My son is bypolar and his wife gives him his medication, the problem is that she will hide his pills and he panics thinking he doesn't have pills for the next day. When is feel down, because he can't see his daughter from a previous relation, she keeps talking about her. Now she telling people(and me) that he's crazy, that he's a bad husband. She is very jealous, if my daughter and my son get along, she get very moody and make sure that can't get along.She said that if she had to choose between her dogs (six of them ) and her husband, the dogs would stay because they have been there longer then him.
2007-07-02 09:47:13 · 8 answers · asked by Dove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
He is your son! Of course you should tell him, he is blood. That woman is not good for him. Even though he is bypolar, that doesn't mean that he has to be married to someone that treats him worse than a dog. I just can't believe she would have the balls to say things like that to you. I think maybe she might be trying to fully pull him away from his family. Seriously think about it. You tell him all the bad things she says about him. Then he flips out on you for lying and trying to ruin their marriage. When you tell him have reinforcements with you. Don't just tell him, plan an intervention!
2007-07-02 10:12:35 · answer #1 · answered by jessica s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in quite a predicament. On one hand, if you tell your son, he might not believe you, or she'll probably lie to him and you'll end up looking like the bad guy or troublemaker. On the other hand, he IS your son, and what this woman is doing is wrong. She's rather selfish, isn't she? I would just tell him and see where it goes from there. She obviously hasn't invested that much into the marriage if she'd pick her dogs over your son. I wouldn't want my child to be with someone like that! I hope it works out okay, no matter what you choose to do.
2007-07-02 17:00:44 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesnt need to be with her. Bipolarism is a serious illness, first of all if he's bipolar he needs to be in professional care, and needs to have access to all of his medication. There is nothing wrong with her making sure he takes them but she is not his mother or nurse and he needs ot have them.
Hiding them is plain wrong, I have severe PTSD and if my SO hid my meds I would be livid at him, same for him and his medications.
Seems that she is resentful that she feels she has to take care of him, and he deserves better.
Someone with bipolarism can live a normal happy life and she's not allowing that esp. with that kind of talk behind his back.
2007-07-02 16:57:15 · answer #3 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is the one that needs meds! If you and your son get along like that and he trust everything you say, then tell him. His wife sounds like she is a threat to him. I guarantee that if he left her, he would be a better person!
2007-07-02 16:56:05 · answer #4 · answered by Jennbugged 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you maybe should tell him what she is saying about him.Because she can't really before himif she issaying things like that about him. Just be really careful with that cause it is her husband.
2007-07-02 16:54:29 · answer #5 · answered by mesha w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell your son, why on earth wouldn't you! get that woman out of his life
2007-07-02 16:51:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with a counselor about this person.
2007-07-02 17:00:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i would tell him
2007-07-02 16:52:24 · answer #8 · answered by Demsters 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋