I was in love with my best friend, he had a girlfriend, they broke up, a couple of months later I slept with him. I had never been friends with his ex. he told me all this stuff about how he envisaged us together in the future, we were meant for each other etc but 3 days later slept with his ex. She knew nothing about what happened between him and me and he wouldn't tell her. He told me it meant nothing what happened with her and promised it wouldn't happen again, but it did. Then on Saturday, we had a party and she came and he was there and I got very drunk and apparently his ex overheard me talking about him to one of my friends, I think I was talking about some of the stuff he'd said to me and some of the things about our relationship and how we loved each other and stuff. I don't know if I meant for her to hear, but i know I probably wanted her to find out. She got really angry, he confessed to her and now he is angry and won't talk to me. For some reason i feel guilty.Should i?
2007-07-02 03:03:12 · 17 answers · asked by Katrina W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girl you need to say goodbye to this man, he is sleeping with two women!!! You and His other girlfriend, what a slime ball, God, look Honey Child you need to say good bye to this man, he ain't no good for you, I know it hurts, I've been played before by my first boyfriend, we were together for about 3 years( he told me he only dated men and that he only slept with men) and I caught him and my best girl friend in the act! Get rid of him and don't feel guilty, he totally took advantage of you by convincing you that he ''needed'' you to heal his broken heart. Please don't put up with his Manipulative conniving ways, break free. You deserve a partner that is going to be honest and faithful to you, not some two timing,no good, Mister lover white boy who can't keep his D**K in his pants. Get Rid of him or more heart will follow, Mark my words.
2007-07-02 03:14:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no i dont think that you are a wrong for what you said i think that you should have went up to his ex after the first time wether he said it ment nothing or whatever. Cheating is Cheating. I am a guy and i have a very beautiful girlfriend and if i even think about another girl i start to feel bad. I would leave that guy if i were you and not worry about him being mad at you because all he is doing is using you.
Tim
2007-07-02 10:14:24 · answer #2 · answered by Man of love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't feel guilty! If he didn't want to tell her about your relationship, it means that he doesn't really care about you. Face it honey, I'm not trying to make you angry. But they broke up, than you 2 hooked up, than he slept with his ex, they got back together, & than he wasn't willing to tell her about you 2. THAN, when it was finally out in the open, he got angry with you because you told! That is not someone you want to care for! He may have wanted to sleep with you because he was depressed over losing his girl.
2007-07-02 10:12:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. HE's the player, not you honey. I'm glad she found out. I really don't think this "man" is worth your time anymore. I mean come on... he told you he loved you but then wouldn't even fess up to his ex about you?? What a jerk! Find a guy who respects you. It may take some patience, but trust me, they do exist.
2007-07-02 10:08:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was obviously using u so i would'nt feel guilty! he slept with her after he said he didnt care about her which means if hes telling the truth he has no problem sleeping with people he has no feelings for and he will not be faithful to you or his wife. let him go,hes a dog. he would have no problem sleeping with a 3rd girl, I'd say his wife has her hands full.let her have that headache! and yes u meant for her to hear u .
2007-07-02 10:14:31 · answer #5 · answered by pennylane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no! He was using the both of you... and you telling the other chick ruined his booty time with the both of you. He's a player who knows how to say all the right lines... he's smart... but obvuisly not smart enough. the both of you know. kick him, he should be the guilty one. He is! You did nothing wrong, find a man who's up to your worth... (not your current one)
Good Luck (and dont feel guilty)
2007-07-02 10:07:55 · answer #6 · answered by Jen T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The angry ones should be her ex and you, not him. Anyway, find someone else, don't wait for him, and he'll probably come back to you later on.
2007-07-02 10:08:05 · answer #7 · answered by Don Magias 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's all your fault...it seems to me that your best friend seems to be cheating your feelings, or it could be that he had not gotten over his ex and was just using you as a sub.
2007-07-02 10:08:08 · answer #8 · answered by Giselle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy doesn't need your trust if he's not gonna' keep it. don't talk to him either. Start hanging out with other guys not to hook up with just to be friends with unless you don't like this guy anymore.
Very best of luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-07-02 10:10:34 · answer #9 · answered by sulution_thang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a big jerk
not you
what do you need a friend like him
you did nothing bad
2007-07-02 10:08:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋