I moved from LA before I met her in person. She has emailed me every once in a while to check up on me. We had a couple 2 hour phone conversations. I don't want to bring up dating her, but I do like her. I am 8 yr older than her and she said that she would not date anyone a few yrs younger than her, but would for sure date someone older.
I told her that I am planning on moving back to LA permanently in about 6 months. That is where I liked to live the most, so it is not for her.
I would love to go out with this girl. I like her a lot and I think though we have never met in person, it has a good chance of working out.
I mentioned before that I would like to meet up with her (casual sounding) next time I am in LA. She agreed.
I want to make the first meeting as friends like as possible, so there is no pressure. What do you think my chances are with this girl? How should I do this?
2007-07-02 08:40:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't she ever actually meant to hook up with me when meeting. I just sent her an email last minute when I was in town and asked if she wanted to meet up. I didn't know that she only checks her email at work so she didn't get it in time and said she was sorry that she didn't know I was in town and we would meet up next time. I probably should hint a bit more that she is my type, when I talk with her though, like say I like girls with dark hair, etc. I'm pretty sure she had a bit of a clue that I may be interested though. I am more of the clueless type.
2007-07-02 08:54:37 · update #1
I dont think we or you can determine your chances until you actually meet her and spend some time with her. The fact that you have had good conversation and kept in touch this long is definitely a positive sign.
Make sure you plan something fun and different but casual with this girl and make sure its something you feel natural doing! You want her to get to know the real you and you the real her so that you can decide if this is worth pursuing.
I have 3 friends that have all met and married their husbands online so it can work!
Good luck to you.
2007-07-02 08:44:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may be high-quality to start up courting a pair of months . . . after your divorce is very final, no longer purely which you and your spouse have separated. She isn't yet your ex. So is a 20 year previous waiting to calm down . . . in case you will be able to desire to ask the question you already comprehend the respond to that one. the guideline was once which you do no longer convey a guy around your toddlers for a minimum of the 1st few MONTHS which you're casually courting. You met her 'on line' and on the 2d actual date you meet her son?!? She is finding for a alternative guy/dad. None of her movements tutor adulthood. A 'mom' hooking up with a guy on line and immediately introducing her new child . . . that may no longer lots distinctive that what your spouse did moving in with yet another guy.
2016-11-07 23:30:31 · answer #2 · answered by piazza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a very similar situation. I talked to a girl online for about 4.5 years. She said she'd date me if we ever met. Sure enough, after 4.5 years, we met up. We dated for a month, but it didn't work out. She ended up being a totally different person than I thought. She wanted to continue the relationship, but I had no interest.
2007-07-02 08:47:06 · answer #3 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to be honest and tell her what you are thinking... ask to meet her and go from there.
if she has no intentions of having the samr relationship then you will not looking for something that is not going to happen and get your hopes up!! know what you are going into with your eyes wide open and just see how it plays out!! good luck!!!
2007-07-02 08:45:48 · answer #4 · answered by dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your chances are about 65%
you should take your hottest suit,maybe some sun glasses too and then act normally(if you want to live the rest of your life with that girl,she must like you for what you really are,not for how you had pretended to be)
2007-07-02 08:45:28 · answer #5 · answered by Stefy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has already decided she would like to hook up with you. If you treat her as a friend she will be insulted or heartbroken.
2007-07-02 08:44:17 · answer #6 · answered by glen_loves_fun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋