What if your girlfriend had a lot of financial trouble and a child and had no family or anyone to help her would you leave her if you found out she was an escort to make money to try and solve her problems or would you stay? Suppose you couldnt help her financially but you really love her and have been together for 10 years? Please help!
2007-07-02 04:38:39 · 17 answers · asked by paul 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it is a business not a hobby
2007-07-09 00:10:08 · answer #1 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear your story, but yes i would say she is an escort and probably has been for several months. Seeing her housemates move into the escorting world and then see how much money they were making and the fake breasts they got with that money must have been hard for her. The temptation must have there for her......her friends would have been on to her from the moment they became escorts to give it a go. She has given in to the temptation, thats for sure. Even if she just did it to give it a try, the money on offer and having men want her body no doubt became addictive for her and she was never ever going to stop doing it. By moving into a house her manager owns she has affirmed her commitment to him of being one of his escorts, he has got all three of them exactly where he wants them - in a place he owns. The next natural step for her is the breast implants, and then becoming single so she can enjoy the life escorting brings. I'm sorry.
2016-05-21 02:19:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, only you can decide if you love her enough to stay with her knowing about what kind of work she does. Has she been an escort for all these 10 years or did she just recently become an escort? I would say it is up to the boyfriend to decide though. I don't know what's going on in her mind or in his.
2007-07-02 04:50:35 · answer #3 · answered by Mari76 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what?!
come on there are tons of struggling parents in the world that don't drop their pants to survive.
there are other jobs out there...even if you have to get more than 1 at a time.
being an "escort" just isn't an acceptable job for the dog i love let alone someone i think i want to live the rest of my life with as my partner
do you not think you wont eventually catch the "creeper" or some other nasty disease?
2007-07-02 04:55:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Such a complicated moral question...there are many different things that one would have to look at to make a determination...that is all personally based. What is the moral stance of the individual who has to decide if the relationship is salvagable with such a career move? Is there a moral opposition to infidelity?
Personally, I know that I would have a difficult time dealing with a profession of sexual contact performed by my significant other. Others may be alright with it.
2007-07-02 04:43:31 · answer #5 · answered by chuckna21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If after ten years your just finding out now that she is an escort, then you already have your answer..... you know you can make work. I would say go for it, love can change anything or it can change nothing at all.
2007-07-02 04:44:17 · answer #6 · answered by Just Life, Trying To Live It. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You people are insane.It's a job??And she is doing it for money.Screw ya ******* brain on.This has been a relationship for 10 year's.Come on you go through 10 years of solitude then you waste it on someone who in the end tell's you that it's over when you only just find out that it was to hard to keep ya pant's on and cherish and be loyal to that one and only.
DAMN!
2007-07-02 05:40:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could deal with an "escort"; no way I'd deal with a prostitute.
Too many honest ways to make a living
2007-07-02 04:41:42 · answer #8 · answered by wizjp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
F that escort = prostitute i would leave she has no self respect for doin that i bet she is into some form of drugs too pls watch out
2007-07-02 04:42:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
deep down i think u already know the answer to this question u obviously love her and accept it and too be with her this long and shes still doing it dosnt make her love u any less sounds like shes used to it so it makes her feel secure and reminds her of who she is i think u should maybe talk to her about it and see what she says communication is the key to a successfull relationship
2007-07-08 23:17:48 · answer #10 · answered by shaggie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love her, you'll find a way to help her so she doesn't have to go on selling herself. imagine how she must feel. and you say you've been together for 10 years? i think thats plenty of time for you to step up and be a man.
2007-07-02 04:45:26 · answer #11 · answered by shelleighgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋