So he's my co-worker and I dont know if he likes me or not. I am really pretty and since creating this avatar, I have grown below shoulder length hair( this information is irrelevant). I usually attract stares from all types, white black etc. the other day he leaned in so close to me during a meeting, I could smell the skin on his neck. hes a very very handsome guy. I just dont know if its right to date him, cos we work together and also if he would not mind crossing color barriers. I dont mind. I have dated more white than black anyway. what to do. what to do??? he looks so yummy????
2007-07-02 10:04:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should worry less about the color difference and focus more on whether he likes you.I feel color and race is irrelevant in today's world. Wouldn't you rather be with somebody who loves you but is of a different color/race than someone of the same who will abuse you.However, being co-workers is a little trickier.If you are peers ,then I say go for it. But if one is subordinate to the other, then I would suggest you have a serious talk about the implication(vis-a vis company policy, if it doesn't work out, and the feelings of co-workers). All of this becomes irrelevant if he does not like you romantically. Find out if he does--and if he does --start eating.Just make sure you use low calorie ingredients( smile broadly).Good luck.
2007-07-02 10:23:30 · answer #1 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not date a co-worker ever. It has nothing to do with another race, it has to do with seeing this person every day in a business relationship. When you break up (and that usually happens) you will be forced to see each other every day at work. You will need to hear about his new girlfriend, where he went, what he did, etc. It is horrible. Don't do it. Keep business, business. Date him if you leave the company.
2007-07-02 10:10:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well color is irrelevant, so don't worry too much about that. But dating at work could be a disaster if you or he is put in charge of the other. Also, if you should break up, there could be a VERY messy situation seeing him every day at work. Be careful.
2007-07-02 10:07:57 · answer #3 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get him to take a walk outside during lunch one day and ask him how he feels about interracial dating and follow that up with his feelings on onteroffice dating. If that does nothing to interest him, find another white guy, My number is 1-800 xxxx
Good luck
2007-07-02 10:12:33 · answer #4 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what your company's policy is on dating co-workers. If not in conflict with your job or his, ask him out.
The race thing is not an issue at this point.
2007-07-02 10:09:08 · answer #5 · answered by Elizabeth B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out girl, race doesnt matter at all. If you really feel somethin for this guy, just give it a chance. Sounds like he might have a thing for you too
2007-07-02 10:08:42 · answer #6 · answered by babybellz14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a problem with dating a different race... he is not worth it. But i would go for it
2007-07-02 10:10:21 · answer #7 · answered by ♥I Love My Baby♂Boy♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woww your gassed.
anywayzz go head and date him but if things turn sour, get ready for some awkwardness at work
2007-07-02 10:10:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to date you he will let you know. Maybe you are putting more into it than is actually happening. If he is interested he will ask you.
2007-07-02 19:19:17 · answer #9 · answered by deb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go get ur swirl on if that's what your little heart desires. put it out there. and what's up with that? a brother can't get no love? :-)
2007-07-02 10:09:13 · answer #10 · answered by Ian from CT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋