I easily forgive people.First I get a little mad but a few hours later I forget about it...I don't know but I think I have too much conscience and mercy..What do you think? Are you like this?
2007-07-02 05:35:02 · 13 answers · asked by victory 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
That's a very good thing to have. I'm the same way. I can't stay mad at others for too long. I just forget about it. I used to think the same way you do, but come to think of it, when you stay mad at someone, you're only hurting yourself. Some don't even know you're mad at them or they don't even care. And even if they do care, then it puts a strain on the relationship. So why stay mad if it gets you nowhere except this awful feeling every time you're mad. So do yourself and the other person a favor and ... stay just the way you are!! =)
2007-07-02 05:42:24 · answer #1 · answered by XLC 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know, ethically speaking you're suppose to forgive peopel for their actions. So theres no problem with that. The problem comes along when you let people walk all over you and play you like a fool, because you are a kind hearted person. The only way you can really earn respect and still maintain your values is to start putting your foot down and let people know when you don't like what they are doing something to you. You can still forgive and be merciful, just don't be a "punk *****" like Chris Tucker would say, luv ya kiddo.
2007-07-02 12:39:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being able to move on after you have gotten over the first flush of emotion shows that you are maturing.
There is no such thing as to much conscience and mercy.
2007-07-02 12:40:26 · answer #3 · answered by keezy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am the same way i am always a nice person and can sometimes easily get hurt by what someones says but always forgive them n the end. i love giving and being friends with all.
2007-07-02 12:40:46 · answer #4 · answered by Adina B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes a big person to forgive.Plus it usually comes with age.I always forgive but I learned that through life.I use to hold grudges forever.It didn't do me any good.Just made me feel bad and lose a friend. So your one up on alot of people. If your young then u have something that it takes alot of people to learn with age.I say be proud of it.
2007-07-02 12:46:54 · answer #5 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm quite the contrary actually. I can't seem to forgive and forget. I think that's bad.
2007-07-02 12:58:03 · answer #6 · answered by Riyah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a good quality about yourself. Some people myself included can hold a grudge for years and the only one it is really hurting is the person that is holding the anger.
2007-07-02 12:39:31 · answer #7 · answered by Lynnae_1969 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im the same way.
im very forgiving and i somehow always come up with a way for whatever happened to be my fault, even if it isnt.
then i feel bad for getting mad.
so im way too forgiving.
2007-07-02 13:08:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No.
It has nothing to do with conscience and mercy.
IYou will come to know.
Regards
2007-07-02 12:43:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the problem bur most of the time yes i am like you because id rather be the bigger person and just apologize first then waste my time on fighting arguing whatever..so to answer your guestion 90 percent of the time i am like you!!
2007-07-02 12:38:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋