i've talked to this guy a little over a month now, and he finally asked me out for a date. we had a great time, and he seemed really interested in hanging out again (asking what i was doing the next day, telling me when he got out of work, etc). we've exchanged a few messages online since then, but now its been about a week since we had any contact. the last message i left him, he never answered back. i'm not calling him or messaging him again because i don't want to look like some sort of psycho. i'm guessing he's just not as into me as i thought and my attempts will be in vain
i don't really want girl's opinions cause i know they'll say, "oh he's just busy at work" or "oh, he probably thinks you don't like him". i know that's all crap and that's not the way guys think. so tell me, should i just take the hint and forget about him, or what?
2007-07-02 05:38:44 · 6 answers · asked by ~ Mi$fitPrin¢ess ~ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guy's are simple. He likes you he contacts you. He doesn't you won't hear from him. Does he watch the time and think I better contact her!! NO. The world evolves around him and you will here from him when he's good and ready. Contacting him alot will only annoying him and make him feel like you're crowding him. When guys really like someone they make the supreme effort to be with them. So stop all contact and move and don't feel guilty. He will enjoy the pursuit more if you don't make it so easy.
2007-07-02 05:50:30 · answer #1 · answered by Shinigami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like this guy send him 100 flirty messages if you have to get a response. guys like to know when a girl is in to him. hes probably waiting on you to call or message him so go for it
2007-07-02 05:43:58 · answer #2 · answered by Randall F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably just not that into you. Something took a moment or two to register with him and he overlooked your good time to decide you werent for him so I guess you should go ahead and move one
2007-07-02 05:42:53 · answer #3 · answered by dave n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have probably sent him too many text messages and acted as though you were to interested... ring him tonight and ask to meet up after that dont ring him or text him etc. until the night even if he texts you exept obviously to confirm meeting.
2007-07-02 05:45:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but he has lost interest. You can try and re-kindle it or move on. I seen it work both ways.
2007-07-02 05:42:36 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, sounds like the ball's in his court. If he doesn't respond his loss.
2007-07-02 05:42:18 · answer #6 · answered by Charlie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋