Family & Relationships - 2 July 2007

I'm in love with a black guy and my parents are against the whole thing . It really sucks because i have to sneak behind their backs if i want to do anything with him . He's not allowed to call me and i'm not supposed to be calling him . I love him and he feels the same for me but my parents don't understand where im coming from . I met him through my best friend and my mom is trying to cut the communication off between us by making me move high schools which isnt right because that's my best friend . What should i do about my relationship ?friendship?

Please HELP !

2007-07-02 07:39:06 · 29 answers · asked by MiSS MEGHAN 3 in Singles & Dating

Not saying mine doesn't but I always wonder why men don't realize they have a good woman until she is gone or they've exhausted the relationship. Why do men ignore whats in front of their face at times for the girls who are the worst for them/ cheaters/ liars/ using them/ have hurt them in the past?


I'm not saying its only women but i'm just curious.

2007-07-02 07:38:16 · 7 answers · asked by juzdatsexy 1 in Singles & Dating

I got not one, but THREE CUISINARTS for my bridal shower. Only one was from my actual registry, the others were purchased from an unknown source and did not include a gift receipt.
I just don't know what to do with the other two. I don't want to sell them on eBay or give them away, because there are things I could use on the registry... UGH! Why don't people actually look on the darn registry! That's what it's for!

2007-07-02 07:36:55 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Sounds crazy but I just started YA and I feel a little addicted!! I get on here everyday, now I'm all into this points thing and want to see how many I can get and how fast! How do you feel about it?

2007-07-02 07:34:09 · 11 answers · asked by 0 3 in Family

The sixteen year old's parents moved to New York along with his 14 year old brother but allowed their child to remain behind in Colorado living with his grandmother for 3 months of his Junior year in High School. They told him he had a choice to finish his senior year in Colorado or to go to New York for the last year. Now his parents are revoking that choice partially on the basis that he can no longer live with his grandmother. As an alternative he would be welcomed to live with his girlfriend who is 1 year and 9 months older than him in her house while she attends college and he attends his former high school until the end of his senior year. The sixteen year old son has over a 4.0 GPA, is president-elect of the National Honor Society, returning varsity member of the tennis team, and poised captain of the school mock trial team. Is it unreasonable for him to be allowed to live with his girlfriend?

2007-07-02 07:30:23 · 7 answers · asked by invisibleman 2 in Family

Gained 35 pounds since I met my boyfriend whom I have lived with for over 6 years dating 9yrs (living like husband and wife). Is it unfair that he met me and fell in love with me at 150lbs and I now weigh 185 I am 5'0. I feel very overweight myself - he recently told me (in a nice as way as possible) that when we make love it's because he loves me but not because he finds me "hot" and would like me to shed the pounds I gained. Because of my weight I feel insecure and fear he will stray eventually he has never cheated and I know he loves me but the weight has gotten in the way of intimacy.

How would you take that? and What should I do?

2007-07-02 07:25:08 · 24 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been dating my boyfriend for quite a while and all this time i've been best freinds with his best friend. My boyfriend never has done anything wrong and he is always so sweet. I've been recently doing stuff with his/my bestfriend and i really like him too. i have so much fun with him no matter what. my current boyfriend have been dating for like 2 years but i have found that his family is crazy and always causes problems and he always tries to be cheap about everything. on the other hand my/his best friend has a great family and is never cheap. i dont want to lose my boyfreind because what if hes the one but what if my/his freind is the one? i get along with both so well. what if i make the wrong decision. please help and give my your best answers

2007-07-02 07:24:45 · 15 answers · asked by wakeboard girl 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriends parents are out of town and i want to go spend the night at his house. i could just tell my mom im staying at my other friends house for the night. should i? im afraid my friend would be mad should i ask her if its ok? im afraid my mom would find out but i dont think she would.

2007-07-02 07:24:42 · 12 answers · asked by miss_hayley 2 in Family

My wife and I have been arguing for several months and she's asked for a divorce.

We have just put every cent into buying a new home and moved in approximately 9 weeks ago. If we are to sell our house now usinga real estate agent, we would be financially ruined. Each of us would walk away with about $20,0000 in debt and this does not take into account the costs of a divorce.
I feel our differences are not big enough to justify a divorce yet she is now firm on this decisoion ver agonoizing on it for about 10 days (based on a fight, but we've beeen bickering for about 6 months).

I want to work things out with her... we've been together for 7 years most of which has really been wonderful. we still love each other but she questions whether or not she is happy these days.

For the life of me, I have no idea what to do.

2007-07-02 07:22:40 · 11 answers · asked by ? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

We've been married 7 months, shes 18 and i'm 22. Things have been going along so great for us, especially lately. We went on a trip for her birthday and everything was great. Today was the first day she moved in with me because her dad wouldn't let her until today and shes' been wanting to move in so bad and now that shes here she is upset and angry and won't talk about anything, she cries and is depressed and she up and left me and left her ring on the counter and says she won't be back for a couple days. What happened? I'm totally blindsided by this one?

2007-07-02 07:22:25 · 5 answers · asked by riowildfire 2 in Marriage & Divorce

or more assets if the other spouse cheated?

2007-07-02 07:21:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My mother and father where in the military for a long time. They divorced and my father has to pay $310.00 a month. In the divorce decree I keep getting paid every month until I'm 23 years old and in college. The last time I was paid was May 2006! The only way it stops is if I'm marriered or drop out of college. He stop the money cause he thinks I'm not in college, but I have sent him transcripts and report cards every semester. He is a college professioar at USC and a middle school JROTC sargent. He just bilt a house and owns 4 cars. He has cut my brother and sisters child support as well!!

I'm a college student, and he needs to be a real father and pay me, he has told me the only way I get paid is if I take him to court! So, I called Judge Joe Brown, which I'll be taking him to court. They told he I would have to serve him. So how do I serve my father to go to court!!??

2007-07-02 07:19:38 · 4 answers · asked by Sunshyne 1 in Marriage & Divorce

for me it's being cheated on :(

2007-07-02 07:16:29 · 64 answers · asked by Bruza 17/uk 3 in Singles & Dating

Our wedding consists of the following: 80 guests, self-catered reception. Venue is paid for. Catering will be done by future MIL. I know of all the regular expenses such as flowers, decorations, invitations, attire, food, favors, etc. What are other smaller things I'm forgetting?

2007-07-02 07:16:13 · 13 answers · asked by Linz ♥ VT 4 in Weddings

2007-07-02 07:16:11 · 9 answers · asked by Kelly L 4 in Marriage & Divorce

my gf and I want to have intercourse but shes afraid shell become pregnant or her parents will find out..is there anything I could do to make her relax and/or convince that everything will be alright? should I just wait it out? I dont want to force her...so how would i do this in a calm fashion?

2007-07-02 07:15:23 · 7 answers · asked by Samuel B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what do you think his excuse will be?

2007-07-02 07:10:36 · 58 answers · asked by Lisa T 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I do know that it is without a jury(duh), but what is a merits trial?

2007-07-02 07:09:52 · 2 answers · asked by just me 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i do

2007-07-02 07:09:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-07-02 07:09:50 · 9 answers · asked by bubblescg2008 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-02 07:09:36 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A friend is getting a divorce after seven years of marriage. His house was given as a gift to both for the wedding by her parents. His name is on the deed and he has been paying the mortgage for 7 years. There is around 600K equity on house should or can he take half? Is it ethical. I'm thinking if roles were reversed she would absolutely take half. Is that good enough reason for him to do the same?

2007-07-02 07:08:18 · 26 answers · asked by chillypowder 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean as far as BUYING him something...

2007-07-02 07:07:08 · 7 answers · asked by sisterof_3 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-02 07:06:54 · 6 answers · asked by wolf380_chel25 1 in Singles & Dating

out of interest and why?

i think im starting to go for a blondish colour, i think because i keep seeing beige, and yellow everywhere. never see a really beautiful brunette anymore. which is kind of a drawback, because its start to get me itching for one (you decide which hair colour im talking about).

2007-07-02 07:05:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what should i do? i love my boyfriend sooo much, but my best friend is looking kind of good to. im not like really a lesbian or anything, but a little bi. i dont think she likes me in 'that kind of a way', but should i maybe give it a try or tell her?

2007-07-02 07:05:11 · 7 answers · asked by hockeyangelofdeath 2 in Singles & Dating

I was initally going to have a cocktail hour but then my future MIL who is paying for basically everything decided not to have it anymore. Have you guys been to a wedding with just a dinner and no appetizers?? I want to pay for it myself but I don't want her to think that I'm going against her. She says it's going to be very wasteful because people will not eat it all.

2007-07-02 07:03:39 · 16 answers · asked by Goldie 3 in Weddings

Now that I am in my second trimester my hormones have gone wild. I catch myself thinking alot about other girls....

Not just that our sex life has been the best ever!!!! I even want it more then I ever did, my poor boyfriend i'm sure is wore out.

Back to the intrest in girls is this normal? it's gotten to the point where my b/f catches me checking out some girls *** before I catch him, he just jokes about it. to be honest it turns us both on.

2007-07-02 07:02:33 · 5 answers · asked by We're Engaged 3 in Singles & Dating

Help me please. I went camping and I saw/met this guy and I really liked him but I never asked his name or number, becuase we got busy talking bout other things and I just totally forgot. All I know is that he works at the indiana beach amusment park and he was working the antique car rides on friday june 30, 07. Please help me find him somehow or give me ways to find him.

2007-07-02 07:01:35 · 11 answers · asked by Katie 1 in Singles & Dating

I got set up on a blind date over the weekend. We had talked on the phone and he had seen my picture before. He was the one that kept wanting to be set up with me. We met with a group of people we both knew first since we did not know each other. Well when he walked in and I saw him I just kind of forgot what I was saying to the other people there. Afterwards we went for a drink and a movie. He took me home and said he had a good time. That was all. Should I do anything or wait it out?

2007-07-02 07:01:29 · 14 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating