When women says they prefer guys with personality than looks, are they just saying that or do they really mean it? I mean seriously really mean it. Because i think it's bull and no women would resist any guys who looks "sexy and handsome" And guys with personality are and less attractive face or body are less likely to get girls.
2007-07-02 09:25:52 · 9 answers · asked by mystic_lonewolf22 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To me, personality is number 1 in the opposite sex. I don't care what people say when they say looks don't matter, b/c they are just feeding u a lot of bs, but eventhough in my eyes, looks aren't the key factor,you have to be physicaly attracted to someone in some degree and when you get to know them by their personality, their beauty is shown even more on the outside
2007-07-02 09:32:00 · answer #1 · answered by Nicole H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me both are important...if a guy is just good looking but has no personality, it really kinda takes the attraction away. I like guys that you can have a real conversation with and personality for conversations are a must. So when I say that I prefer personality over looks, I mean it.
2007-07-02 16:42:54 · answer #2 · answered by nickollete15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth is, looks grab a woman's attention first, but for most women, I believe, if they don't have a good personality, looks only get them thru the first round. Take care of yourself, ask a good girlfriend for some style tips, and be confident. Confidence is sexy, arrogance is yucky! It's quite possible to resist a "handsome" man if he is an idiot, or even high on themselves! Be true to you, and someone is going to love it!
2007-07-02 16:32:04 · answer #3 · answered by Rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the women. Some women like tall guy's, some like short guy's, some like black hair, some like blond..........my point is, beauty really is in the eye of the beholder.
My fiance is not some studly bodybuilder that models underwear...........but he is the most sexy guy to me. Even though he loves his computer and politics.
I do agree that there HAS to be some level of attractiveness there to begin with but in time along with love, that also grows too.
I also think it has a lot to do with a guy's confidence. If he feels good then he's going to look even better. If he is conceded then he will not look so good.
But to only be fair, men like beautiful women more then they like the girl next door. It's human nature to like what your attracted to. It's those who look deeper that find happiness.
2007-07-02 16:37:39 · answer #4 · answered by stinkerblinker 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe that most women my age are being very sincere when they say that. Most have already had pretty boys and are now looking for a mate that is 100% and not so into themselves and their looks. Same can be said of men as we age looks matter less and personality takes centre stage.
2007-07-02 16:30:26 · answer #5 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We mean that looks account for 25% and the rest is 75% personality. Your personality, sense of humour, intellegence, etc. can make you more attractive to us. I.e. if you are a 5, and you're hysterical, you are bumped up to a 7...Conversely, if you are a jerk, you easily looks attraction points.
2007-07-02 16:36:00 · answer #6 · answered by Miss smarty pants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no gf, but tons of friends that are girls. They feel comfortable around them because they know I won't hit on 'em. If I did, they'd all leave. It's bull, dude.
2007-07-02 16:29:18 · answer #7 · answered by davew/ad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i go for personality every time. looks can change but if he has a good personality that rarely changes.. and yes i can resist a good looking guy...........its called will power
2007-07-02 16:36:12 · answer #8 · answered by jo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I go for both looks and personality .
2007-07-02 16:28:51 · answer #9 · answered by Constance M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋