Family & Relationships - 2 July 2007

Ok, so this guy likes me (and I like him too) but he is really shy around me because he thinks I am "out of his league"

What does he think of me??? Why would he think that??
Why would I guy think a girl is out of his league???
What can I do to show him I like him and totally want him?

Thanks!

2007-07-02 10:21:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When people buy those beautiful wedding cakes with several tiers are they meant for just cutting and decoration or are they large enough to actually serve all your guests if you have about 100 people there? I heard that sometimes people will get a sheet cake as a more affordable option to a larger cake, is that what is usually done when serving cake?

2007-07-02 10:20:12 · 18 answers · asked by edie08 2 in Weddings

In a wedding party for the groom, there is a best man, but what is the other one called (groomsman??)

2007-07-02 10:18:24 · 19 answers · asked by sweet_16_45356 1 in Weddings

I have seen so many WRONG answers about how to do something or what the correct etiquette for.....
Don't people read a freaken wedding book before doing these things?? Or is it just because their family does it that way, now they think it's proper or OK to do things a certain way??

2007-07-02 10:14:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ok..my brother and my sister in law have been married for about 3 years..i found out about my sister in law cheating on my brother about 3 months ago through their msn chats...it shook my world because i thought she was a simple innocent girl but i was wrong..i told my brother, but he did not believe it at all, and my sister in law's sister took the blame on her...i caught her 2nd time as well, through facebook msgs which werent so bad, but he still didnt believe me...now ive found more proof..what should i do ? im afraid my brother might hurt himself, and that when my parents find out they will have health problems..since my dad has already had a heart attack mainly because of stress and tension..please help..

2007-07-02 10:13:30 · 11 answers · asked by JamesA 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Please help me decide which wording is best for the RSVP card for my wedding reception. Not sure which one makes more sense and looks better.

1) Dinner served and music by Trio Janitzio from 6:00pm-7:00pm
DJ and Dance from 7:00pm-12:00am

2) Dinner served from 6:00pm-7:00pm
Music by Trio Janitzio from 6:00pm-7:00pm
DJ and Dance from 7:00pm-12:00am

3) Dinner served from 6:00pm-7:00pm accompanied by Trio Janitzio
DJ and Dance from 7:00pm-12:00am

If you don't like either of these, what are your suggestions? Thanks!

2007-07-02 10:10:08 · 17 answers · asked by Keep on Truckin' 4 in Weddings

Iwas looking at a car passing by and just because there was a woman in the passenger seat i was accused of ogling. I could tell her the type of rims, custom color, and model of the car , she didnt even know the type and she knows cars , but she could tell me everything 'I' noticed about the passenger. So who was looking at the car and who was really looking at the passenger? And with all that info why does she feel she's correct?

2007-07-02 10:06:37 · 17 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i really hate it when i meet someone and then later on they just let themselfs go. get fat, stop dressing sexy!!!

i want to look the best for my girl and i try to make her happy, and she does the same for me but i see so many couples just stop trying to be the best for there loved one

2007-07-02 10:04:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So he's my co-worker and I dont know if he likes me or not. I am really pretty and since creating this avatar, I have grown below shoulder length hair( this information is irrelevant). I usually attract stares from all types, white black etc. the other day he leaned in so close to me during a meeting, I could smell the skin on his neck. hes a very very handsome guy. I just dont know if its right to date him, cos we work together and also if he would not mind crossing color barriers. I dont mind. I have dated more white than black anyway. what to do. what to do??? he looks so yummy????

2007-07-02 10:04:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-02 10:01:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

her breasts are really small, so how can i help them get bigger?

2007-07-02 10:00:21 · 21 answers · asked by shadowwolffang 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-02 09:59:49 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I can't make myself have feelings. If it is something that is based upon feelings, then where is commitment in the deal? After all, we can't commit to catching or losing feelings.

2007-07-02 09:56:00 · 6 answers · asked by Matthew T 7 in Singles & Dating

^How long did you wait before marriage and how did you know it was the right time to get married?


Please only answer if you are in a successful marriage.

2007-07-02 09:52:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know its awful and very shallow to say that but some members of my family are just embarassing (not even in a funny way). I love them but they're very odd, I'm not in the usual 'family unit' and many of them have mental illnesses or personality disorders. I'm also quite ashamed of where I live because its a big dump. Anyway my new 'boyfriend' (sort of) has started talking about meeting my family because I've met some of his, who are very respectable (and a bit flash). What can I do? I could never bring him home, he's just too perfect.

2007-07-02 09:51:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I had a falling out with a guy I had an affair with for three years - how do I get him to speak to me again? He blocked me from AIM, won't return emails or texts either. Will he ever forgive me?

2007-07-02 09:49:31 · 4 answers · asked by kittygirlwhoilove 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im 16 and my mom is always telling me about maturity well i want to know what it means to other people

2007-07-02 09:49:27 · 22 answers · asked by ♥Juliett 3 in Singles & Dating

My son is bypolar and his wife gives him his medication, the problem is that she will hide his pills and he panics thinking he doesn't have pills for the next day. When is feel down, because he can't see his daughter from a previous relation, she keeps talking about her. Now she telling people(and me) that he's crazy, that he's a bad husband. She is very jealous, if my daughter and my son get along, she get very moody and make sure that can't get along.She said that if she had to choose between her dogs (six of them ) and her husband, the dogs would stay because they have been there longer then him.

2007-07-02 09:47:13 · 8 answers · asked by Dove 1 in Family

I LOVE MY ONLY DAUGHTER WITH ALL MY HEART. SHE IS ALWAYS IN NEED OF MONEY,, HELPWITH GENERAL LIFE, THEN WHEN I DO GO TO HER AIDE AND SHE GETS WHAT SHE WAS AFTER SHE ENDS UP TREATING ME LIKE AN OLD DISH RAG AND WONT CALL ME EVEN IF IM REAL ILL TO SEE IF SHE CAN DO ANYTHING TO HELP OR EVEN ASK HOW IM DOING . IN THELAST 3 MONTHS IVE LOANED HER OR SO THOUGHT IT WAS A LOAN OF AROUND $4000.00 IM AFRAID TO STOP TAKING HER CLLS FOR FEAR SHE WILL DENIE ME VISITS WITH MY 2 GRAND-DAUGHTERS. SHES GOIING THRU A DIVORCE AND TREATS THE GIRLS SO BAD THAT THEY WANT TO COME LIVE WITH ME WHICH IVE DONE BEFORE WHEN SHE RAN INTO PROBLEMS AND COULDNT KEEP THEM AT THE TIME ID APPRECIATE ANY ONES ADVICE ON THIS I FAM LITTERLY GETTING SICK FROM WORRING ABOUT HER DAUGHTERS AND HER TOO BUT MORE FOR THE CHILDREN,

2007-07-02 09:46:09 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Hello! I'm 22, got married at 19, am miserable now. Was emotionally immature and trying to escape a bad home life that made me at times literally suicidal...it was stupid of me, but it never occurred to me that I could just move out. I thought I would find fulfillment in him. Everyone told me he was such a good man (and he is) , I didn't want to be alone so I and married him. I'm not in love with him. He's moderately abusive in the emotional sense. I don't want to hurt him but I finally realize what I've done and I don't know if I can do this anymore. Right now I feel like I'm only staying because (1) to not hurt him and upset our families (mine would probably disown me), and (2) I'd be financially destitute and it would set my career/school life back years. BUT I don't know if I have it in me to be a wife to him and I feel sick when I think of staying and having kids with him. I don't want to string him along. More counseling? Divorce? Stay on the chance I might be happier one day?

2007-07-02 09:44:22 · 20 answers · asked by MamboMama 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am not a bad person and I protect myself. I don't have sex with just anyone. But what is wrong with being a passionate woman? The priests say it is even wrong to touch yourself. do you believe that thats right too?

2007-07-02 09:43:41 · 21 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Girls Only.

2007-07-02 09:41:25 · 27 answers · asked by arnold m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i really need to know im shy

2007-07-02 09:39:36 · 8 answers · asked by Silviu T 1 in Singles & Dating

About a month ago, I met a fantastic guy! My cousin found out and made the comment that she hopes to meet someone like this. She is 25 and involved with a man that is 13 years older with her, who has four children, and a girlfriend. He has lied to her repeatedly, and the only way she knew he was still with his girlfriend was because she had THEIR baby in the same hospital my cousin works at. Yet she forgave him, and they are still "together" but she always complains about him. SO recently the guy i'm involved with mentioned his cousin, who seems like a good guy...no kids no gf, etc. I asked my cousin if she'd be interested in his cousin and she eagerly agreed. I told her to be on the lookout for his number on her cell phone, because he WOULD be calling. The next day she told me his number came up, but she couldn't answer and she promised to call him back. Well, I talked to my guy today and he said that his cousin has called my cousin everyday, and she still hasn't returned

2007-07-02 09:37:58 · 24 answers · asked by Class_Act83 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-02 09:36:58 · 19 answers · asked by Morgan S 1 in Singles & Dating

Im getting married in about 6 months and im not sure if we want to do a cake for our guest. How or what can we do for dessert that would make it cheaper instead of cake that no one eats. Please help!!

2007-07-02 09:34:16 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My boyfriend is away for the summer working at an internship for grad school. We only dated exclusively for a few weeks before he took off, so he didn't really know me too well and didn't know a lot of my friends. I have a lot of guy friends who are strictly JUST FRIENDS. There is no romantic connection and there never has been. However, my bf doesn't think it's appropriate that I go out with them as friends to hang out. In addition, one of my girlfriends and I went to a movie this weekend with two of our friends. (Both guys) When he found out, he was upset because he thought we were "paired off." He said he trusted me, he just didn't trust them. I don't know if it's the distance that's making him insecure or the fact that I'm going out with friends that are males. Is he being unreasonable, or am I not being fair?

2007-07-02 09:31:46 · 14 answers · asked by Yogi 6 in Singles & Dating

When women says they prefer guys with personality than looks, are they just saying that or do they really mean it? I mean seriously really mean it. Because i think it's bull and no women would resist any guys who looks "sexy and handsome" And guys with personality are and less attractive face or body are less likely to get girls.

2007-07-02 09:25:52 · 9 answers · asked by mystic_lonewolf22 5 in Singles & Dating

I recently told my boyfriend that I want to take poledancing classes... he is pissed. I told him it is only recreational i have absoultely no plans on doing this outside of our home and the facilities as I am a college educated woman and very successful. what can i say to convince him that i am only doing this because oprah had a lady on who showed its a great way to exercise and its only a hobby??? (very serious question)

2007-07-02 09:22:36 · 20 answers · asked by deionta k 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex called me up last night wanting me to come over,but I kind of blew her off by saying that I had already made plans to go out.We're still friends,but I just don't feel like being over there all the time.Was I wrong to lie?

2007-07-02 09:19:46 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends