you may still turn red I've heard that guys like that but as you get to know him better it will go away. i think the more you say hello or wave may beak the ice but sooner or later one of you has to come forward with something to say or it may stay with just a hello. don't put yourself thru a lot stress over this you may get to know this guy and find out that it wasn't worth the stress you put yourself thru. think of him as a new friend
2007-07-02 13:19:35 · answer #5 · answered by KAT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, I'm assuming you're young, so just go for it. You have a full life ahead of you! As soon as you realize "I'm good enough", the world is yours. Just suck it up, and and go for it.
I, myself, am 18, and I know what it feels like to get nervous in this situation. I've failed quite a few times, but, hey, I had the balls to do it!
Just be casual! As I guy, I LOVE LOVE LOVE girls who make the moves.
2007-07-02 12:24:19 · answer #6 · answered by Angus Youngin 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh im in the same situation!! and its killing me!!! i really want to ask him out, but instead of making eye contact and walking over to him...i just pretend i havnt seen him!!! iv come to think im putting too much pressure on myself...thinkin he wudnt even go wiv sumone like me...but i cant help it and it stops me everytime!!! hope u find a way to have the confidence to ask him out!! good luck xx
2007-07-03 14:06:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i read the first sentance and already have the answer for it. are you ready? are you sure you wan tot hear iT?!...>>...
YES HELLOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO every one wants the other peron to say YESSSS!
2007-07-02 12:23:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You never know unless you just dive into it. Goodluck. Been there, done it!!!!!!!!
2007-07-02 12:37:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋