Family & Relationships - 2 July 2007

Can a guy fall for someone who is a friend with benefits or is it just for the benefits.

2007-07-02 08:40:45 · 14 answers · asked by blondie g 1 in Singles & Dating

I moved from LA before I met her in person. She has emailed me every once in a while to check up on me. We had a couple 2 hour phone conversations. I don't want to bring up dating her, but I do like her. I am 8 yr older than her and she said that she would not date anyone a few yrs younger than her, but would for sure date someone older.
I told her that I am planning on moving back to LA permanently in about 6 months. That is where I liked to live the most, so it is not for her.
I would love to go out with this girl. I like her a lot and I think though we have never met in person, it has a good chance of working out.
I mentioned before that I would like to meet up with her (casual sounding) next time I am in LA. She agreed.
I want to make the first meeting as friends like as possible, so there is no pressure. What do you think my chances are with this girl? How should I do this?

2007-07-02 08:40:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Pretty much self-explanatory.

2007-07-02 08:39:35 · 10 answers · asked by sarahosaurus 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-02 08:39:32 · 43 answers · asked by Sarah J 6 in Singles & Dating

I've gone out with this guy 5 times. Ladies, what do you do to get the guy to want to be more serious? Like to become exclusive or boyfriend/girlfriend.

2007-07-02 08:39:25 · 6 answers · asked by opp 2 in Singles & Dating

How do I get a boys attention?? he hates me and I know that but how do i get him to stop?? Also look at me in a good way??

2007-07-02 08:37:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What would you pay him for his Escort Services*?

2007-07-02 08:37:44 · 12 answers · asked by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I broke up with my boyfriend because I was already tired to tell him that things wasnt working ,so we used to get mad and hes the type of person that does not frequently demostrate his felings,so I was always the one who used to look for him after we got mad.But now I broke up with him to see if change or if he cares about me for real.But he says if am leaving him thinking that he will look for me that he will never do it.But I really want him back but I wnat him to look for me to see if he rally cares.so u guys think that he will call me?

2007-07-02 08:35:54 · 15 answers · asked by tu nina linda! 2 in Singles & Dating

We are approaching an important time at school- we've got GCSEs from next year and it seems they've slipped down. Ive got 5 best friends (really REALLY close) and it seems they would rather go out drinking and making out with guys. I really want to do well these two years because ive got big ambitions for the future(i want to be a doctor) and even though i DO want to go out and have fun i feel abit weird around them because 1. theres always boys there and 2. its with alcohol. im thinking of getting through these two years by really getting my head down and working hard and when i get to college start experimenting with this stuff. I dont know, we're 14 and i feel abit weird doing all that stuff- am i being too babyish? should i grow up?

2007-07-02 08:32:55 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My ex who is mexican says this is true but then I said"how come there is so much mexican girls here in cali are having sex and getting pregnant at 13 -1 6"

2007-07-02 08:29:40 · 10 answers · asked by innocentheartbreakerr 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-02 08:29:38 · 14 answers · asked by Danielle C 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend uses terms of endearment and calls me "babe", "dear", "honeybear" et al especially when we are having a good time. Do you think he might be hiniting for something more or should I just carry on? I also call him "sweetness" once in a while but he also knows I call everyone that. He's in the 30's and I'm in my 20's.

2007-07-02 08:29:15 · 6 answers · asked by Love C 1 in Singles & Dating

I know I am only 16 and he is 18 but I think about marrying my guy every day that is how much I love him...I dont want to get married right now but after college, I just want him to be the one I spend the rest of my life with...I worry about what he is going to do with his life because he has always wanted to be a Marine..I think about marriage even though I know it is not a good time...Is that so bad...

2007-07-02 08:28:26 · 24 answers · asked by ~Lost N' Love~ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

when life itself is turning into compremise ,it really is bothering me very hard.i don't claim i never make any mistakes, i do make some ,but inspite of everything i always think abt my husband and child,i hardly take any time for me,still i cannot satisfy my husband and he is not happy with me.i tried talking ,but in vein.now i think i should be silent forever,but this silence is killing me.

2007-07-02 08:24:01 · 34 answers · asked by udhi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-02 08:21:50 · 22 answers · asked by jessie a 1 in Singles & Dating

So this guy I am seeing..told me after we kissed and had sex that I was his first black girl. We arent that serious, but we were drunk. Is this a good thing? I am scared to ask him what that means....is he scared? help!

2007-07-02 08:13:30 · 11 answers · asked by wcmerry13 1 in Singles & Dating

Lately, my 14 year old brother has been getting closer to his girlfriend, Taryn. She's a nice girl and I like her, so do my parents. I am sixteen years old and pregnant with twins, and my parents know about it. The other day, my dad found condoms that my boyfriend gave him that were opened. I lied for my brother, to get him out of trouble, and said they were mine. Me and my brothers are really close, and I love them all. Do I encourage him and his girlfriend have sex and risk her becoming pregnant like me, or tell my parents, and risk them being split up?

2007-07-02 08:10:25 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

the girl likes a guy but the guy caught her staring at him. and after a week they talked for the first time, just a formal talk. like ''ohh i did this course and stuff...and how did u find it easy or hard?''....- things like that..
now the girl is trying to get his attention . wut shud she do?

PLZ KEEP IN CLEAN!!
thx!

2007-07-02 08:06:18 · 17 answers · asked by star 2 in Friends

2007-07-02 08:00:15 · 34 answers · asked by ifhusain 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Is marriage really "like hold on the ride or I may get thrown off"?
or is it easier then the single life?

I know the single part. How do you like it? or don't you?

Where does a single person go on the 4th?? :(

Am I waiting for the one and only and then I get let down? I mean maybe I am asking too much, but I always had a dream wedding planned? Is it far reached or reality?

2007-07-02 07:56:58 · 5 answers · asked by queenofsiberia 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, I know I'm going to get a lot of hassel about this... but, when I get married I do not want children to be at the ceremony because, well they're children and tend to cause disturbances during the ceremony... I know I'm bad, but it's my day and I want everything to be perfect. So, is it rude to ask parents to not bring their children to the ceremony, say if they're 12 and under.. maybe 10. I think I might have a separate room for children to play in while the ceremony is in progress and then they can come out and dance and eat and have a great time during the reception. Is that acceptable? how should I approach parents about the situation?

2007-07-02 07:53:23 · 38 answers · asked by missmieke87 2 in Weddings

More and more people are using pornography. Porn stars and models are becoming household names. Now more than 20% of users are women. Is it disgusting or just a matter of personal fun? Would you object if your boyfriend/girlfriend husband/wife used porn?

2007-07-02 07:53:06 · 21 answers · asked by sorcerer 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I have lived together for almost 4 years, we have 2 daughters together, and we are finally getting married in a month. He just wants to go golfing with his friends, and I want to just do a small little party at my house with the girls for our parties. I thought games, margaritas and hot wings sounded fun. BUT... all of our friends are complaining that they want to go to bars and get smashed. Should I tell them that if that's what they want to do then don't bother coming to the bachelor and bachelorette parties? If I do I'm afraid they will get mad at us, but they aren't respecting our decision to not want to go out. HELP!!!

2007-07-02 07:51:44 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Ok so I was at Target and I walked up nonchalant (so as not to seem creepy or anything) and gently and lovingly placed my hang on this womans breast and gave her a sweet little twist. I gave her a little smile and "Hey beautiful." She yelled and went to get the manager. I left because I didnt know what to do since she was acting so erratically and crying. So my question is, is she playing hard to get? I'm really thinking about her a lot now and have her license plate #. Any help would be appreciated.

2007-07-02 07:51:21 · 19 answers · asked by timssterling 4 in Singles & Dating

like wht is most common...plz help me...

2007-07-02 07:50:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i need advice im 12 and i weigh 5ft 2inches and i way 115-124 would u ever go out wit a gurl like me or will that effect my dating life. be honest,

2007-07-02 07:46:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We dont share things but if she runs out of something I will let her borrow some of mine and in vice versa. Yesterday, she was washing clothes and she ran out of detergent. So, I told her to go ahead and borrow some of mine. She uses liquid and I use powder. This idiot goes and pours half my box of detergent into her damn near empty bottle of liquid and mixed them together. The powder hardened and she couldnt get enough of it out to finish washing her clothes. Then she decided to go ahead and finish off my box of detergent. And she didnt even have the decency to tell me or replace the damn box. What sense does it make to do something so stupid? I am so angry right now. Why doesnt she have common sense and how can I help her get some?

2007-07-02 07:45:28 · 21 answers · asked by MJMGrand 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriends exes tell me to say dir*y things to my boyfriend .. what should i say that will make him laugh cause he likes it ? i dont wanna get deleted off here .. just let me know ?

2007-07-02 07:45:19 · 9 answers · asked by *malibu 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-02 07:42:38 · 39 answers · asked by Para R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

OK... This is gonna sound VERY disturbing... I dont even believe it myself... but my cousin... hes 14... he steals my thongs and wears them!!! I caught him taking some the other day and he said he likes wearing them cuz its makes it easier for him to pee and they r comfortale and he wears them ALL the time!!! He also said he likes to only wear my thongs to bed becuz he likes the breeze at nite... very creepy. How do I get him to stop taking them and how do I get revenge on him for taking them???

2007-07-02 07:42:11 · 14 answers · asked by xxjupiterxx 2 in Other - Family & Relationships