So this guy I am seeing..told me after we kissed and had sex that I was his first black girl. We arent that serious, but we were drunk. Is this a good thing? I am scared to ask him what that means....is he scared? help!
2007-07-02 08:13:30 · 11 answers · asked by wcmerry13 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, depends on how u look at it. I had a lover who was white and I was his 1st black woman & as far as I know, he's never had another. Take it as a pat on the back-when he's on his death bed and his life 1st's flash b4 his eyes-u'll b there. He's not scared, he's intrigued and he likes u-have fun.
2007-07-02 08:18:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to worry more that you had sex with a guy while drunk and say "we aren't serious." If you do decide to have a relationship. race will only matter if your families make it an issue.
2007-07-02 15:17:58 · answer #2 · answered by arkiemom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not worry about it. Maybe even take it as a compliment. I'm the first black girl for mine, but we aren't doing the things you and him are doing. I would dhow him that you could be the best for him by keeping yourself and have some kind of moral standards
2007-07-02 15:22:20 · answer #3 · answered by miz thang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say never be scared to new experiences. You never know you may have put something on him he won't forget, but one thing is certain you were the first in that category so keep yuo mind open hint at him to know once you go black it's hard to turn back lol. :-)
2007-07-02 15:18:17 · answer #4 · answered by tootsie83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that should really matter is how the two people involoved in the relationship really feel about each other.
2007-07-02 15:19:25 · answer #5 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is probably one of those conversations you should have had prior to the the sex and the kissing. at this point, maybe you two should slow it down and discuss the issue. see where it takes you.
2007-07-02 15:18:59 · answer #6 · answered by Ced 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he is obviously open enough to share that w/you....go with the flow...but def don't make an issue of race...and hopefully he wont.... love is love BLACK, WHITE, RED, DISABILITIES......comes in all forms :)
2007-07-02 15:17:48 · answer #7 · answered by imalilplaygirl_2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NNNNOOOOOOO race should nt matter this is not slave times u r allowed to got with who ever u want to go with
2007-07-02 15:18:04 · answer #8 · answered by Ace M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Race does not matter.
I am originally from Ukraine and my boyfriend is originally from Guatemala...so really, if you love him, it should not matter!
2007-07-02 15:42:33 · answer #9 · answered by hmmmm..... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no the race of a person should not stop you from beong happy
2007-07-02 15:17:17 · answer #10 · answered by D-Hizel yo! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋